If a man force himself to stop all kind of sexual activity for 1 year, after that does he have sexual desire?

Question

I am 28, and never had any girlfriend. I have sexual addiction (compulsive musterbation, sexual fantacy thinking).
I don't hope I will find any real sex partner. To recover from my sexual addiction and depression, I decided to practice celibacy. I want to know that, how longtime I have to force myself to stop sexual activity? Will a time come when I have no sexual desire and So I will not have to force myself and will be free from pain?

Answer 1

You are human. Chances are that you may always have the desire, question is, do you have the power to stop? find something else to do that will occupy your time so you can get your mind off of it.

Answer 2

Even putting aside that you're a guy..I'm a girl, a virgin, 24 years old..and wouldn't want to lose my sex drive. Masturbation is all we've got..if you feel it's become an obsession then get a hobby to take your mind off sex. Try not to focus on it all the time, but it can be a little something on the side. I've tried being having no sexual activity..you don't lose your drive. You need the kick less admittedly. But, you like it for a reason. Why give it up? If you do feel it's an addiction or compulsive then therapy could help.

Answer 3

I was once sex addict, okay I am about to get deep. Sexual impurity is a group of demonic spirits, lack lust, masturbation, fantasy lust, pornography, rape, sadism, You need to be delivered from it, somewhere in your life these spirits got in,
maybe when you were young, if you had a traumatic sexual experience. God is a deliverer, but first you need a relationship with him, I suffered many years with sexual addiction, I would masturbate at work at my desk, in the bathroom, i needed sex all the time. But now I am healed, I still get horny, I have been celibate for over two years. truly only God can help with any addiction, because they are spirits. You will have a partner that has the same sex drive as you, and God will bless you marriage. You will always have desires, but they won't be out of your control.

Answer 4

Sorry dude, but it sounds like you’re a normal, heterosexual male. There’s research showing that men who NEVER masturbate or think sexual thoughts, have some kind of mental disorder. Beating off and thinking about girls is normal. I don’t think there’s any amount of time that will “cure” you.

You just need some dating tips. Are you looking in the right places? If you like dogs, try volunteering at a dog shelter. If you like comics, go to a comics conference. Are you looking for girls at your “social level”? Are you a nerd but want a Pamela Anderson? That’s probably not going to happen. You have to be confident and wonder if that pretty girl is good enough for YOU. Is SHE qualified to be your girlfriend? If you look at it that way then, girls we see that confidence and become interested.

Answer 5

There is no reasonable way to get rid of all sexual desire. Look at the catholic priests who are child molesters who said they practice celibacy.

I myself am 26, am still a virgin and I can understand where your comin from. I never have had a girlfriend either, never been out on a date, but I keep on truckin and try talkin to girls all over. I'm the nice guy who can't find a girl to save my life. But I know that I'll eventually find someone worthy of me. You'll eventually find someone worthy of you too. Just get out there and talk to the ladies. Be more social.

Try not thinking too much about your desires, and make yourself busy with hobbies, work, religion, etc. No, cold showers don't work. You should hang out more with your family and friends to get your mind off of sexual needs. Don't look at porn (it makes it worse) and better yet stay off the net. Exercise outside by playing a sport you enjoy. Running can tire you out and take your mind off of your sexual desires.

Keep in mind that these desires are natural, just the way we're built. But we can control them by making our mind over. Keep dwelling on different things that don't relate to sex. It will be a challenge but I know you can do it. Mind your thoughts young padawan, and may the force be with you, always.

Answer 6

Perhaps you should speak to a therapist about your addiction and not just go througn self imposed celibacy without being able to discuss with someone WHY you are the way you are...perhaps you'd be able to have a healthy sex life once you understood what caused the addiction and how to control it.

Answer 7

If needing to masturbate signifies sexual addiction, then all the men I know are sexual addicts, including me.

look, it's one thing if you are using sex to avoid something. but you aren't even *having* sex. How can you be addicted to sex if you're not having any?

I think you need to see a therapist. You sound like you have a deep-seated guilt complex about your sexual feelings, and that's not good.

Answer 8

only a pathological reason can make a person devoid of any sexual desire otherwise its not possible.
why do u think dat u cant have any sexual partner,,start believing in urself,,u can have everything.
dont try to do anything abnormal,,,I mean trial to get rid of sexual desires,,,stay normal,,think normal,,,,,what u need to do is to get rid of compulsive masturbation coz dats abnormal and a/c to medical research not good for ur health2-3 tmes /wk is ok

Answer 9

Ummmmm,I don't think practicing celebacy is gonna get rid of a sexual desire.I also don't think it's unhealthy to masturbate or the fantasies.Maybe u need to consult a therapist if u think u have a problem so a professional can help u>

Answer 10

The time will come when you will have no sexual desire ever again.

It will be about 2-3 hours before you reach room temperature.