My girlfriend likes to be so sexy in NiteClubs(but nontouchbl for the other ones,accept me) Wat dst meen?

Answer 1

It means you must be doing something right.

Answer 2

Is it just in nite clubs that she behaves this way? Or is she "sexy" behind closed doors in her home/your home/the home you share. If its just in the nite clubs it seems a bit off to me and begs the question of is she fishing and using you for a lure? Doesn't make much sense but then the workings of the female mind don't always make much sense. This coming from a female it should hold some weight in the "women don't make sense" debate. Now if on the other hand she acts "sexy" towards you behind closed doors when she doesn't have anyone but you to show off for that's all it means in my opinion. She's showing off for you.

Now to get into the reason I say she could be using you as a lure. Ever heard the phrase "you want what you can't have"? Well when she's with you and isn't letting anyone else near but is enticing them with her behavior she's calling up that base feeling for the inevitable "D*** she looks fine!" and the "If only I could get him out of the way so I could get my shot at her." If she keeps it up eventually she might find her a better arm to be candy on. Nothing against you at all. This is just my outsider observation.

Admittedly I don't know the whole situation so I can't give a definite answer but she's either dangling herself in front of other men in hopes of snagging another one or she's committed to you and her behavior is just true to her nature. There is a third alternative but its an odd one out and very few people fall under this category: the music played at the nite club and/or the environment she's in just brings out that side of her. I'm speaking from personal experience. I am not a person to dance under normal circumstances but the right mix of mood, environment, and music will bring out the part of me that wants to dance and when that happens there's only one way that I dance. A guy left me because of that fact. He swore that I was cheating on him with a guy that he saw me dancing with and didn't give a moment for me to explain the situation which was that the guy was practically my little brother and I was 1) ruffling feathers because it amuses me and 2) teaching him how to move with a woman when she dances.

Hopefully I have provided a bit of insight even though I doubt I was of any help. I wish you the best of luck and I hope that she's either the kind of person that exudes sex appeal or she's an odd one out like me and under the right set of circumstances she goes from choir girl to sexy goddess in about 2 seconds. If she's an odd on out I suggest you learn the circumstance...you might be able to make use of the knowledge. *wink* *nudge*

Answer 3

Women usually dress to impress other women. She probably wants to be the hottest girl and show up all the other girls. If she is a good girlfriend in every other aspect, don't worry about it. If she seems promiscuous, maybe you could ask her if you can help pick out her outfits. Just don't act like a jealous fool.

Answer 4

Assuming that she doesn't act this way the rest of the time.... I would say that she enjoys letting loose every once in a while. We are all sexual beings & sometimes we just have to let it out ;-)

Answer 5

She wants guys to be jealous of you. She wants guys to look at her and admire how sexy she is and she wants you to feel special. She's kind of making them want her and then she will just reject them- it's the nature of women.

Answer 6

She feels comfortable with you, so she doesn't feel the need to get sexy all of the time for you.

Answer 7

She likes U.

Answer 8

She enjoys the attention and looking good. Don't worry, she is not taking any other offers, but you.

Answer 9

Sorry to say that, she's a whore. If i were you, I would not be serious about her, and be prepared to get a new girlfriend...

Answer 10

That shes a tart?