I am 28, and never had any girlfriend. I have sexual addiction (compulsive musterbation, sexual fantacy thinking).
I don't hope I will find any real sex partner. To recover from my sexual addiction and depression, I decided to practice celibacy. I want to know that, how longtime I have to force myself to stop sexual activity? Will a time come when I have no sexual desire and So I will not have to force myself and will be free from pain?
2007-08-30 08:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your celibacy isn't going to do you much good without counseling or a 12-step program to go with it. Celibacy alone will not cause you to stop wanting sex. The purpose of a period of celibacy is both to prove to yourself that sex is a want, not a need, and also to put sexual desire in its proper perspective. A period of celibacy can help sex go from an all-consuming obsession, to much more normal desire. However, being in a group of similar individuals will help you process these changes in your mind.
I understand what you're saying. You want peace of mind because of the torment that your sex addiction causes you. Celibacy is one tool, but it has no magical powers. Work a program and/or get into counseling too.
2007-08-30 08:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Sexual desire is a natural human response, and should be indulged, not repressed. Sexual addiction is very hard to define, anyway. In order to be an addiction, it should be harmful or interfere with other aspects of your life in an adverse way. Anyway, how much masturbation is compulsive? I've had some good days where I've gotten maybe 12 or 13 good sessions. Once a day is fine, though.
2007-08-30 15:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by John S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well to what i read...... it doesn't seem that Ur a sex addict. its just Ur hormones screaming for some female intercourse. that's nature, its like a any other animal out their, when they are in heat, it calls for immediate sexual relief.
2007-08-30 15:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep going to your 12 step meetings!
2007-08-30 15:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife had cancer and our sex life was greatly inhibited by the disease. She has since passed away, but I am still able and interested.
2007-08-30 15:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Randy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god! are you serious? you get depressed with sex ? the only thing you can do is to go to a good psychiatric
i hope i misunderstood
2007-08-30 15:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jea Engel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should change your name to blue balls
2007-08-30 15:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hun get a girlfriend....
2007-08-30 15:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋