My guy friend wants to break up with his girlfriend, they've been going out for a year and both really love each other, but they're only 15 and he really feels they should move on because he's sort of getting bored.... FAST HELP please?!
2007-08-30 10:16:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 15, you cant really love someone. At this age it is better to be able to date different people then stay in a relationship. he should tell her that they are both maturing and right now he wants to be single, no hard feelings. Hopefully they will remain friends...
2007-08-30 10:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this situation was once me. i was with a guy for almost 6 years, loved him, but knew i had to see what else was out there.
my suggestion - the guy should mention that as much as he loves being with his girlfriend he wants a break. although this isn't the most original way of going about it, he would be able to just say that he wants to be on his own for a while. from there he could choose to be single or date others.
2007-08-30 17:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by celestial316 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he feels that its the right thing to do and he wont end up regreting the decsion to break this girls heart then thats really up to him but my only promblem is, is how can a guy really get board in a relationship theres things you can do like talking that can really make a difference in the relationship
2007-08-30 17:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just has to be completely honest with her...well maybe not the getting bored stuff...but he should just talk to her and tell her that he feels as tho he needs a change, that he loves her but more like a friend now...
2007-08-30 17:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's bored, he's not in love. His hormones are just telling him that he should move on and have a chance to meet some others. They are both too young to make a like commitment.
2007-08-30 17:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And kids wonder why life is so hard when they deliberately make choices to have boyfriends and girlfriends when they are too young to deal with the heavy stuff.
He needs to tell her they are too serious, they need to back off from the boyfirend/girlfriend stuff and just be FRIENDS!
Then he needs to be ONLY friends with everyone until he is out of college!
I know, I'm just one of those stupid adults who wants to cramp your style, right?
Live and learn then.
2007-08-30 17:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her. It's better than playing those stupid games as ignoring or avoiding another person until he or she "gets a hint". If he had enough guts to start a relationship with her, he should have enough guts to tell her when the relationship is over.
2007-08-30 17:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are all too young to feel this mixed up about relationships.
Your life will go on and you will meet other people. You will begin to see what you don't want, then you will see what you do want.
DON'T RUSH THESE THINGS!
2007-08-30 17:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing this guy can do is just be honest, cuz if they still love each other then, maybe there is something else they can do to get that spark back....
2007-08-30 17:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by izzy,lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get into the middle of this! No matter what! DO NOT INTERFERE. Not even to give him advice. Just listen to him, if you have to.
2007-08-30 17:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Coffee Geek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋