everyone tells me gah youve changed and we dont like it.
and.
i have no clue there tlkin about.
im me.
im happy.
no one understands tht i was nvr happy at all.
i hid my pain.
my troubles.
from everyone,
but now ive stopped and im so much better,,,
why cant people just understand this?
why dont they want me happy instead of sad all the time?
2007-08-30 11:00:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have grown and they haven't. They resent you even though they don't realize it and if you were to ask them why they resent you they wouldn't be able to answer. You need someone in your life that can see you have changed and is going to encourage you to change and move closer towards happiness. You obviously have made a step in that direction and you should be proud even if no one seems to notice. there is so much I could tell you about why people treat you the way they do when you're trying to be happy but I couldn't possible do on this blog. it would take up too much room.
If you're serious about being happy and living a happy life, email me. I can help you.
dszach@hotmail.com
best wishes,
DZ
2007-08-30 11:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have totally been through this.
I was never happy, and once I started to become happy,
I was told that I was copying my sister and all this s.hit,
My friends were constantly talking to me how I used to be fun and cool and then changed and was a ******
eventually I had to ditch them and I got a new group of friends.
Its rly the only way to get away from it.
If they were good friends they would've realized you were unhappy and would have seen the change as a good thing.
(take a look at my question?)
2007-08-30 11:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have to categorize the word "people" into the situation,becuz not everyone wants u sad all the time,i kno i dont,no human being should have to suffer no matter the consequence.suffering is the substitute of hell with the absence of pain.u dont deserve it and neither does anyone else.and u dont need help,u just need love which is always there for u at home.u gotta look at the positive instead of the negative becuz all in all love is wat makes the world go round......
2007-08-30 11:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i dont think everyones telling u that so make new friends if ur old ones are giving u crap and if the new pple aren't in the same grade as u thats fine just finds some one who understands what ur gon thru
2007-08-30 11:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by what am i doing wrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. The ones you have are used to you being a certain way and can't accept that it was only a small part of who you are.
2007-08-30 11:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about what people want or even think as long as you are happy with you then **** them,they are not and were never your friends if they can not except you as you are, HAPPY!!!!!
2007-08-30 11:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Talithea H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant people just understand this?
1.Understand what? is it any of there business?NO, really?
why dont they want me happy instead of sad all the time?
2.So, uuummm who cares if they want or don't want you to be happy..Like really, does it matter?
2007-08-30 11:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let them know how you feel,your not going to bottle anything up any longer so get used to it!
2007-08-30 11:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by bricegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through it too every1 changes and if they dont like it then **** them... friends should love you no matter what
2007-08-30 11:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to everyone
give yourself a time and it will stop
i wish you good
2007-08-30 11:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋