Well my question is that Don't you hate it when you help and comfort your friend all the time but when you have a problem they don't give a dam about you and they just pretend they just care?
Well I have this friend in school, and its the exact situation as I mention above and it seems like she could care less about you or anybody before herself! She always says what ever. Don't you hate that? Have you ever experienced this before?
2007-08-30 18:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hell no, its not like she doesn't know anything to say, She just doesn't give a dam!
2007-08-30 18:15:27 · update #1
The same can be said for family my friend. Sucks.
2007-08-30 18:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Crunchy Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i'm in the same situation. i'm the one that gives advice when they ask me to...i try the best i can but when i need some advice from my closest friends sometimes they say "i don't know" or they say something that's not helpful. people who help out others can't always help by themselves. they need someone who can help them too. so it's hard. i know that my closest friends might care but they just can't find things to say to help me. but i tell them it's ok. i wont get all mad and crazy just because they didn't help me.
2007-08-30 19:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by p_sanchez91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a universal problem experienced by those who are kind enough to help others. Sweat not. Next time she comes over with a problem, repeat after her, "Whatev'."
2007-08-30 18:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by My Final Answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st: what even is the worse thing ever i hate those 2 words sooooooooooo much!!!!!!
2nd: she is very selfish
3rd: she doesnt care about u
4th: get a friend who cares
2007-08-30 18:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you need someone or something, that is when you find out who your true frineds are. That is just life. Don't feel lonely, it happens all of the time.
2007-08-30 18:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. When you tell them something that have happened to you, it is nothing compared to what happened to them. I stay away from those type of people because they are waste of my time.
2007-08-30 18:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by SWEET_COCOA_27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally! I also hate it, when friends wont even listen to me.
2007-08-30 18:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she say it really ignorantly? study the tone of her voice- maybe she's just ignoring you cause she doens't know what to say? but if she does just ignore you she's probably one of those people who obsess about their reputation- ignore her next time she comes to you (unless she's suicidal)
2007-08-30 18:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋