i met a guy but nothing happened yet other than talking, becasue he said he likes thin girls, and has told me t loose weight and then he'll want me, im a 19yr old female and im size 18 but he wants me to be size 8
2007-08-30 01:35:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget this guy! I'm sure you aren't coming into this demanding he make changes and I'm sure he is not perfect! If he can't like you for who you are, than he is not worth your time. He is already criticizing you and has no right to. Don't change yourself for him, only do it for yourself.
2007-08-30 01:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your question no I don't think he wants you, and why on earth would you want him, he's got the makings of a control freak, believe me it won't stop at loosing weight. And you are worth so much more. And when you do dump him just say something like I can loose weight any time but you'll always be ugly. At least it will pull him down a peg or two.
2007-08-30 03:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bezza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to f*** off & don't touch him with a very long barge pole.
NOBODY has the right to say/demand things like that, thinking they're holding you to randsom. You;re worth a lot more than that & he needs to grow up & treat people in a correct manor.
sometime in the future you will meet someone who loves you for being you, I'll admit that it could well be a lengthy wait - but it'll be worth it. I speak from personal experiance & I still can't believe it's happened as it seems too good to be true.
2007-08-30 03:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mindless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello tell him to GET lost what a **** its is lost i cant stand guys like this who talk crap .....arrrrrrrh that's better listen Hun you just be your self and don't loose weight for this guy NO guy his worth all that if he cant like you a size 18 i wouldn't give him the time off day PERSONALITY that's the key you find some one who loves you for you there are some really smart loving caring guys out there all the best
2007-08-30 04:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is never going to work - why ask?
If you want to lose the weight and become a size 8 then you go for it - and then go and find a terrific guy and stick two fingers up at this insincere, vindictive person.
Good luck.
2007-08-30 02:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Robbo31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound rude or anything so don't take offence but I think alot of men would prefer a girl of size 8. I think he's just being honest with you. Although if he doesn't like your personality enough to forget what size you are he's obviously too shallow. Men and woman all say things to people to make them think 'do they like me?' it annoys me like hell. It's because they want everyone to want them. Even if they don't like them back.
On the other hand, maybe he does like you, but he's obviously still too shallow so if I were you I'd give up on him and find someone who likes you for who you are. :) xx
2007-08-30 01:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he told u he'll want u only if u lose some weight?
he's an obvious jerk who cares nothing than apperance even when we know it wont last long...
im sure u'll find a guy who'll like u 4 who u r. good luck=)
2007-08-30 01:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by bubu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked a question
does size matters?
and most people say no and if he cant respect you of who you are and want you to become a size 8 quick dump him. You want to be yourself you must be yourself no matter what people say or do ... at least your healthy and lucky to be alive thats the main point okay? dont listen to him hes just trying to force you to be somebody else you arnt. He doesnt want you or he would understand and accept you of who you are
Good Luck and remember be yourself =)
2007-08-30 01:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you even DARE get with this guy! You should never be with someone who wants to change you, particularly to that extent! He's a pig and you should find someone who'll love you for who you are. Even if you lost all that weight i bet he'd start trying to change other aspects of your life! Please don't get with him, he's a... a... ok, most of it can't be said on here, basically he's not good x
2007-08-30 01:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a size 18. If he can't like you for who you are either he isn't worth it or your not a nice person. Do you think you are a nice person? Well, then, I guess he isn't worth it, is he?
2007-08-30 01:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋