Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

2007-08-30 09:24:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left 15 months ago to be with the neighborhood sluut. He now wants to "get his family back" because the kids are suffering. Should I give him a chance? Did you do this and regret it?

2007-08-30 09:23:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel a bit strange hanging with them because all they do is talk about girls and going out. Nothing i want to hear about. I would rather i not be around his friends but he insist and wants me to do everything with him. How do i tell him i rather not without hurting his feelings?

2007-08-30 09:22:27 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 09:22:20 · 13 answers · asked by girtie 1 in Family

i will understand why smart, sexy, beautiful women fall for men who abuse them.

2007-08-30 09:22:14 · 26 answers · asked by ultralord41 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I suspect he is hiding something in his cell phone. I hope he isn't but that's just what I think. Why would someone lock their cell phone all the time and be very cautious about it? I had an incident occur where I went through his phone and found a text message to a "female friend". I even had a chit chat with her and she said he was just a friend and she didnt want to even talk to him and she didn't answer his text. Anyways, the point is I hope he isn't hiding other female's phone numbers and do you think he is?

2007-08-30 09:21:50 · 45 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband acts very strange sometimes, there is days that he is loving and others he is very indiferent and cold , yesterday he came home late, he usually comes around nine but he came later than that, and he always let me know if he is going to dinner or if there are meetings with his colleages, he came home and was very indiferent, usually he is sweet but I just let it go . I also let him know that I was little moody and didn't feel good, I wanted to sleep but he doesn't like me to sleep if he is not, so we went to sleep and really I was hurting bad, and woke up several times, then opened the window a little, for my bad luck the tv in the livingroom feel I had to get up to pick it up, then get back in bed the alarm sounds I have to get up and all of the sudden he gets up and goes to the living room I asked what was wrong he said that it was over, and that he could not stand me, I tried to lay next to him but he pushed

2007-08-30 09:19:26 · 3 answers · asked by serenity23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 09:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by stephen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 09:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by H@RRiSoNHiPPo 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife was plannig on cheating on me with her boss she already kissed him I read it in one of her journals that she keep for taking notes in at church. any ways she was planning on having sex with him until I confronted her about it her boss is a married man as well what should I do short of killing them both?

2007-08-30 09:13:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My last name is Britt

2007-08-30 09:13:35 · 4 answers · asked by Doug 1 in Family

I want to do something for my boyfriend- something sweet, that shows how much i really Love and Appreciate him. I want it to be something original- besides the whole romantic dinner for two, long walk on the beach cliche. Something small and sincere. Any ideas/experinces you'd like to share?
Thanks so much!

2007-08-30 09:13:01 · 1 answers · asked by patilli2 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 09:11:34 · 9 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i know i cant do anything,but i can atleast give her Advise right.Well she is hardworking,always working,if not looking for a job.She is Responsible,and not to mension an Attractive girl.Well her bf is soo LAZY he doesnt want to work,unless its at a bank,or something that pays ALOT...he does not believe in hard Labor.It drives all my family crazy that He is soo lazy,and iresponsible.My sister helps him out alot money wise...he is never there for her,and doesnt treat her the way she should be treated.I hate the fact that she just wont give up on him.Everyone knows she can do better.Ive told her many times,and still doesnt care.Well i heard he was going to get paid witout working(something about the goverment giving him money every month) isnt that being a bumb kinda?...They are both practicaly 20.What can i tell her to open up her eyes before its too late.Shes waisting her time with this usless guy!!

2007-08-30 09:09:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl's cheekbones don't protrude at all? Well, everyone's does to some extent but mine are ever so slight, you'd probably think I don't have any. The only time they show up is when I make a stupid kissy face.

But this is affecting my self esteem greatly... especially from the side, my face looks kind of sallow and 'lazy.' And it looks ten times worse in bad light, which exists *everywhere* (school, hah)

Sorry, I have no pic to put up.. but please answer anyway?

2007-08-30 09:09:11 · 2 answers · asked by ♪Libellule 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 09:08:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband told me that he wants to divorce me... We live in different states... and he is active duty in the Air Force. He let me know that he has no intention of me joining him where he is at. I also cannot get in touch with him. He will not answer my phone calls and has made no attempt to contact me. Therefore I am left in the dark as to what actions he has taken to start this divorce that HE wants. I dont know much about his job.. therefore I am not sure how to contact his chain of command to ensure that he is doing things the right way. I am not expecting him to support me, but we have been married for a month and he has done nothing to aid me. He was the one that wanted to get married, and now he says he isnt willing to work... that he doesnt even want to try. I am left to live with my parents. I refuse to file for the divorce... if he wants it.. he should file and pay for it also. Am I supposed to wait for weeks for him to finally contact me?

2007-08-30 09:04:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When they reject a guy it is no big deal and they just go on their merry way. However, if a guy they like rejects them they get really really pissed off at the guy or they keep bugging the guy until he accepts a date with them. Girls, it's a two-way street. If you reject a guy and you're happy with that, you should also respect the guy's decision that he doesn't want to date you. And don't tell me "Because we are girls and emotional we can get away with that." That is such a BS and sexist comment. Just because you're girls doesn't give you more privilege in the dating game. If you want a guy to respect you for your decision not to date him then you also have to respect the guy's decision when he doesn't want to date you. Girls who are hypocrites on this matter are a bunch of self-serving ------.

2007-08-30 09:04:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now a days everything that my bf does is wrong. he takes me out to lunch and then i get mad.he tries his best to fit me in his schedule and i still get mad.it seems that no matter what he does is not good enough.i am not a picky person nor bitchy but i do not understand why i am acting like that towards the guy that i have known for 26 months and dated as well.what he heck is wrong with me? i am 23 he is about to turn 25

2007-08-30 09:03:41 · 5 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

We split up 3 months ago, but it seems he wont except that we are over. I have moved on and am in a relationship with someone else.
We have 2 kids together and we try to get on for their sakes, but recently i have caught him looking in my kitchen window (i live in a 1st floor flat) and peeping through my letter box at night spying on us.
Although this might not seem like much, i find it very unnerving and a bit scary!
He always runs away when spotted and denies it ever happened.
Don't want to have to take a restraining order out against him for fear of repercussions against our kids, but don't know what else to do.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

2007-08-30 09:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by doodlepol 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do most guys go for Blondes or do you prefer brunettes? I'm a brunette and my hair is solid black, naturally curly, and 100% natural color not from a bottle! My hair is the same color as my avatars hair.

I was wondering becasue I've noticed at school that most guys are dating blonde girls (half of the blonde girls aren't even natural blonde either!) But most of the brunettes are single! What's up with that? I was just wondering how many of you guys like girls with black hair and is naturally curly like mine?

2007-08-30 09:00:08 · 16 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I hired a professional photographer for my wedding. I ended up with a little over 300 shots. Paid about $1400 total. I am getting a $200 credit toward prints. Plus a DVD with a release form allowing me to print my own additional pictures elsewhere.

The prices from the professional are as follows:

4x6 - $10
5x7 - $15
8x10 - $20
11x14 - $30
12x18 - $45

They are running a 2 for 1 special in about a week, so I am holding off for that.

If I take my DVD elsewhere, the costs are going to be considerable cheaper.

So here is my question. Do I use the credits to buy all the big size prints that I might want for frames? And then do all the 4x6 elsewhere?

Or do I have them create a memory book instead with that money? The books are over $200.

I am just not sure which way to go with this. My guess is that the pro prints will be on better paper and probably better spent on the bigger ones that I would frame rather than on 4x6 prints that will be in a photo album.

2007-08-30 08:57:25 · 10 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

My husband and I both use to be social smokers, when we would have drinks was the only time we would smoke. This was a while back. I don't smoke at all now. My husband continued to be a socal smoker and now it has turned into an everyday thing. I've told him how this really bothers me. He says I sound like his mom. And it's going in one ear and out the other. Should i get off his case? He doesn't smoke around our daughter and rarely around me, but, I know he does it everyday and I care about his health! He says everyone is going to die someday. True, but why speed up the process ecspecially if you have a child!!
Any advice on how to handle this or am i overreacting?

2007-08-30 08:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by Jen E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 08:54:28 · 33 answers · asked by quillera 2 in Weddings

2007-08-30 08:50:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy who i am not so sure that u like but whenever i look at him he is always smiling at me. and he tries to make fun of me. so i am so confused! help

2007-08-30 08:49:52 · 7 answers · asked by Fall Out Girl 101 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to try to make this short & sweet. His mom has divorced from her husband of 5 yrs. He has been a model stepdad. She is letting him have visitation. ie weekends, picking up from school, ect. My husband is not happy cuz we had to fight for every min spent with my sson.(he's 9) They live 3 hrs away so we haven't had the chance to do as many things as the stepdad will. I told my hubby there's nothing we can do about it as long as we get court ordered visitation. And that basically it's not "fair" but there's nothing we can do unless she or the stepdad are harming in some way. Dang…..so this is why God wants us to keep it in our pants and not divorce!
I would sincerely appreciate some heart felt advice. Thanks!

2007-08-30 08:47:51 · 5 answers · asked by Lakin J 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont no how tall this kid is exactly, but im 5' 3'' and this kid is up to the bottom of my chest..hs really short...i think he mightve said hes 4' 3'' were not the same age but hes in 7th grade..is that normal too be that short in 7th grade??

2007-08-30 08:42:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 08:39:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know? i want to know a little about u dudes...i may have misjudged some out u....

2007-08-30 08:39:27 · 21 answers · asked by -->MaRiAm<-- 2 in Singles & Dating