Me and my boyfriend talked last night and he said that , whenever walked up and down the street he saw this girl and they always said hi. Then he went to her job and he put a bottle of water in her purse "i dont know why?" then she turned around and said "whats up stranger" and he said the same. She said she missed him and then he told me that he was going to take her out to lunch tommorow "whats up with that? Then when we said bye on the phone he asked me if i love him? i said yes.
2007-08-30 10:03:20 · 16 answers · asked by trini4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think of this as a date, do you guys? I'll asked him what happened in fact he'll just probably already tell me about the date and talk about her and make me jealous
2007-08-30 10:03:45 · update #1
I THINK THAT IS MESSED UP AND HE SOULD NOT BE GOING OUT TO LUNCH WITH ANITHER GIRL AND YOU SHOULD PUT A STOP TO THAT IMMEDIATELY
2007-08-30 10:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by MEGAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You assumed your were a couple but It sounds like you're not going steady. There hasn't been a commitment for monogamy. The reason why businesses have SOPs, Standard operating procedures, is so this kind of thing doesn't happen. Instead of assuming ... you need to have guidelines that you both agree to. Communication will be a great start.
2007-08-30 10:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait a minute now don't jump to conclusions just yet because that could be a friend that he hasn't seen in awhile or something. just relax find out more before think anything. like if they stay out late together or if she's calling him all the time, i mean look for the obvious.
2007-08-30 10:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by erica sears josh's gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is flirting with her. This would make me very uncompfortable. How old are you and he? How long have you been together? These 2 answers will explain a lot. This sounds like a date, especially if he doesn't even know her. I would not trust him and get rid of him asap.
2007-08-30 10:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him the truth of how u feel about the situation and stay calm. and hope for the best and if all else fails you can say that your going out with me lol just jokeing but i hope everything goes welll. Good luck
2007-08-30 10:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Johny Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably not sure if you still like him anymore.....cuz if he tells you about the date and how much fun he had, he probably just wants to get your attention and see if you care that he's with another girl
2007-08-30 10:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by C.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure sounds like he is rubbing in your face the fact that he is interested in someone else. Tell him to shove it where the sun don't shine, and if he would rather be with her than you, find someone who will respect you the way you deserve to be respected.
2007-08-30 10:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, are you asking whether he is cheating? Yes, he is walking all over you and treating you like dirt. If he is just testing you, then he is still scum.
2007-08-30 10:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trini4life, My dear you deserve a mature responsible gentleman ! He is playing mind games.
2007-08-30 10:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck? Maybe I just don't understand, but it sounds to me like he is telling you he is going to cheat on you. I'd be ticked.
2007-08-30 10:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋