Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

I've found out that my boyfriend doesn't love me, I know he just wants just to be with me but not a real love. I realy love him. I know I will miss him and I got depressed after that. what could I do? I realy love him, but I like to have bothside relationship.

2007-08-30 10:56:27 · 5 answers · asked by lili 1 in Friends

Ok, do it now.
Give them a shining moment...x

2007-08-30 10:53:12 · 15 answers · asked by Dave H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My kids father who I have been married to for over seven years and been with ten total. Cheated on me first a kiss then an internet this now a girlfriend. We are not divorce he has not even filed lol. I am over him but worried that i will not trust again and advice?

2007-08-30 10:50:14 · 13 answers · asked by SiberianHusky_8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are over 25...have no children, never been married..and not seeing anyone (have before though),...at what age would you give up on true love and marriage?

2007-08-30 10:50:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so last night i m a s t u r ba t e d w a banana. I put a plastic bag over it but i think it scratched my insides. Im not sure though. Im too embarrassed to call a dr. I dont know what to do?? has this happened to anyone b4??

2007-08-30 10:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to have the Grandparents walk in first, then my fiance's mother (my mom is MOH) escorted just before the actual wedding party, can I use the same song as my party or do I need to switch to a different song for the party's procession?

2007-08-30 10:47:52 · 4 answers · asked by iheartbayley 3 in Weddings

i feel like i am letting him think that whatever he lied to me about is ok with me. i know that u are not supposed to know everything abt the other person but that varies from each relationship what the boundaries are. so w/o lecturing me abt he doesn't need to tell me everything please give advice. we were apart for 5 months because of his job so i asked him to download yahoo im. he said no he is not into all that but then i find out from his cousin that they chat on yahoo everyday. i asked him if he had any women on there he said yes 2 from work. do people need that for work. it was only thse two women noone else.then he made it sound like he didn't tell me because of fear that i might get IM TOO and he doesn't want me chatting. ok that was that then he withdraws from me physically emotionally for couple of months i ask him why are u being like this are u not happy. i had to beg for sex with him. he made my life miserable. then after susupecting that maybe he is talking details...

2007-08-30 10:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have r/c cars and all kinds of stuff,i have a girl friend that has a child to,i got alot of $ and would like to try this.

2007-08-30 10:38:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Any suggestions? I'm lost :(

2007-08-30 10:38:14 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica R 1 in Weddings

Say are 14 or U Were 14 Again Guyss .. What Would you go for in a girl uglyy butt reallyy nice and sweet .. or ... beautiful but not nicee

2007-08-30 10:38:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend and I had a disagreement that ended up being big mess.Hell it caused our friendship.My husband & I, decided to take a trip to canada.During our ride I notice I had several miss calls & a voice message from her.I rarely had signal, so as soon as I had one I called her & left a mesg. clearly stating that I was away & will be back within a few days.Upon returning,I contacted her to see what seem to be so urgent. She began to wien and nag about he fiance's bachelor party & how much she hated his friends.I decided to hear her out then tried to calm her down & talked about my trip. She then began to attack me and ask why do I always act so perfect.I ignored her bridezilla episode until she began to throw in my face our friendship & everything I confided in her. I told her she was acting childing & to appoligize but she refused. I gave her a few days to calm down to talk thing over.But b4 I had the chance to talk to her my cell phone was flooded with childish insulting text mesgs.

2007-08-30 10:23:57 · 37 answers · asked by Authentick Wifey 1 in Friends

My fiance is currently deployed. He is having a pretty difficult time right now. I need some ideas of ways I can show my love in a creative and sentimental way. Please help!!!

2007-08-30 10:22:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you guys have nick names for one onother?...I always call mine "Hey Love" :-)

2007-08-30 10:22:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is a folow up to my other ?? We have a small construction business, he does the physical part and I do all of the clerical, web, advertising, etc. I am also a stay at home Mom of 2 kids that are not his. He says that the house is not clean enough and I that I do nothing. Never says I love you anymore. Doesn't seem actually nice unless he wants sex. Doesn't do anything with the kids. Controls the money. Tells me lies or keeps things from me. Leaves me and the kids at home in a VERY rural area with no car, phone, money, and sometimes no food. My Mama brought groceries when he pawned everything we owned and ran it all out in gas and lottery tickets saying he was looking for more work. He can't see where he has done anything wrong and I don't know how to make him see, so that there can be change and any hope for our marriage. How do make someone take a look at the "man in the mirror"?

2007-08-30 10:21:17 · 35 answers · asked by tonyer71 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I meet this boy and we started talking on the phone and while we are on the phone he seems so shy and it seems like hes scard to talk to me but for the past weeks we have been talking he kinda seems to opening up to me. I know that he likes me and i like him i just want him to stop being shy WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO SHOULD I GIVE HIM MY TIME OR NOT?!?!?!!!!!!

2007-08-30 10:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left me and my 3 children. During that time I found out he was talking to another woman. We have been married 13yrs and have alot of history together. He wants to reconcile and go to counseling to work through our marriage problems. He says his wife is more important than that. A part of me wants to take him back and work things out but a part of me does know if I should forgive and forget

2007-08-30 10:18:21 · 21 answers · asked by danaispeace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend wants to break up with his girlfriend, they've been going out for a year and both really love each other, but they're only 15 and he really feels they should move on because he's sort of getting bored.... FAST HELP please?!

2007-08-30 10:16:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 10:16:05 · 20 answers · asked by Latasha G 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy i really liked was putting out all the right signs that he was into me. so i started flirting and one day we were haning out just us two.. and he tried making out with me. i wasnt really ready to makeout with him...becuse i just kinda met him ...so i refused. he got really mad and started talking **** about me. one day i went up to him and tottaly said what was on my mind. even his friends stood up for me. later he was even mader becuse i embaresed him infront of his friends, then he had the guts to ask me out. i said no. did i do the right thing?

2007-08-30 10:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been divorced for 5 years and enjoy spending time with my girlfriend. We spend every weekend together and see each other once or twice a week. I don't want to spend all my free time with her, though, but I am. How do I talk to her about respecting my desire to be away from her? I have no interest in dating other women, and would like to visit friends or family out of town occasionally. She gets a little jealous, in fact she got upset when I mentioned going to my high school reunion. I wouldn't even mind if she came, not at all, but she can't travel. Help!! Ok, maybe this should be in the Singles & Dating category but high school kids can't help me here.

2007-08-30 10:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by Nice Guy/Georgia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would u like the girl to keep her natural hair or have highlights in it? and when u see a girl withn highlights .. wut do u think? (be honest)

2007-08-30 10:13:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our daughter who is 8 was very close to her. How do you tell a child that this has happened. This is something I really am upset over and just don't know what we should say.

2007-08-30 10:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I checked my boyfriend's email today and found out something horrible. I know it's wrong to snoop, but I was extremely suspicious about something and what I discovered is incomprehensible. My BF and his friend went out drinking last night (while I'm out of town). My BF's friend (who is married to MY friend) slept with someone last night at my BF's house. In their emails this morning to each other, they were laughing about it all and talking about having to wash the guest bedroom sheets. I'm disgusted on so many levels. Should I tell my friend what her husband did? How can I do that without telling that I snooped in my BF's email? I don't know what to do.

2007-08-30 10:11:48 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In my other question, very similar to this, I got a lot of answers, but I want to hear more. In the question I asked yesterday was about a boy. I like him, but don't know how to approach him. Why is it so hard to get a guy!!?? (cry ='(
This is my first time of seeing this so called "Love At First Sight).
Please HELP ME...
BTW, I'm 12 1/2.

2007-08-30 10:10:59 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 10:07:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I told my friend that I have a boyfriend...she quickly started freaking out when I said the name. That was when she told me that her friend was cheated on by him. And that in jr.High that he would pay her to get her to hook him up with girls. I just....can't believe that.

Sure we've been BF and GF now for a week....but we've been friends for like 4months and I just can't see him doing that. I can't bring myself...to actually believe that his warm smile,can be so desieving...that...his hug ment nothing. I can't see him. After all he's the one that goes up to me when he sees me in the hallway and i'm in my own world. I just...can't see him doing that. And even if that is true....I want to hear it from him...and I still don't want to let him go. After the memories we shared as friends and couples. Besides...I want to give him a chance. What would you do in this situation?

2007-08-30 10:07:22 · 19 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 10:06:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's taking work off to take care of his wife who's having surgery. Doesn't he still have to send his kids money? It comes right out of his check usually.

2007-08-30 10:06:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who you will prefer: fat woman or thin woman? I mean, for marriage. Let`s say, you have chanse to introduce with both of them, so what will you choose?

2007-08-30 10:03:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend talked last night and he said that , whenever walked up and down the street he saw this girl and they always said hi. Then he went to her job and he put a bottle of water in her purse "i dont know why?" then she turned around and said "whats up stranger" and he said the same. She said she missed him and then he told me that he was going to take her out to lunch tommorow "whats up with that? Then when we said bye on the phone he asked me if i love him? i said yes.

2007-08-30 10:03:20 · 16 answers · asked by trini4life 1 in Singles & Dating