I am having sex with my ex wife occasionally. is this correct? she is real hot & naughty.
2007-08-30 22:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by lincolnveto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hw wud we know if it is right or wrong??
If it is happening with mutual consent, there is none to stop yu. It is just like two frnz spending some good moments together.
Mayb yu both can patch up after that? Usually getting intimate helps yu want to stay together and resolve yur differences...
Try and get back to the woman YU find hot & naughty. Yu don't want to loose her, do yu???
If it was wrong on yur part, seek forgiveness or if it was on her part, forgive and forget. Not juz occassionally bedding her, try occassionally spending time together too.
Good Luck!
2007-08-30 22:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by 13 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did that for a while with my ex. It just led me to believe that there was a chance we would get back together. Then I realized that until I stopped sleeping with her I wouldn't get on with my own life and find someone better. I have noe found a really good woman and the sex is good without messing with my emotional state.
2007-08-31 04:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if its correct, but im sure thats what makes it so good.
my ex-husband and i had the best sex we'd had for years after he left. it was so very nasty.
My motivation at first was that he was with someone else and i wanted to get him to be unfaithful to her (she was the one he was with while we were married, causing us to split. yeah i know, not a good reason)
anyway, besides all the stuff about morals and right and wrong, and about me letting him back into my bed, it was Fantastic
it was like a being with a stranger, but one that knows all your kinks, fantasys, and that i felt safe with (to some extent).
we took things to such a higher level. it was quite liberating ( i must admit it didnt help with the healing process), but it was Hot
2007-08-30 22:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your having sex!! She's hot and naughty...who cares!! If she's down with it do it as long as you can! It's probably better because your not together anymore!! I would keep doing it....hell if you don't want to....send he my way!! JK
2007-08-31 00:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
IN SOME STATES THIS IS KNOWN AS RECONCILIATION. YOU MAY NOT BE DIVORCED ANY LONGER. IT IS COMMON, HOWEVER, FOR PEOPLE TO HAVE UNRESOLVED FEELINGS AFTER A DIVORCE. YOU CAN BE ATTRACTED TO AN EX-PARTNER WITHOUT WANTING TO GET BACK TOGETHER. IT'S JUST PART OF THE ROLLER COASTER YOU RIDE AFTER A DIVORCE. GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
2007-08-30 23:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by GENE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well how long did you waited??? if you divorced you wife like yesterday and started having sex 3 hours later then you are evil! sex this sex that
2007-08-30 23:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by 9-pounds-lighter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not, as long as you are both honest about what you're doing and not leading the other one on to think you are getting back together or anything like that.
2007-08-31 01:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by meagain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you divorced. If you are both stable emotionally (and both single, obviously) I personally don't see a problem with it. If it causes a problem for either of you, not a good thing.
2007-08-30 22:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by wikedwhich1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is real hot and naughty why did you divorce her?
Isnt it amazing thing's got hard between you (and I dont mean sexually) so you divorced , but now it's ok to use her as a sex slave to suit your own hunger because things are getting hard sexually for you ?.
If your both into it I guess yahoo for you.
2007-08-30 22:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
It's incredibly incorrect and stupid if you're both with someone else. Are you having an affair? Is she?
You're both just desperate if that's how your using eachother. You obviously don't know much about love, respect and marriage. You only know how to have sex, just sex.
2007-08-30 23:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋