My husband acts very strange sometimes, there is days that he is loving and others he is very indiferent and cold , yesterday he came home late, he usually comes around nine but he came later than that, and he always let me know if he is going to dinner or if there are meetings with his colleages, he came home and was very indiferent, usually he is sweet but I just let it go . I also let him know that I was little moody and didn't feel good, I wanted to sleep but he doesn't like me to sleep if he is not, so we went to sleep and really I was hurting bad, and woke up several times, then opened the window a little, for my bad luck the tv in the livingroom feel I had to get up to pick it up, then get back in bed the alarm sounds I have to get up and all of the sudden he gets up and goes to the living room I asked what was wrong he said that it was over, and that he could not stand me, I tried to lay next to him but he pushed
2007-08-30 09:19:26 · 3 answers · asked by serenity23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me away, then I went to the kitchen and I said I hate you twice, but then I just sit on the floor right next to me and lean my head in the couch, so he said he was going to sleep with me, then he gets in the bed, I didn't even open my mouth and tells me that My mouth smells bad, I felt so embarased so I went to wash my mouth, and when he left he picked up our pet and he smiled and hugged her then he looked at me and said have a good day
what should I do, how should I really behave, I need advice please
2007-08-30 09:22:50 · update #1
he's already banging someone else
2007-08-30 09:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You question was, "How should I behave?"
It sounds like there's a serious problem in the relationship, I'd want to go talk to some, perhaps a therapist. There doesn't seem to be much communication going on here so I'd ask to see if he is interested in seeking couples therapy.
Therapy will be good for you, it will either help you build your marriage or help gain the strength to walk away.
2007-09-03 03:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by medinatherapy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serenity 23, Sounds like he is trying to get you to be the one who splits ! So he can play the victem.
2007-08-30 16:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋