well my best friend of two years sent me an e-mail the other day and said he didn't wanna be best friends anymore because i was too annoying and pessamistic or somehtin..............i might remind you that i'm only pesamistic because i care about the lives of those around me................................when he said what he said my heart shattered and i was crying till no more tears came out.....now i've gone into depression mode..................the next day he was being all nice to me as if nothing happend.............so i was trying to go along with it............anyhoo he said we can still be friends just not as close..........now he doesn't even talk to me..........everyone is saying i need to let him go but i still love him...yes like that and as a friend................its killing me inside ..i haven't eaten for days.......................................i don't know what to do...............i keep asking God but, he is giving me a wait
2007-08-30 11:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by Azarel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being pessamistic means you are dragging him down. Try supporting his efforts instead of thinking of things that might go wrong.
2007-08-30 11:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are right, you have to let him go. But don't be too hard on yourself, it may take some time. Meanwhile get to know YOURSELF better, think of things to do that you enjoy, with or without friends, it will make you feel more self-confident and maybe in the end, your friend and you will be close again.
good luck!
2007-08-30 18:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like he is looking for somebody else and wants dump you.you say you st oped eating that is not bad you lose wait. honey the life is to short.go take a shower make your self nice put on your best dress go dancing go out.ignore him for couple days no calls donot answer his call.i bet after one week he comes to you and kiss your foot.do it.it will work. good luck. you are wel come honey.
2007-08-30 18:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT... U DON'T HAVE TO CRY.. I KNOW IT HURT THAT UR LOOSING YOUR BEST FRIEND BUT THINK ABOUT THIS YOU HAVE TO MOVE AND GET OVER IT. IF HE WAS UR TRUE FRIEND HE WOULD NOT SEND YOU A EMAIL.... HE WOULD HAVE BEEN MAN ENOUGHT TO TELL U IN UR FACE.. IT WILL TAKE SOME TIME TOO GET OVER THAT BUT JUST REMEMBER HE IS MISSING AND THINKING ABOUT JUST AS MUCH AS YOU ARE... ( SHOW HIM THAT IT OKAY AND THAT U IS NOT HURT BUT BEHIND CLOSE DOOR CRY YOUR EYES OUT.) NEVER LET ANYONE SEE YOU HURT OR CRY... OKAY...
2007-08-30 18:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dove he's just a friend you have other maybe not like the one you have but give it time and space do be upset because if he a real friend then he wouldnt do that
or maybe his girlfriend gave him a choice to make you or her and that the plan to keep you as a friend but not as close
2007-08-30 18:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by sunrisedrifter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more fish in the sea than ever came out of it.
2007-08-30 18:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋