Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

I BEEN MARRIED FOR 9 YRS TO MY HUBBY, 1 MONTH 1/2 AGO HE BEGAN HAVING AN AFFAIR W/ A YOUNGER GIRL. THE GIRL IS NOW 5 WEEKS PREGNANT AND KEEPING IT. MY HUBBY DENIED IT TO THE FULLEST UNTIL LAST NIGHT HE CAME CLEAN..I NEED HELP HOW DO I MOVE ON I AM SO DEVISTATED

2007-08-30 10:02:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It looks like my sister, who's in her 50s, will get married for the third time. No engagement yet, but we're "hearing wedding bells". My other sister and I have never been married. So, I'm thinking of getting my sister, if she does get engaged the third time, a gag gift of a copy of Gone with the Wind--book and/or movie--or maybe a Scarlett O'Hara doll in a wedding dress, if I can afford that. Scarlett married three times while her sisters never did.

When my pastor had his fourth daughter--no sons--I got him the book LIttle Women. When a churchmate had her fourth daughter--no sons--I got her Little Town on the Prairie. When her fifth child was a boy, I told her that if she'd had a fifth daughter, I'd have gotten her Fiddler on the Roof.

So, what do you think of Gone with the Wind for my possibly thrice-married sister?

2007-08-30 10:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by MNL_1221 6 in Weddings

2007-08-30 10:01:02 · 4 answers · asked by Authentick Wifey 1 in Singles & Dating

I ask this question because there is this notorious apartment area by the college I'm going to that people say has this problem. The girls are so easy on weekends that wholescale orgies happen here and there is a female to male ratio of about 80%. I don't know if I want to try my chances of getting in the pool tommorow night and getting weird red bumps around my genitlia. I might just take a drunk one home and triple wrap Mr. Johnson.

2007-08-30 09:58:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my sister are really close she has my nephew who is 6 and is due to have her next baby(a girl) in november. ive recently got back with my daughters father who i love,after being split up for 5 weeks. me and him have been on and off for nearly 6 years,after having other relationships and domestic violence. i have been wrong at times in the relationship too,but even tho he dont continue hit me no more,she will not accept the fact we're back together and we love each other and want to make it work. wm worried now she wont let me see my nephew or my unborn neice i love her and her family so much and dont want to loose touch with her,but i know she's already changed her number,she knows where i live i jus hope one day she'll visit us and see blood is thicker than water?

2007-08-30 09:57:29 · 8 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family

My fiance already has a good idea of what she wants to wear. I am still in a quandry. The wedding will be different, meaning no tuxedos, white veils etc.

We are doing things differently, because we want to. No following the sheep for us.

So what are people's suggestions for me as the groom and my groomsmen, my two scruffy nephews?

Get creative people, I am all ears (or eyes in the case of Yahoo Answers)

2007-08-30 09:56:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I started school about a month ago..im fresh out of high school..ready and prepared for college..there was this guy..his walk caught my attention..he's 23..and he's kute..filipino and mexican..im pretty sure you guys know what hyphy is..and he's into all that stuff..but he doesn't seem cocky..very nice and jokeful. so yes..im kind of interested..but is he..he wants me to sit next to him in class..whenever he talks to me..he looks directly in my eyes..i texted him asking help with hw..and we just ended up talking about something else..he laughs..and we joke and i catch him looking at me sometimes..he smiles alot..so do i..so..is he interested.?

2007-08-30 09:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is no law that you HAVE TO get married.
Why not stay single?

2007-08-30 09:56:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 09:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by WhErE Do I BeGiN??? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your mother was in a divorce with your father and you were stuck living with him because you know your half-sister intends to throw him in a nursing home and take everything he has the first chance she gets, but you mother, despite the fact that you love and are trying to help both your parents, often acts like you hate her?

2007-08-30 09:54:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

'cos she doesn't like alcholic drinks i can't get her drunk is there any other ways?

2007-08-30 09:54:11 · 25 answers · asked by franchesco 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has a boyfriend who i happen to like some how she found out and but wats weird is that today he came up to me saying he wants to break up with her for someone else but the someone else he wants to go out with is our other friend. what should i do?

2007-08-30 09:52:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, My husband and I worked with a youth group at a local church. I got really closed to the pastors oldest daughter. She was going through a rough time and I really felt that God had brought me there to be an influence to her and encourage better behavior. After being there 2 years we felt led to leave the church.

This girl will be 18 in a few weeks. Her parents are really hard on her. She has rededicated her life to the Lord and has really matured through the years. She is a senior and is working a part time job. Her dad refers to her as a pain in his flesh. her parents are always telling her to get a second job to pay for her school supplies and school clothes. She pays her Car payment, Car Taxes, Insurance, gas and cell phone bill. They do not make her younger sister pay for her own cell phone.

She feels really close to me and my family. I have 4 children ages 7 ,4 and 2 year old twins. Should I let her move in with us? What is your opinion?

2007-08-30 09:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-30 09:51:26 · 16 answers · asked by Tee G 1 in Weddings

Ok heres the deal. I am so so much in love with my boyfriend I've known him 5 yrs. We practiclly grew up together. My dad dont like him and he dont kno bout us dating in watever but I dont even care if he has a prob. wit it. But I am afraid tht ppl will doubt i really love him because im 2 young (im 14) but i say age dont matter I still have the ability to love. I love him more then life. I am older then he is and sum ppl hav a prob. with tht 2.. Do u think im to young to love n y? and wut should i do wit critisisim?

2007-08-30 09:51:05 · 1 answers · asked by sweetkisses 2 in Singles & Dating

be honest, nothing about personality [like if theyre nice] because in this situation, you haven't talked to the girl yet. oh, and what are major turn offs at first glance too.

2007-08-30 09:49:52 · 28 answers · asked by lovealltrustfew 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m a single guy in my mid-40s. I have had a couple of fairly serious relationships. It seems that dating gets harder and harder as I get older. I do have many close friends-female and male. I was born an only child, but absolutely hate my family. They all live about a thousand miles away from me. I force myself to visit once every 7-10 years, but I hate it. My mother told me that she didn’t want any more kids because she didn’t want to bring anyone else into this “hell of a family.” I am told that I am attractive and smart-that I am decent guy. One friend named her firstborn child after me. I have a decent job. I also belong to a religious organization, and I am a leader in it. I like women, but I just don’t deeply connect—in the way that I would like to.

2007-08-30 09:48:26 · 10 answers · asked by nakedtruth 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 09:45:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 09:41:34 · 2 answers · asked by zoe b 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my husband and his family go camping every other weekend during the summer, labor day weekend will be the last one of the season. About a month ago, while at a camping trip, the entire family got into a BIG fight. I told my husband that I never wanted to go back camping with them like that. And that I would NOT go back at all this year! Now, the entire family is getting ready for this weekends camping trip and they all assumed that I was going, no one, including my husband, ever asked if I wanted to go. Since no one asked and I didn't want to go anyways, I made other plans to join two friends in Lake Tahoe. I told my husband since it was my 3 day weekend and no one asked me or even bothered to listen to me that I didn't want to go, I went ahead and made other plans. Now he is mad at me for not going with him and his family. And even madder at me because I want to so something else. Help! Did I do the right thing? or did I just really screw up?

2007-08-30 09:41:33 · 14 answers · asked by Sparky092405 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a happy married life.
He is my friends husband.
We worked for 2 years.
He was very respectable when i worked ther.
He expresed his love after i came out of the job.
He sys he expects nothing from my side.
He adores the way i handle the work and so many other things.
He says he expects nothing from my side.
Is it love or luct?
he says he likes me from since long back and he could not express it but now he could not keep it in him so he expressed it.
Is it true love or Just lust?

2007-08-30 09:40:28 · 38 answers · asked by honey 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl who is a year older then me and i think she likes me too, ive known her for a few months now and im not sure on how to compliment her the next time i see her

Btw im always gna see her every week which could make things difficult after.

2007-08-30 09:40:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I caught the office manager /payroll person on my husbands job throwing herself at him . She was against him , with her face 6 inches from his , and talking to him in an intimate way . Up close and personal . He was going to her house occasionally to do "side" jobs. She's single and looking . He claimed she is a co-worker only. On my jobs I would never be allowed to get "on" another co-worker like she was "on" him . To top it off , he did nothing to push her off of him , all he did was make sure she knew I was there by pointing repeatedly in my direction till she finally got it . To top that off , the job has not been lucrative for the past year . As in the pay dropped by half . We have had a difficult time paying rent for this whole year . But he refused to look for another job . So when all this happened , I said "co-worker my a**". I then demanded that he never go to her house again and that he look for another job . He says the only reason he has a new job is because I overreacted.

2007-08-30 09:37:51 · 35 answers · asked by opinionated 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 09:37:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 09:35:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 09:34:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so im in my last year of high school and im dating this girl. We have been dating for awhile now and we want to have sex. But the problem is we dont really have a place to do it at. There is ALWAYS somebody here at my house and same with hers. Plus neither one of us has cars or jobs. So we cant get a room. What do I do? Where can I take her to have sex?

2007-08-30 09:34:35 · 7 answers · asked by Tai ! 1 in Singles & Dating

In some situations like small argument it can happen that your boyfriend puts hand over your mouth silencing you. It can also happen in joking, gentle way and in playfull situations. .How do you react? Do you try to free yourself or let the hand be there and accept it. Do you make sounds like mppphing or try to talk to his palm? Do you sometimes enjoy it? Does it ever make you excited when your boyfriend´s hand is over your mouth?

2007-08-30 09:31:01 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My nephew is a product of surrrogacy 16 years ago . He recently ended up with my sister who was the surrogate. When he arrived he was unkept, rude, hates whites(is white), hates the south, democrats(figure that one out), hates the people at his high school, hates to learn, take direction, is argumentative,
cusses, breaks things, no respect for people ,relatives, things ,(unless he owns them!!!,all organized in his room ), wears his pants around his behind,wants to be in a gang, be a wrestler, fight animals,anti social but also tries to have nice qualities too from time to time. It seems like an act, but you cannot seems to break his patterns of behavior. Any advice out there before we pack him up and send him on his way? Would like for him to make it in this world. Help!!!!

2007-08-30 09:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by tlcolumb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a comic book nerd and one day I'll be an comic book artist, but when I tell women that they think it's weird and never speak to me again.

2007-08-30 09:25:46 · 4 answers · asked by Big Man 1 in Singles & Dating