Me and my husband have always had a great sex life, but now that I am pregnant it never happens. I have absolutely no sex drive and even when I get a little bit in the mood, it still hurts like crazy. My husband feels like I don't love him anymore but that is not true. I love him more than life itself. I know its just the pregnancy affecting my hormones but how can I make my husband happy if it hurts so bad?
2007-08-30 12:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 5 mos pregnant and this is our third baby but this is the first time this has ever happened to me. Its been hurting my whole pregnancy. My husband does try to consider my feelings, but he has his needs also and I understand that. I just feel so guilty because we never have sex and I want to but it hurts. I was told that its normal for your genitals to be more sensitive during pregnancy. I try using lubes and everything but nothing works. Its just like a constant dryness
2007-08-30 12:19:27 · update #1
Were the other two girls?
This one is low. Is it a boy?
Tell him to just chill another 4 months and you'll be done baking his baby boy.
2007-08-30 12:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what month you are in, but having sex during pregnancy should not be hurting. Talk it over with your obstetrician. Take your husband with you so that he can hear for himself what he can do to help you relax and enjoy this time with him. Your husband needs to focus on your feelings a little bit more right now. A loving husband should be caring and gentle and most of all, understanding with a pregnant wife.
2007-08-30 19:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not hurt when you are pregnant. Try different positions, try lube, discuss with your doctor,try something. If you think you have lost your drive now, wait till the baby comes. You really have to make time and put in the effort for a healthy sex life.
2007-08-30 19:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by LuvinLos 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just how preg. are you,you didn't say and how long has it been sense the last time the two of you made love. This is for all you men out there,what is wrong with you men my god this isn't the first time I 've heard this from preg.women. Tell your husband to stop feeling sorry for himself and get with the program the five finger program that is.
2007-08-30 19:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts don't do it. Hold and touch each other even if you are not having sex and remember that there are other ways to get and give pleasure than just intercourse.
2007-08-30 19:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by moonchild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when he endures stretch marks, swollen ankles, morning sickness, etc. from being pregnant then you will compromise and until that happens he can suck it up, he helped get you pregnamt.
2007-08-30 19:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres others ways to pleasure him. Get creative!
2007-08-30 19:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by ellen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of BJs.
2007-08-30 19:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋