2007-08-30 01:24:10 · 21 answers · asked by staring sky07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If anyone wants sex before marriage, remember they are only interested in getting physical nothing more. There is no guarantee they will marray you. They all promise love love love but they actually want sex sex and more sex. People who really love you will respect you and not abuse and will be friends forever. Friendship and respect is more important than just plain sex. All they want to do is use their two minute noodle.
2007-08-30 01:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by live and let live 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always planned on waiting, but was open to the idea that it would happen before. My thoughts were I don't have to wait until my wedding night but it will be with someone I am planning on marrying. Not everyone agrees with it. I just believe it is something to be done between two people who love eachother. There are too many risks to have random sex with someone you just met. Most of my friends did not feel that way and couldn't believe at 22 i was still a virgin. A lot depends on the cultural morality you are raised with and your personal decisions. I had family members who were whores, and I chose to not be like them.
2007-08-30 01:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people do, and I think it's a good idea to live with someone for a while before actually getting married. After all, you wouldn't buy a car without giving it a test drive!
No, but seriously, I think it's better, if you can. I'm well aware that there are religious reasons for not doing this, and I am respectful of people who choose not to have sex before marriage for religious reasons. I simply chose a different road, and I can only choose for myself.
2007-08-30 01:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is total.. and I am talking about LOVE.. it means there is love, sex, trust and all the most important components to handle an adult relationship and a future marriage of course. We should be free to act like we want, but none is better than others just because they want to wait ot because the want to have sex before marriage... love and sex also are not 'public' issues... we are all free to decide the best in our life... I live my sexual life even if I am not married yet... it does not mean I am less serious than others who want to wait... it is only about decisions...
I lost mine late and I changed my mind about this because I feel I want to share everything with the person I fall in love with... I could not be able to separate the 2 things though!!!!
it is a complete and huge joy! god bless!
2007-08-30 02:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by silviait1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, having fall in love with someone doesn't mean that you should have sex with him/her. The most important is on how you will handle the good harmonious relationship between your partner. And mostly in our tradition, women surrendered their virginity once they get married because virginity is the best and precious gift that they could only give to his husband.
2007-08-30 01:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by mysterious guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can wait till you are married or until the relationship has developed well you have better chances of staying together.
Most people who have sex too soon end up breaking up because it is all about physical gratification and not getting to know the person inside.
2007-08-30 01:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of people think about it.
lots of people do that.
The real question is this - what are your personal ethics and morals concerning this issue?
If you don't know what you believe, then it would be worth your while to spend some time learning more about yourself, both for your own sake, and the sake of the person you love.
Each person makes choices concerning their belief system and how they will act toward others.
There are also, in certain areas of the world, legal restrictions concerning this and other issues.
If you perscribe to specific religious or philosophical beliefs, there may be constraints on your behavior from those choices as well.
2007-08-30 01:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Larry V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what your religious beliefs are, if you believe in saving yourself for that one special person then no you should wait, never compromise your beliefs, on the other hand I didn't wait for marriage and as long as you practise safe sex then sex before marriage is OK, it is how you feel that should count and if a person feels ready to have sex then it will do no harm as long as it is safe sex you don't want any unplanned pregnancies or STD.
2007-08-30 01:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had sex and I am not married, but I respect those who choose to save themselves for the marriage bed.
2007-08-30 01:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by FlowerChild 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Personally, nope. because i fall in love with that person's individuality, rather than her body.
there is a difference between love and lust.
Hope this helps, Peace.
2007-08-30 01:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by urbanvigilante 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋