My husbands sister and I dont get along she starts conflict even though I try to be very nice to her, it just doesnt work. I think she is just a miserable person and wants others to be as well.. Anyway the question is my husband stands up for me for only a moment and then gets angry with me when we talk about the mean things she does. Today my husband told me to but out of his sister and his business i called him back and he said that the hurtful things that she said were to him in privacy and none of my business even though they were about me. I dont think that I should stay with someone that doesnt put my feelings first... I have spoken with him about how she makes me feel and the neg impact on our family. He told me that she is his sister.... Do you think that I should just move on? I dont think this will ever change or get better....
2007-08-30 06:08:16 · 7 answers · asked by mama 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A perfect husband (or a really good one) would always defend his wife. Always. To anyone.
2007-08-30 08:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she's jealous of you cause your married to her brother, she probably thinks your stealing her brother away from her why she's being so nasty towards you, as for your husband he's gotta stop sticking up for his sister and put your feelings first too, if that ever happened to me then i'd feel left out or ill be asking myself weather he loves me or not, hes letting his sister get away with everything, and thats what she loves, she likes the attention her brother gives her and she knows how or what to say to make him... good luck at trying to fix things, if things continue like that then he's putting his sisters needs first before you, i wouldnt bother with him if that happens...
2007-08-30 13:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk or argue with her then you can't possible have problems with her. If he talks to her and she says things about you he should not tell you, this serves no purpose. If your marriage is good except for this then stay and do the things I suggested. If it has other problems then get professional help to save it.
2007-08-30 13:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sticks and stones may brake my bones but words will never hurt me. Remember this is his sister so the best thing to do is leave alone.
2007-08-30 13:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything else in your marriage is good, then just don't talk about his sister.
Don't tell him things that happen between the two of you and he won't be stuck in the middle. Being stuck in the middle is the worst thing.
2007-08-30 13:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just avoid the sister. It's your relationship not hers. If she doesn't like you than oh well. She's not married to you he is.
2007-08-30 13:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blood is thicker than water, but if you all acted like adults this wouldnt be happening...you all need to grow up learn manners and learn how to get along like good little children.
2007-08-30 13:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by cs2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋