She left her underwear at his house...?

Question

My boyfriend is a photographer, and I respect the work he does. But when a girl leaves her underwear at his house (he has his studio set up there) shouldn't I have every right to be upset? He has told me over and over everything that happened and has constantly tried to make sure I know nothing happened. Honestly, he's an amazing boyfriend and I couldn't ask for anything else, but when this happens I get really insecure mostly about myself. I finally send the girl a message and below is the conversation.

Her answer:
"You should ahve NEVER been upset or worried about this. I went to his house in my normal wear jeans shirt the normal crap. Underneath it i wear a thong. Im not gonna wear a thong on a shoot. So i brought a pair of boy shorts to the shoot to put on so im not showing anything. Camillo even knows. I had a bf it was for my bf and i was still being respectful to him. Im not like that. And second (im not attratced to cam) not like that ever. He is a greta friend and a great photographer. Before that shoot him and i barely spoke. I like pictures that show some skin that makes it pretty and romantic for my bf. Liek it old cam i would like to do another shoot someday showing my tatt's. Trust me there is nothing to be concerned or worried about. Why u argue about that...i dont know why cuz it comes off silly to me cuz its nothing. I could see where ur comin from if we hooked up or dated, thats enver happened. u have any mroe quesitons?"

what do you think?

Answer 1

Hmmmm I don't like it really, something seems..... strange? Fishy? Out of Place? Its just how did you find out about these undies? Were they in a bedroom or right out in the open? Also why did she feel so incline to talk to you about it? But deep down I'll warn you, I'M INSANLY ANGER AT HUMAN PHOTOGRAPTHERS!!! INSANLY!!! Espacially those that sexualize like that, just don't trust them at all..... really thou unless you really are just saying he is an "amazing boyfriend" because you don't know any better, there could be nothing to worry about here. Its just seems werid the whole underwear being left there, I mean she WAS concious enough of them to take them off for the shoot, yet forgot to take them with her? That just seems a little to convent for me to be comfrontable, but the biggest, most single most, dishearting thing, is that YOU feel strong enough (after all the history you have shared) to come on here and ask us for our opionins this tells me things feel really SUSPICIOUS to you, and I'll tell you they seem suspicious to me to, usually if people also feel that they didn't do anything wrong, they don't explain themselves that readily..... usually rants like that or the product of a guilty mind..... himmmmmm could be best to go with the old proverb. Bit once his bad, bit twice your bad, and just let this blow over, but keep that eye on him.....