Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

2007-08-30 19:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by jclprettymuchrxursx 2 in Singles & Dating

and they also try be very gentle to you. Im curious because im like that.

2007-08-30 19:00:48 · 1 answers · asked by straight guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just love them! I live around alot of them and i love how they dress, there accents, and how they approach me.. Does anyone else out there feel like that?

2007-08-30 18:58:39 · 1 answers · asked by April 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 18:58:18 · 15 answers · asked by ndanu c 1 in Family

We have been on 4 "dates." She changed plans for tomorrow due to her kid needing attention and I for now am trying to believe her. Now its lunch tomorrow but we both admitted we don't have anything particular to do tomorrow so maybe it will be as fun as dinner. I wonder how long to go on for, that is how many more dates. I like her but she acts a little guarded and not willing to be vunerable, but she's smart to do that especially since she's probably been hurt before(99% of people). I hope she opens up soon so I don't lose interest. I do like her but I am not smitten. I haven't seen her enough to be smitten! :>)

2007-08-30 18:57:55 · 7 answers · asked by mattclaptongad 1 in Singles & Dating

In high school 2 yeard older is a big deal.
Is a popular junior and Im a freshman is that too old, or would he even take me seriously??
What should I do??
I'm also not sure what to say to him we usually only talk about school and grades and teacher any other ideas on how we can talk about something else??

2007-08-30 18:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work around alot of women and i listen to some of their converstaions I have noticed that alot of woman describe what they like in a man, but the guys they fall for are the complete opposite. I understand compromising a few short comings but they are no where near what they are looking for in a guy and the guy with all the proper qualifications they wont give them the time of day. Yet they cant figure out why the relationship doesnt work. I find the whole thing hilarious and sad. Please explain because when i date a woman i know is not quite right from the start and i am not shocked when the relationship turn sour. How do women process this? Just looking for a little insight, thanks

2007-08-30 18:55:15 · 6 answers · asked by jayblack33311 1 in Singles & Dating

Describe your prince charming as good as you can.
For Me
He needs to love and respect God
Respectful and not exactly looked upon but known for good causes
Educated and has or is studynig to have a proffesion
Financially stabled
Athletic,tall or average
Can dance
*very inportant: Romantic,Passionate,Beautiful (in and out,mostly out),a person of emotions,and not jealous but taking care of his lady

you?

2007-08-30 18:51:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi

Thanks in advance for you answers. I was married for 12 years and have been seprated for two and we are moving to divorce.
So I have been out of the dating game for some time. Over the last two months I have met a lovely women and we have been out regularly dancing and talking etc. My question is how to I gently move the relationship to the next level? I know she really likes me but I don't know if her feelings are depper. When we started going out she said that a lot people asked her out in the past and she said she onley wanted to be friends with them because there wasn't that level of attraction. She hasn't said that to me,so there may be something more. Also she said she wanted to take time to get to know someone. So time is what we are giving it. I just would like to advance it a bit to see if it will work. Overarching this, is that we both have had hard relatioships in the past.
Any advice greatly appreciated.
Many thanks
Drew

2007-08-30 18:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by Drew M 1 in Singles & Dating

okay im 5 10 and my boyfriend is the exact same height and it sucks sometimes because i see him checking out so many girls and all of them are around 5 5 or shorter. my point is if he thinks a girl is sexy the girl will 99.9% be short. so why is he with me. he makes me feel weird about my height and i just hide that it affects me because i know he doesnt like that. i just dont know why every guy i'm with never truely likes me. i even get told that i would be super hot if i would only shrink. why dont guys like tall girls? i dont like any sugar coated answers. i like the truth :]

2007-08-30 18:47:46 · 28 answers · asked by lvpinklove 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a HUGE drama in my life and would like some unbiased opinions.

I have been in a relationship with a guy who is from Mexico for 6 months now. We were friends a year before. 7 years ago (he's 25) had a baby with a woman who he was in a relationship with. Things turned sour and they broke up. He moved here to the states 3 years ago and a year later (I still did not know him) he and her tried to start things again and she became pregnant (again) and I had always thought he only had one child. It turns out that he has two children, and didn't know until recently that the baby who is now 7 months old was his (the mother had another relationship and for that they are broken up). She came to my work a few days ago and talked to me. She told me that she is married to him even though they are not (I've talked to his brother and family) She is still in love with him and has been calling his home and saying lies about me that I am unfaithful.

2007-08-30 18:44:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today we all went to my in laws house, just to hang out and he comes in and he's always saying his little remarks about me,.... I today I exploded,... he said that my husband was contaminated and usually he will say: Just kidding, and just get away with it but tonight I got so mad and I snapped back before he could say anything and told him: WTF,.... Why dont u just be a man and tell me that your NOT kidding and dont pretend to like me, and stop saying your constant stupid remarks,........ so this guy got in my face, and said: I think your a jacka s s .... and I said: what?!!! He repeated it so I called him SCUM of the family, and then thats when everything was set off, every1 started gettin upset and my husband told him: Get the F outta my wife's face and be a man about it and face me,... what type of man confronts a woman? So then I grabbed my keys and just left,...... My in-laws were tryin to calm me down, becuz my eyes were a little teary.... and I do love my husband;s family,.....

2007-08-30 18:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family

2007-08-30 18:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I married a man with a son who at the time of marriage was only a year old. I had 3 girls ranging in age 8 to 14 was much older then my husband by 9 years.

His real mother left him at the hospital when he was born because being a mother was not cool. Her loss my gain because my son has been the light of my life. His sister all loved him and spoiled him from almost the day he got married.

I can't even think how my life would be if I had never had this young man in my life.
Sad part now his father and I are getting a divorce he's in love with another woman his own age. he asked my son to stop calling me his mother MY SON REFUSED!
My son who is in IRAQ again is heart broken, I'm fearful that he might get hurt over that distraction because his father has asked him to stop writing me or even contact me.
My son a SEAL told his father that he was lucky he's not in his line of fire.

Any advise, I need to make sure he know I LOVE him, and still his MOTHER no matter what happens?

2007-08-30 18:40:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has been keeping something from me.We are twins and from as long as i remember, i could feel what she was feeling, think what she was thinking. Even if wer'e not together i know if she is happy or is hurting, and her me. I even got severe pains in my leg the day she broke her leg, while i was in LA and her at our grandparents in Minnesota

I believe we are almost telepathic. But lately i am confused. I feel She is trying to hide something from me. I feel cold & blank around her and Im soo afraid ive lost what we had, and i feel like so sad & even scared, almost like shes gone

How can i get her to open up to me?

2007-08-30 18:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i really don't trust my g/f around other guys. What can I do to help or change the way I feel?

2007-08-30 18:38:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I didn't see my friend for about 6 months. Now she comes to stay at my house for 2 days.
I would like to greet her in a good way but now a little bit out of money - I can spend not so much. Any ideas where I can take her and what to do at the weekend? What to cook?

P.S.: We are 22 and 24, girls. I live in a city with population of 1000000 people, there is a small forest near my house and the Volga river. I live alone.

2007-08-30 18:35:23 · 7 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2 in Friends

why ar eyou girls so into bad guys? aren't you deserving of us good guys?

2007-08-30 18:35:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do men like to get compliments from their girlfriends in a relationship?

What do you like to be complimented on?
Any pointers?
I don't think that i have ever complimented my boyfriend.

2007-08-30 18:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I have been together for almost three years now. Just recently, we moved closer to her parents house and they've started inviting themselves over at their own conveniance. We both hate unexpected guest, more me than her. What can we do to avoid this? Her parents are extremely sensitive and DRAMATIC, so what can I do or say without having them regret taking me in as their own daughter??? PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-08-30 18:31:16 · 13 answers · asked by Iesha 1 in Family

2007-08-30 18:28:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's already 32 but is already stable & still hot although he's almost getting bald....anyways, we have been texting each other for quite some time now & he has been extra caring & hospitable whenever we & our friends are together...he has sent me a message before that he misses me but until now he hasn't said if he feels something for me or what? i'm interested in him although i got a lot of choices right now...if he wouldn't make his move soon, i think i have to choose another...should i let him know first or should i wait for him still? (i'm only 22 by the way)

2007-08-30 18:26:46 · 28 answers · asked by leighn 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well one day i got drunk with the guy "friend" in my patio.SO we did engage in some sexually activity and i also had sex with his best friend the day before.And i was also messing with his cousin( i still dont see anything wrong with it).Well this big ordeal happened when i was drunk some 30 year old guy had sex with but i said no and i didnt kno what was going on.anyways then my mom found out about everything.so after i got my cell phone back i tried to call the boy that i was in the back with but he didnt have minutes.then my mom said that i wasnt allowed to talk to him after everyhting that happened and that i had relations with 3 best friends.well one day when i was outside about to go to school he came out of his house and i kno he saw me and i really wanna talk to him because he was so so sweet.so do u think i should go against my moms wishes and keep it on the down low and jus let him go.But wat if i do decide to talk to him and he doesnt wanna talk to me?so wat should i do

2007-08-30 18:23:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 18:21:24 · 10 answers · asked by alspring7 1 in Singles & Dating

Well me and my boyfriend have been together 1 year 3 months and it's going to be forever!! BUT, he looks out the corner of his eye to look at someone else, he always gets angry when I look through his phone, he sees a girl I don't like and doesn't tell me about it.( the one he fouled around with on me) An d lately he wants space. We live togwther and I get confused. Should I give him space? Change my appearence, because I always want to be wit him, what am I doing wrong??

2007-08-30 18:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-30 18:20:24 · 2 answers · asked by shing 1 in Family

MY BOYFRIEND LIVES WITH HIS DAD. AND IF HE DOESNT DO WHAT HE SAID THE MOMENT THAT HE SAID IT HE WILL HIT HIM ON THE HEAD WITH THE FIST. WHEN THE DAD COMES HOME AND HE SEES HIS BEDROOM DOOR OPEN HE WONT EVEN ASK HIS SON MY BOYFRIEND MICHAEL DID YOU GO IN MY ROOM. HE WILL JUST CALL THE COPS AND REPORT A BRAKE IN ON HIS SON. OR JUST KICK HIM OUT. HIS WHOLE FAMILY IS CRAZY. IS THAT RIGHT WHAT THE DAD IS DOING?

2007-08-30 18:19:04 · 16 answers · asked by **prIncEsS gIrL*** 2 in Family

ok so my mom just came home from kingsoopers, it was dark out and my dad went in to by food, my mom was waiting in the car and some guy came up to here with a nife and told her to give him money. I dont know what hapened after that cuz she didnt tell me. now i am so scared for my mom because she cant protect herself. What can my mom do to stay safe in an area thats full of those black people who get runk all day im not trying to be racist btw and i know white poeple do it too but where i live its mostly black. Help what are some tips...

2007-08-30 18:10:24 · 18 answers · asked by teenqueen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my question is that Don't you hate it when you help and comfort your friend all the time but when you have a problem they don't give a dam about you and they just pretend they just care?

Well I have this friend in school, and its the exact situation as I mention above and it seems like she could care less about you or anybody before herself! She always says what ever. Don't you hate that? Have you ever experienced this before?

2007-08-30 18:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 4 in Friends

Last July 4,2007, I was confined in the hospital due to heart enlargement.The schedule of payment in my friend is every 15th and 30th day of the month.He's forcing me to pay my credit as soon as possible.Our company had deducted me a P1,000 every payday for my hospital bill and my rate is only 272.00/day. I cried the last time he talked to me because he said a lot of things that terribly hurt me.The barrowed money is P3,000 plus the interest P3,000.He gave an interest every 15th and 30th day of the month also.Any advices from you?How can I budget my money if I was the only one working in the family.My husband is jobless...How can I explain to my friend that my salary is not enough and he knows it because he's my co-worker.

2007-08-30 18:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by summershane 0530 1 in Marriage & Divorce