can a men fall in love with other women after his marriage?

Question

I have a happy married life.
He is my friends husband.
We worked for 2 years.
He was very respectable when i worked ther.
He expresed his love after i came out of the job.
He sys he expects nothing from my side.
He adores the way i handle the work and so many other things.
He says he expects nothing from my side.
Is it love or luct?
he says he likes me from since long back and he could not express it but now he could not keep it in him so he expressed it.
Is it true love or Just lust?

Answer 1

Your curiousity makes it sound like you're interested. Try not to worry about why he is feeling the way that he is. Love is not self-seeking, so if it was true love, he would not express this knowing that it messes with your head and interferes with your marraige. Ask him to stop expressing these things, save your marraige, and let him get over his feelings. They are just feelings - and they will come and go. You are not missing out on anything. Be true to your spouse and the committment you made.

Answer 2

Of course both men and women can fall in love after marriage. Love has no conscience knows no boundaries. If the setting is right and the chemistry is there love of some kind will develop sooner or later. What you have to do is know the difference between love and lust now there is a fine line all to often that is confused and crossed over in the name of love.

Answer 3

Just like the night in Gail theory Men often fall in love with or think they are in love with their co workers , wives friends, and others like that. Don't take him seriously! Tell him that u r flattered and leave it at that !~ Don't stray from your marriage and don't tell your friend or husband! This will only cause problems and since u say you are happily married there is no reason to do anything about it. I think the reason Men do this is #1 because they spend so much time with a women they work with both end up being able to end each others sentences so its easy to become attracted to that women . plus they spend often more time at work with her than they do at home with their families. #2 It goes back to the whole macho conquer thing . Just let the whole thing lie!

Answer 4

To answer your question, yes they can, it happens all the time.

Now, on to the rest of your info...If you have a happy married life why do you care about this other guy? Do not ruin your marriage or your friends over this. Tell this guy that you're flattered but you are happily married and you're not interested. Then suggest he either try to work things out with his wife (who need I remind you, is your friend) or he needs have some freaking integrity and leave her before he decides to persue other relations! I mean really, even if he did claim to love you- do you want to be with someone like that?? Also if this friend is a good friend of yours, you may want to clue her in on her husband's "interests" outside of her marriage.

Answer 5

A man can lust after another after marriage as a woman can as well. You say you are happy why would you risk that? Its your friends husband how can you even think of crossing that line? What does that say about the man? He knows you are friends with his wife, how low can he go? How can he love you? He hasnt spent time with you, he hasnt shared memories other then lusting after you. Dont be a blind fool. Oh he expects nothing, then why did he tell you? Of course he expects you to be filled with ego and start seeing him in a different light. Do not be a fool. He doesnt love you. Hes scum

Answer 6

Yes a man call fall in love after his marriage, and a woman can fall in love after her marriage. However, in many of those cases, it's the excitement of the chase and the desire for the forbidden that fuels the affair. Afterwards there is remorse and regret. Tell him you have no desire to break up your marriage and hurt your spouses, then stay away from him. If he expected nothing from you, he would have loved you from afar.

Answer 7

I think anyone can fall in love. The trick is not putting yourself in that situation after you've committed yourself to another person.

He may love you but remember that he definitely loves his wife and they probably have a lot more history. If I were you I wouldn't even entertain whether he loved you or not. Just run. That sounds like a bad situation.

Answer 8

we all fall in love all the time, it's just a matter of commitment and long trust. if we tend to easily like a person by spending so much time with them and we are married, it's best to move way and try to concentrate on the marriage. When all the dust clears, the women involved and the children are always the loser. please check out one of my article in my blog, it talks about a struggle of one girl from an affair.

Help my Affair with a married guy goes astray! Ask the Real love doctor and the love doctor answers---------->
http://reallovedoc.blogspot.com/2007/08/help-my-affair-with-married-guy-goes.html

Answer 9

sure people can fall in and out of love all the time - marriage is no guarantee that you will always love each other. but some people allow or instigate that more than others, that is lustful but they could truly fall in love with another person - i think they have sought it out first tho

Answer 10

He's leaving things open for you to make a move and end up being the fool. Whether it's love or lust, it's going to tear your life apart. If this jerk starts again, tell him to leave you alone, and to be on the safe side, find another friend.