most times eveything is fine but now and again he goes funny
not replied to a few texts since monday from me?
should i ring his work place (its his business) or just not contact him and wait.
its makin me really anxious but i dont want to bug him.
2007-08-30 00:34:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a pretty serious relationship of 3 yrs
2007-08-30 00:41:45 · update #1
Don't pester a man - it is likely to be the one thing that will push him away from you.
You have tried to make contact and he clearly doesn't want to speak to you at the moment so I would leave him alone. He will come back to you when he is good and ready. The next time that you see him, bide your time, but talk to him about what happened and why he didn't respond. Explain that such gaps cause you distress but you are more than happy for him to have his space - you just need to know.
And don't go worrying yourself - if things are meant to be they are meant to be. If they aren't, then it is better to know and move on. Forcing the issue will not change the outcome.
Good luck
2007-08-30 00:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Robbo31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it - let him be the one to get back in contact. I think men have a funny way. Give him a week or so and he will soon realise what he has the possibility of loosing out on and I bet he contacts you. I had the same kind of situation and within a week or so, I had texts flooding in and wanting to meet up. Give him time and he'll soon be in touch. If not - he obviously isn't worth it anyway and I'm sure you can do better!!
2007-08-30 00:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by RachyC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call if you like. Make small talk for a bit, then ask him where you stand in his life. Remember, no matter what he says it is his actions that tell the true story. If you are not getting what you need out of the relationship while you are dating, your probably won't when you are married---if you ever get to that point with him You could be the girl on the side. Get some answer. Be strong and move on if you need to!
2007-08-30 00:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be saying this but in my experience if he aint replying to texts from Monday something is up! I don't think you should call his work tho, it will make you seem needy, just wait it out, but don't wait too long, and when he eventually does come crawling back to you you make him pay for keeping you waiting
Good luck
2007-08-30 00:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy-baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him and tell him that you are dumping him. Life is too short and you don't need this. There are alot more guys out there that will appreciate and treat you the way that you should treated. It may take awhile to find them, but it will be worth it in the long run.
2007-08-30 00:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by calihae2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmm, its probably his way of thinking over your relationship with him... guys are like elastice bands. they hold onto to you too tight and when they get tired they stretch themselves for awhile and get back to you.. in short, cool off.....
if you're really that bothered with his sudden behavior then call him at his workplace or email him.. i'm sure that being in a business means that he has a laptop wherever he goes...
if he won't still reply or answer your calls, then visit him to where he's working at so that you can see what he's been doing
2007-08-30 00:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by angel in disgust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not ring his work place and i know this may be hard to do, but once he See's that you are not always phoning and txting him he will start to question if there is anything wrong. once he realises that you are not always available he will contact you more often. he may feel a bit suffocated.
2007-08-30 00:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have tried text him, he did not answer. Give him some space. Guys need some space sometimes. He'll call you. Just wait.
2007-08-30 00:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Ricardo W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh, dont phone his work place, leave him for a few more days, if he doesnt contact you then he isnt interested anymore. stop being so anxious, play hard to get, its the best way! theres no way i would chase him
2007-08-30 00:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ottilie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby he was talking on the phone with one of his friends or something! Just ask him to be honest! Good luck!
Valerie A.
2007-08-30 00:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Valerie A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋