In high school 2 yeard older is a big deal.
Is a popular junior and Im a freshman is that too old, or would he even take me seriously??
What should I do??
I'm also not sure what to say to him we usually only talk about school and grades and teacher any other ideas on how we can talk about something else??
2007-08-30 18:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on age. There is a big difference between him being 17 and you 15 or him 17 and you 14. When I was a freshman I dated a Junior and looking back I learned alot from her (in more ways than one). lol.
I believe now though that I lacked the maturity to make the relationship work.
2007-08-30 19:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Man Ace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Age is just a number. I dated someone that was four years older during my senior year at high school. If you two really have chemistry, you'll find something. If not, dont force it, just relax. Find out what he's into, what games he watches or bands he listens to. Entertainment news on people such as Michael Vick is also another thing you can talk about. Definately try to pull it away from school. And if it doesn't happen, don't get down on yourself. There are plenty of fish in the sea. But ya only live once, so why not do it with no regrets.
2007-08-31 02:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its a big deal having a 2-year gap between your ages. Besides, if he's interested in you then it doesn't really matter. At least you get to talk to him. Anyway, try to ease up topics about family and friends or anything during your conversations with him to get to know him better. If he can open up to you about his life outside of school then maybe he is taking you seriously. If he isn't then all is not lost. Your a freshman after all so you have all the time you need to explore.
2007-08-31 02:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by psych_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two yrs isn't that bad. You know age is nothing but a number and love knows no limits...Love is just love.
Besides you're only a freshman and you have a long way to go and alot to learn.....just be yourself and go with the flow.
If he is really interested in you as well, then he will show and bring up other conversations other than about school.
Don't stress on it or worry bout a silly junior girl there will be plenty of opportunities for you later in life.
2007-08-31 02:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by sdangel7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"In high school 2 years older is a big deal."
In real life, 20 years older is a big deal.
Don't worry about a small 2 year difference. As long as he WILL take you seriously, then you're fine.
Ask him stuff like what he's interested in, his hobbies, what he does in his spare time, what his family's like, siblings, etc. Try to be comfortable around him or else it will never work.
G'luck.
2007-08-31 02:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by cosmopolitan_nyc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a freshman (I was 14) once in high school and I got asked out by a guy who was a senior (He was 18). I was smitten by him and he liked me but he didn't take me seriously and my god everytime we were together, it would turn heads. People were always watching us not giving us any privacy. Because of the age difference. Are you ready for that kind of relationship?
2007-08-31 02:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna be a freshman too, starting Tuesday.
Ive had that feeling before, liking someone
one or two years older.
Well think about it..
would YOU want to date some one whos..
2 or 3 years younger than you?
2007-08-31 02:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by K. Bear :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dude, My grandpa was 9 years older than my grandma.. its not a big deal don't worry. Be careful because I use to have a crush on a senior (12th grade) and I was in 10th grade...and he graduated and I never got to seem him ever again.. So don't get too attached
2007-08-31 02:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tooly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy who's 3 years older than me and in high school so it's fine.
Just have a conversation with him about school and then bring up a random top like what's your favorite sports team or whatever. Trust me, guys will go on forever about sports.
Just be yourself with him.
2007-08-31 02:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a big problem, are u guys gonna date inside of ur school? i don't thinks so. and he is not too old for u. many relationship stands on this kinda age gap. u guys will go outside for dating. its u who is gonna decide " is he perfect for me?". give a try. go little further, have some eye contact, smile, try to say something funny, react carefully what he says, if he says something funny, smile, and try brush ur arm with his arm. ask him, what he likes to do on his off time/ leisure. see if u can find something interesting about his hobbies and leisure time? ask him if u can join. good luck.
2007-08-31 02:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋