A little over a month ago, my best friend of 10 years moved in with my boyfriend and I. She decided that the north was not for her, she got approved for a transfer down south. I offered to let her stay here until she found a place to stay. I told her I didnt expect her to pay anything that would remain the same whether she was here or not. However water and electricity would not. Well she seems to have made her mark. She has talked about staying here until December until she goes to Mexico. She has made no contributions to any bills and has contributed about 80 dollars to food cost. She has decorated my guest room to her liking, and small things like that. She complains about what I have in my fridge...washes clothes whenever she feels like it....and leaves everything a mess...a dirty mess. I dont know if she's just "confortable" and feels that our life long friendship permits her to act this way...or is she just plain rude...I dont want to hurt our friendship in the least bit.
2007-08-30 11:04:38 · 2 answers · asked by andy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's already hurt by her taking advantage of you.you need to tell her that if she wants to continue living there,to start pitching in or find another place asap.you're a friend-not handout for her.if she gets mad,that's ok.she'll get over it and help or move out.
2007-08-30 11:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by bratt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the next electric bill comes in, ask her for a third of it.
2007-08-30 11:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋