Ok, I'm a single white 25 yr old heterosexual man. 4 weeks ago my friend introduced me 2 a friend of hers named Carrie. She just dumped her boyfriend & moved out of the apartment. But, we hit it off & a couple nights later we went 2 a concert w/ her friends. Then, 4 nights after that her & I hung out alone cus she asked me to & she said she wanted 2 get 2 no me more. Well we were vibing like crazy. We finallly kissed. So we went to my favorite pub 4 an entree & drinks & to 1 of her favorite bars 4 a few more 2 talk & get 2 no eachother better. Well none of us were lookin 4 a relationship, but that night, & 3 nights n a row after that, we had fantastic sex. 4 a week I didn't hear from her, but yesterday I got a txt message from her sayin that she still wants 2 hang out & the reason she didn't call was she needed a break. 2 weeks ago we were hangin out 6 days out of 14 days. Now I haven't seen her in 10 days. I sent her a txt mssge 2day saying hi but nothing. How should I proceed?
2007-08-30 11:05:07 · 10 answers · asked by chrissexysmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you only want her as a booty call on her terms, continue taking her calls.... but if you have more self-esteem than that, find someone that wants the same thing you do in a relationship.
2007-08-30 11:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it by jumping into bed too soon. Next time you might try waiting. After all, you have the rest of your life so what's the hurry? You might be surprised how exciting it is to wait a few months for sex. By then, you are good friends and can communicate with each other well and you avoid these misunderstandings about just what the nature of your relationship is. Meanwhile, if all you do is just kiss and maybe fool around a little, she will be so hot for you that you won't be able to keep away. Actually, you might try seeing this woman without sex now and see if there is any substance to the relationship and make her want you. You may be able to salvage this situation.
2007-08-30 18:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Serious Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should definetly get herself together before she jumps into a relationship with you. I don't mean to be rude, but she needs to stop playing games with you, this 'having sex one day and ignoring you the next' is really immature. What YOU should do is explain to her how you feel, and give her your options. Step away, and let her choose what she wants to do. If she really does like you and feels the same chemistry you do, then she'll come to you and you two can move on from there. But if she doesn't then it's up to you to take a hint and move on. Life is too short for drama and games. Have fun. Hope it all works out for you.
2007-08-30 18:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just got out of a relationship. Thats the thing, she probably isn't looking for anything but a back up. You know like a re-bound. You probably dont want to be that for her. That always sucks. Your best bet is to find someone else. and not call her or text. If she really likes you, you will hear from her again.
2007-08-30 18:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't hear from her tonight, text her tomorrow and ask if she wants to hang out for labor day weekend.
2007-08-30 18:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by generasian2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would leave it up to her for a while. You attempted to get in touch with her...and you don't want to scare her and over do it. The balls in her court now...
2007-08-30 18:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mommy of 3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
souns like it's more of a pit stop than a relationship thing. call it quits!
2007-08-30 18:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a filthy whore!!....maybe when she has a minute to come up for air, she'll give u a call back....just use protection with this one!
2007-08-30 18:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you catch someone on the rebound, it tends to not work. Let her go.
2007-08-30 18:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the break she needs ....if it's meant to be she'll be back if not, move on
2007-08-30 18:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by partygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋