I recently broke up with my boyfriend, But i can't seem to get him off of my mind. What's the best way to get over a guy, and stop thinking about him?
2007-08-30 08:17:38 · 29 answers · asked by Glamorous 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I could give you one good solution for getting over him but I can't....All I can say is time will heal all pain. Unfortunately, when you really love someone you can not forget them overnight. Like the saying goes "it takes a day to meet someone" but a life time to forget someone". I have definitely been where you've been before...and time was the only way I really got over my ex. However, to help take my mind off of him I surrounded myself around friends and family. Plus, I started trying new things such as traveling, going dancing, exercising, writing poetry etc. I also started attended events like fashion shows, concert, sporting events etc. Being in those types of setting keep me busy and it open more opportunities to meet new potential mates. Lastly, I started doing things to boost my confidence such as working on my appearance,getting my hair and nails done going shopping and I made sure I looked my best whenever went out.
PS. start dating other guys. It will definitely work. In the beginning it may feel a little weird because you will be missing your ex. However, you will begin to like getting treated like your wanted and needed. Before you know it you will eventually see that your ex is not worth your time...and don't be afraid to ask God for help. Ask him to help you get over him. Pray does work!!!!
2007-08-30 08:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sexysass 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one especially since you have put a lot of time and feelings into a relationship. You broke up with him for a reason, think of that reason. Try finding something new that you can get interested in or a old hobby that you have put off. Keep yourself busy and before long the thoughts will fade and you will find yourself moving on.
2007-08-30 08:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Atropabelladonna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that I've discovered is just realizing that it's going to take time maybe a lot of time but it will happen everyday slowly you'll realize you need him less and less. It's going to suck but that' part of life and also knowing that everyone goes through this at some point, that you're not alone helps too. You'll get through it.
2007-08-30 08:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by kristonianinstitution 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no immediate cure other than to throw yourself into something that you enjoy and takes a lot of your mind.
If you are a weak person like me, its hard but out of sight, out of mind and don't be afraid to entertain another date that could also help you see that there are good people out there you can be interested in.
2007-08-30 08:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Young Lady: The best way is to stay busy with other people, going to parties and meeting others maybe go back to school, anything will help.
2007-08-30 08:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way. The best thing for you to do is to surround yourself with friends and family who love you and take up a hobby. If you occupy your mind and your hands with other things, it won't be so painful for you. Before you know it, you'll be having fun and not thinking about him. =)
2007-08-30 08:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by n0k0ut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time but I guess keeping your interest to other new things will do the trick. We tend to go back and remorse to all the good things in our life, so if a tragedy occurs we tend not to get over it quickly. SO for now find a new hobby.
2007-08-30 08:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by doc coolmac no PHD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say hang out with your gurls, trust me. And let them know what is up so they'll keep your mind off of him. Join a club, do something new- make sure you fill up all your time, and you'll soon will be saying my ex, who? That is if you want ( to get over your boyfriend) to do that.
2007-08-30 08:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ ~ lele ~ ♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
friends, friends friends!!! You need something in your life to take your mind off of him! Go shopping, go dancing, go get your nails/hair done! Do whatever makes YOU happy! And worst case scenerio if none of this works... look for a hot guy who will make you feel as beautiful as you are! :) Good luck!
2007-08-30 08:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋