ok girls if you know you wasnt all that happy with your boyfriend would you leave him?but heres the catch you get to stay with him rent free plus he buys and spends all his money on you!so would you stay with him and use him for his money temperarely?or would you leave him because your not happy right away?
2007-08-30 11:00:32 · 18 answers · asked by hazeleyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girlfriend come on. you know that it dont work like that.how come you are not happy with him anymore? did he beat you, cheat on you, or is he disrespctable to you? maybe you cheated on him. that may be why you dont like him anymore, but then again maybe things changed and the time has come to face what it is to face. if you dont like him but still love him because he is good to you then you should be that way to him.
its always good to know why you feel the way you feel to get the best answer but to be stright up abpot the info you did give just let me keep it real with you. using a person like that will only bring bad things to you or your love ones in the future. god dont like ugly and what goes around comes around. if he has been good to you then just let him know how you feel and see if he changes and have your cake and eat it to. but if he is treating you bad then you know you should leave. you are a grown woman and you dont need a man to take care of you. we are strong women its time for us to get our own and let these men know that its not all about what they can do for us. plus things like using them cause they pay the bills is old and can lead into something more dangerious even if you dont believe it could happen. dont under estamate anybody cause people can snap at anytime. i know you want to be with him for what he does for you but it also going to affect the fact that you is still going to have to hide when you want to meet someone elese. it may look and sound good at this moment but that dont mean it will end up that way. why hurt someone for no reason. does he deserve that. i feel like he is a good man from what you said he does for you so dont be a ***** not saying you are one but dont act like that. is it that you dont want noone elese to have him. you want to be happy so allow him to be happy. remember we are women and we can take care of our selves. if its woth working out then try that but if its not then tell him that and let him go. leaving off men is so old women now have their own and doing their own thing. why dont you try it, i feel its the best for you. i can say i have my own and it feels good, life is great and i am very blessed. i also can say that i did it myself without the help of a man and that even feels good also. a lot of men including mine gives me the up most respect becuse of how i handle myself and take care of me. yes he do give to me but its not that i need him to but because i am his woman. plus women with their own gets the most from a man than a woman that dont have much. men fell like if you start out eating chicken then that is what you continue to but if you start out eating steak then they know that they is going to have to up their game. i hope you feeling what i'm saying and whatever you do think about it before you do it cause like i said eariler actions have consiquences and i dont want anything bad to happen because you didnt think it out. well anyway good luck to whatever you decide and i wish you the best.
2007-08-30 11:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by hotteesofine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's easier to stay and depend on him but if Mr. Right comes along and you are there, he isn't going to want someone already in a relationship. Leave him and find someplace you belong where you are happy. It's out there, you just have to find it.
2007-08-30 11:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by littleone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this depends on the type of person you are. The key word here is "USE". I would like to think most of us are the type to do better, treat people better, and not be users. If you aren't happy...LEAVE. No sense making 2 people miserable.
2007-08-30 11:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by mummy heffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy and there's nothing the two of you can do to make the relationship work, then leave him. If you stay with him, then you're usuing him. You're giving him your affections and your body in exchange for his money. Don't they have a name for women who do that? Isn't it a profession?
2007-08-30 11:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am only 14, so I wouldn'thave theat experience yet. But that is called useing someone and that is just wrong and i would never do that no matter what because someone will end up with a broken heart.
2007-08-30 11:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him and use his money temporarily until you can get your own stuff. But it sucks cuz you still have to sleep with him in the meantime. You are gettng a free ride after all.
2007-08-30 11:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him it's wrong. If you going to use him for his money that is wrong too. (What you do too him someone is going to do it you but to it harder.) If you is not happy; you have to do what is going to make you happy... Don't use someone for what they have be with that person if you love him. Stop playing game and grow-up..
2007-08-30 11:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him...u make think that money will buy u happiness, but in the long run everything comes crashing down on you and ur still miserable and broke...AGAIN...
2007-08-30 11:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by weird...just a little... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him... i dont care about the money i would rather be happy
2007-08-30 11:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be very selfish of you to stay with him. And I deleted all the other things I wanted to say to you
2007-08-30 11:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by aussiechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to insult you, but if you think of yourself as a whore, then stay with him until Mr. right comes along.
2007-08-30 11:05:31 · answer #11 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋