Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

I need some help. I have a girl that is calling my son name, she has cut a shirt of his and she has also, said"that she would cut my son's head". We talked to her mom about the shirt and her mom said"that she would keep her daughter from coming over here. We she hasn't and she then told my son that she would kill him. When he told me this, I went to the cops and told them and they said"all they could do is talk to her mom and dad". But the girl still come over here and when she comes over here I make him come in so, I know she isn't calling him names, cussing at him or giving him the finger.
Oh he is disabled. He is a dwarf and I think that is why she is picking on him.
What Can I Do? Can any one help me or tell me what I can do?

2007-08-30 12:10:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My cousin is getting married in a few weeks and our entire family was invited. We all have to travel long distance to the wedding and it was going to be like a joint vacation / family reunion.

The problem is that she has suddenly decided that she doesn't want my brother in law to attend. He's somewhat mentally disabled and is altogether obnoxious. I somewhat understand why she doesn't want him there because I can barely stand him myself. He's prone to be argumentative and obnoxious, although for the most part my husband and my Mom keep him in check.

My sister is practically heartbroken that our cousin isn't being very understanding about his mental capabilities. She's refusing to go without him.

I understand that my cousin shouldn't have to invite people that she doesn't want but I can't stand to see my sister so hurt. I don't want to cause trouble but I also don't want my sister to end up being excluded. Should I approach my cousin about the problem or should I back off?

2007-08-30 12:10:18 · 14 answers · asked by meglet628 3 in Weddings

What do I do? I found out my husband cheated on my after denying it for months. I don't know whether to work to save my marriage for the sake of my family or just to give up. Our relationship has become so volatile lately that I just want to give up, but on the flip side, I do love my husband. We are supposed to start counseling to work on some of our problems on Tuesday, but now I don't know what is going to happen. No haters please. I want real advice.

2007-08-30 12:08:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what are the things guys do when they like a girl? do you play with their hair or something please answer asap!

2007-08-30 12:06:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I met my boyfriend almost 2 years ago he smoked pot a lot, i didn't like it and he was doing it for the wrong reasons. I cared about him and he was slowly killing himself. (His dad left his family for another woman and it was a big deal) He went through depression and i helped him. I told him that I had smoked pot once (which was a lie) and that i didnt like it and it caused a lot of my close friends to have serious medical problems (which is true) I only lied b/c i care about him and his health. Now today that he's quite, and has been clean for a year and a half and is now in college doing great and has a successful job..i dont know how to tell him i lied...

it hurts...

2007-08-30 12:04:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met him at camp and I think he liked me. So, I asked his friend for his address. I sent him a letter and I don't think he got it because he hasn't replied. Should I send him another one?

2007-08-30 12:03:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband have always had a great sex life, but now that I am pregnant it never happens. I have absolutely no sex drive and even when I get a little bit in the mood, it still hurts like crazy. My husband feels like I don't love him anymore but that is not true. I love him more than life itself. I know its just the pregnancy affecting my hormones but how can I make my husband happy if it hurts so bad?

2007-08-30 12:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

-i'm a freshman
-he's a sophmore

2007-08-30 11:59:44 · 1 answers · asked by volleyball oh eight 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 11:56:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I absolutely LOVE this dress (http://morilee.com/DressDetail.aspx?C=9&D=454&P=1) the only thing is that it does not come in any color I like, at least from what I can tell. The second dress I like (http://www.morilee.com/DressDetail.aspx?C=9&D=442&P=1) is also pretty, however, the color bubble gum I like, BUT I have yet to find a store that carries any dress from Mori Lee in a chiffon material that is bubble gum.

I know that stores can usually only get the samples that are sent to them, but the only way I can see any color is by the internet or by the small swatch at the store. What I want to know is if there is any place that sells catalogs or magazines with Mori Lee dresses in them. Mori Lee does not appear to sell any on their website, but some one else may! I really would like one of those two dresses for my bridesmaids, however I don't want a terrible color. Also, the chiffon will match my gown perfectly! (Also a Mori Lee gown)

2007-08-30 11:52:16 · 2 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Weddings

I was raised by my Grandmother, and my mother left home and by the time I saw her again, she already been married a couple of times. Mother has passed away as well as rest of the family members. Can this information be found with my birth certificate number, and where would I go to find out?

2007-08-30 11:50:49 · 19 answers · asked by wayne r 1 in Family

I usually watch my little sister until someone gets home from work when both parents are working. My stepdad is my little brother's football coach, so some nights I have to watch my sister during football season. This isn't the problem, because I know it helps my parents out a lot. Seeing as my mom is pretty much a stay at home one, I feel like my sister is her responsibility while she's home. She likes to leave my sister with me constantly to go do errands or whatever, which started to get really old. I don't want to feel like a 19 year old parent. She's not my kid, even though I love her to death. The other day my mom asked me to watch my sister while she went to do something and I told her it was starting to get old. She went off on me saying she would never help me with anything anymore including cosigning a loan I need for school. A couple days have passed and we still aren't speaking. I don't want to confront her and apologize because I'm not sorry at all. What should I do?

2007-08-30 11:47:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think there are certain limits to when you should have had your first kiss already?? And what should you do if almost everyone you know has had there first kiss already and you feel left out?

2007-08-30 11:41:17 · 24 answers · asked by meow. 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 11:35:20 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda K 1 in Weddings

I don't have an address for them. Now their phone has been disconnected, and I am not getting any e-mail responses from them. Is this how people who are supposed to care about eahc other treat each other? Where's the trust, the faith, the honesty? Is it no wonder today that when people need help, we are afraid to help them? Does this change my mind about helping people? No. It just makes me more aware of how untruthful, dishonest, and unkind people can be. How easy it is to use people for whatever it is they need. I guess I'm gullible, but I always believed in people and to this day I still do. I just feel bad that somebody I considered a friend would knowingly do something like this to me. Welll, I say... I CAN FACE GOD KNOWING THAT I HELPED SOMEBODY OUT WHO SAID THEY NEEDED HELP... YOU HAVE TO FACE GOD AND EXPLAIN WHY YOU LIED AND DID WHAT YOU DID. MY CONSCIENCE IS CLEAR.

2007-08-30 11:34:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 16.He's 18.I like him...One day, he came to me and told me Hi!Nice to meet you etc...We sent sms and 2 evenings until night we met in the corner of my house to give me a cd and we told everything we thought that's cool...We had fun..but one day..maybe he understood that I like him he stopped talking me...what can I do to start again have contact with him? He told me he's ok and nothing is wrong but i love him..he dont know that....last but not least he stares at me when we are at the same place..and sometimes he talks with his friends..I need your advice about this situation...If you are older that's great..What can I do, and what he is thinking about me?

2007-08-30 11:25:03 · 1 answers · asked by irma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

last known living in imperial mo.

2007-08-30 11:24:07 · 2 answers · asked by stlgalplayer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for over 12 years. A recurring problem is my husbands addiction" to internet porn. He is also active on online dating sites and talks (dirty) to various women. He doesn't meet with them but says he likes the fantasy. Our sex like sucks as he would rather be on the computer and take care of himself than be with a woman who loves him. Four months ago I found out about a " friend "of his that he actually talks to on the phone. We had a big blow out and I told him I was done with our marriage if he didn't give up this friendship and the porn. he agreed. together we threw out the porn in the house and he gave me his computer emails and passwords so I could check up on him. he did tell this girl he was not going to talk to her anymore. ( I read her pathetic blog about it) Yesterday I found out that he opened a new email account, has signed up on various porn & dating sites and renewed his relationship with this girl. What do I do? I still love him

2007-08-30 11:13:03 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay.. Lately my girlfriend, katelyn, has been talking to this kid cody, shes been texting him, calling him, meeting him in the halls at school, and things like that, and we've been going out for 10 months or so.. i don't know what i should do, she says that she wants to hang out with him but i don't really want her to, and she broke up with me because i said that i don't really want her to hang out with him..

it's not that i dont trust her, but i dont trust him.

now shes being all mean to me and we've been fighting.. and i treat her good, i buy her things, i walk her to class, i just try my hardest to be a good boyfriend but i feel like i'm not doing a good enough job,

should i kinda "ignore" her and let her realize that im a good boyfriend, im not being self-centered, but i think im doing a good job, and i love her more than anything, with all of my heart i just dont know what to do..

2007-08-30 11:12:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i understand that I can divorce my husband that has been incarcerated for 3 1/2 yrs. by going to the Walker County courthouse in Huntsville,Texas .Can you help me ???

2007-08-30 11:12:33 · 7 answers · asked by marci j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 11:11:22 · 9 answers · asked by sirdiva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands best friend, is always at our house, he comes by after he gets off work, eats dinner and leaves around 9 pm when we retire for the evening, on Friday nights he generally stays all night and the remainder of the weekend leaving on Sunday. I don't mind him there occassionally but it is getting old and he does not get the hint that we need some quality family time.

2007-08-30 11:09:06 · 7 answers · asked by rp 2 in Friends

well my best friend of two years sent me an e-mail the other day and said he didn't wanna be best friends anymore because i was too annoying and pessamistic or somehtin..............i might remind you that i'm only pesamistic because i care about the lives of those around me................................when he said what he said my heart shattered and i was crying till no more tears came out.....now i've gone into depression mode..................the next day he was being all nice to me as if nothing happend.............so i was trying to go along with it............anyhoo he said we can still be friends just not as close..........now he doesn't even talk to me..........everyone is saying i need to let him go but i still love him...yes like that and as a friend................its killing me inside ..i haven't eaten for days.......................................i don't know what to do...............i keep asking God but, he is giving me a wait

2007-08-30 11:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by Azarel 2 in Friends

Ok, I'm a single white 25 yr old heterosexual man. 4 weeks ago my friend introduced me 2 a friend of hers named Carrie. She just dumped her boyfriend & moved out of the apartment. But, we hit it off & a couple nights later we went 2 a concert w/ her friends. Then, 4 nights after that her & I hung out alone cus she asked me to & she said she wanted 2 get 2 no me more. Well we were vibing like crazy. We finallly kissed. So we went to my favorite pub 4 an entree & drinks & to 1 of her favorite bars 4 a few more 2 talk & get 2 no eachother better. Well none of us were lookin 4 a relationship, but that night, & 3 nights n a row after that, we had fantastic sex. 4 a week I didn't hear from her, but yesterday I got a txt message from her sayin that she still wants 2 hang out & the reason she didn't call was she needed a break. 2 weeks ago we were hangin out 6 days out of 14 days. Now I haven't seen her in 10 days. I sent her a txt mssge 2day saying hi but nothing. How should I proceed?

2007-08-30 11:05:07 · 10 answers · asked by chrissexysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't give it to me when I want intimacy, now he wants it, should I make him work hard for it?

2007-08-30 11:04:44 · 37 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

A little over a month ago, my best friend of 10 years moved in with my boyfriend and I. She decided that the north was not for her, she got approved for a transfer down south. I offered to let her stay here until she found a place to stay. I told her I didnt expect her to pay anything that would remain the same whether she was here or not. However water and electricity would not. Well she seems to have made her mark. She has talked about staying here until December until she goes to Mexico. She has made no contributions to any bills and has contributed about 80 dollars to food cost. She has decorated my guest room to her liking, and small things like that. She complains about what I have in my fridge...washes clothes whenever she feels like it....and leaves everything a mess...a dirty mess. I dont know if she's just "confortable" and feels that our life long friendship permits her to act this way...or is she just plain rude...I dont want to hurt our friendship in the least bit.

2007-08-30 11:04:38 · 2 answers · asked by andy 1 in Friends

whats your own personal opinion on what age somebody should get married?

2007-08-30 11:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by hazeleyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok girls if you know you wasnt all that happy with your boyfriend would you leave him?but heres the catch you get to stay with him rent free plus he buys and spends all his money on you!so would you stay with him and use him for his money temperarely?or would you leave him because your not happy right away?

2007-08-30 11:00:32 · 18 answers · asked by hazeleyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

everyone tells me gah youve changed and we dont like it.
and.
i have no clue there tlkin about.
im me.
im happy.
no one understands tht i was nvr happy at all.
i hid my pain.
my troubles.
from everyone,
but now ive stopped and im so much better,,,
why cant people just understand this?
why dont they want me happy instead of sad all the time?

2007-08-30 11:00:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best kind to get? I want to be responsible and do the right thing.

2007-08-30 10:59:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating