Yesterday my wife told me that she excepts me smoking Marijuana, and talking to my female friends.Both of which she had a problem with since we've been married, and both I've tried to curtail to please her.Later she had this dark attitude about it, saying"just give me some time".So I thought about it,now I"m resenting the fact that she should've accepted me in the begining, and that this is sending me into an emotional rollercoster, and after two years of marriage, Im tired of the emotional bullshit!This morning I just shut down, and now shes playing that control game of"do you need the car because I have to run some errands", and besides you are just going to be chatting online anyway".Now I am expecting a job to start as early as today, with no way to get there, no money, or nothing!She even woke me up to go to the bathroom as if she was in a rush to leave, I get up, and in all of 20 seconds I was ready, but she wasnt.Two years of this yall 2 years, and no change, wheres the love?
2007-08-30 05:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by Square Root 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was doing fine by myself, I had my own car, and my female friends, were friends since grade school.I never hurt anyone by smoking,but I cahnged all of that to satisfy her need to feel loved by me.Starting with my car,then me phone number, then the people I associate with, she says Im controlling, but If I was so controlling I wouldnt be writing this forum for help.I've tried to leave, dozens of times, but she begged me back.I am sick, and tired, of playing these emotional games.
2007-08-30 06:09:54 · update #1
You are right about one thing, she should have excepted you for who you are in the first place. We all know that men don't change in less they have a desire to. I would not put up with the female friend bulls***, but that's my opinion, to each his own. Also sounds like you should invest in another car. Is the car hers? If it is, she has the rightto drive it when she wants. I wish you both the best of luck.
2007-08-30 05:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you smoked away the love, do both of you a favor and leave...
2007-08-30 12:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but you are in a toxic and unhealthy relationship. I think you should call it quits.
Hopefully there are no kids in the picture.
2007-08-30 13:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋