2007-08-30 08:14:28 · 43 answers · asked by zul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am out of there
2007-08-30 08:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by skylarks_25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you know, but do it in a nice way. It won't be easy to understand and it might be hard to get over the kind of rejection you are going to feel but it will be for the best for the both of you. And you will leave knowing exactly what the other person had that you don't have and that there is nothing that you could do aobut that. Plus you won't have to live with someone that you know you cannot make happy, at least in that one way.
2007-08-30 08:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by misty h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if you know for certain then that means she told you. If she did, then you need to find out why she is with you. Is this a new revelation or has she known for quite some time. If she just figured it out, no harm no foul, move on. If she knew all along, then she is either using you or experimenting with you and that sir is not cool. Walk away from that one.
If she hasn't told you, and you haven't caught her with a woman, then all this is speculation and you need to have the cojones to come out and ask her, "you dig chicks, don't you?"
good luck! (all this is assuming that this is not a rhetorical)
2007-08-30 08:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girl ? do you mean girlfriend ?
find a new girlfriend, unless you're a girl too.
your daughter ? I'd love and support her. Maybe suggest counseling if she was confused about her sexual orientation. Gay and lesbian people are discriminated against and probably have a much tougher time growing up and getting support from friends and family.
2007-08-30 08:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by cafe_au_lait 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking this question? The solution should be so obvious tell her, I'm sorry but I need a real woman who likes men! Because if she is a lesbian, you will not be able to keep her satisfied.
2007-08-30 08:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥chicks♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband says it involves ur girl, another girl and you sitting in a wicker chair watching! lol, no seriously, if shes with you then shes not a lesbian! bisexuel at most. Talk to her about it. Before i met my husband i had a lesbian past but realised it wasnt for me.
2007-08-30 08:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by clairelington 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless you like having other girls with your girl doing things that u cant do, or better for that matter then maybe you should find a girl that not into girls unless she doesn't have a girlfriend but u may never know because she can bring any girl to the house or to u for that matter and tell you that that's one of her friends, or unless you like girl on girl action which all men does but its yo girl and you gotta make sure she comes back to u. So either way it goes you can stick with her or break up with her if your not comfortable or don't think that its a good idea, u just have to think about it .
2007-08-30 08:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well, if she's ur girl and ur having sex with her she's bi. this COULD pose to be a problem in the relationship. you could tell her it doesnt bother you but from my husband's point of view, he doesnt want anyone but him to give me pleasure, so its not ok. so when she's with a chic and you know im sure ull get jealous. if you tell her that you mind, it will make her have to decide. between men and women. and that's a hard decision. she will prob choose you but want women all of her life. this could lead to cheating...with a woman. and about the whole threesome thing, it wont work either. maybe once or twice, but someone WILL get hurt.
2007-08-30 08:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would send her to therapy to make sure it is not something that happen because of her child hood - then I would send her to church so that they can cast the demon away from here life and if that doesn't work I would talk to here to see if she was going to make a change and if she didn't I would leave her.
2007-08-30 09:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by El Compadre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a guy and she is YOUR girl...she isn't a lesbian...she may be bisexual, but she isn't a lesbian.
2007-08-30 08:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and if my man would be gay,... i would talk to him about it... and ask him the reason why he decided this, to explain me everything he wants me to know... such as if he was from a beginning we started this. then, if hes happy that way,... i would support him and we would be friends.
then i would be happy looking for some straight guy.
2007-08-30 08:23:15 · answer #11 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋