I think I might be crazy but it seems like you will always be the enemy is that true?
2007-08-30 15:03:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeh... i know.. some in-laws are a pain in the butt... but u still have to treat them wid respect.. they're ur second parents too... no matter how bad they are...
2007-08-30 15:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by zykoe1208 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My in-laws treat me just fine. I have a very Greek father in law who is difficult to understand his English. I have 2 sisters in law, one who doesn't speak to the family anymore and the other who is completely antisocial, and my mother in law passed away just after almost a year of our marriage so for the most part, the in laws are no problem.
2007-08-30 22:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed, however enemy may be too harsh a word.
Simply, my in-laws don't want to talk to me.
We live barely 5 minutes drive from them.
We have just passed through our 1st anniversary of marriage,
we have a 1 year old child...
... & still, they want nothing to do with me.
No, your not crazy.
However, some are insane.
Its an unresolved issue for me
so... what d'ya do?
2007-08-30 22:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by barly_suga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married, but since they're a little bit traditional and I'm in all ways practical married to their son (cohabiting + true commitment), they call me their daughter in law. They treat me like a blessing because he's truly happy with me and his life has turned around for the better since he's been with me. I'd have to his parents treat me with a lot more respect than my parents treat either of us.
2007-08-30 22:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...NOT necessarily true. I have a wonderful relationship with my in-laws, my mother-in-law is my best friend. It's how you go into it. You go into it with the stuff you wrote, then you have already lost. I think a lot has to do with how much I love their son. They know that I would move hell or high water for him. Good Luck!
2007-08-30 22:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always ask me a lot of questions. They're not nosy, just inquisitive. They're very helpful and I have never felt like an outsider and really feel part of the family.
It's actually quite weird. Haha
His mom is a hippy, and his dad is like Johnny Cash.
2007-08-30 22:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mandiex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My in-laws treat me nice to my face and talk smack about me behind my face. I'd rather have the lousy treatment than to be around a bunch of hypocrites.
2007-08-30 22:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ambrosia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My in laws treat me fine.
2007-08-30 22:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Maddison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My inlaws are very nice to me,but not to my sister in law,but she's a brat so I can see why they are cold to her. They come out and visit every year and we have a good time. I wouldn't trade my inlaws in for anything.
2007-08-30 22:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my in-laws like they were my own parents.My own mother is jealous of the relationship i have with them .
2007-08-30 22:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋