I am 25 never been in a relationship and I want to be. I just get so nervous and sometimes don't think I am good enough. I need help because I am soo lonely and don't want to live this way.
2007-08-30 23:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like the first thing you need to do is work on yourself. Only once you are happy and confident with yourself can you have a hope of having a relationship with someone else that is based on equality, love , and trust.
Look up some stuff about building confidence on the internet, go to some evening classes on cooking or something, do only a very small shop so you have to go out more even if its only just to buy food.
Try this small exercise –
Stand in front of the mirror and lift your chin slightly, look yourself in the eyes and say outloud “I am a fabulous, confident person, who deserves to find happiness!” about 10 times. Keep your chin up and step outside for a walk with a smile on your face and a bounce in your step.
It WILL work a bit first time, but the more times you do this little exercise the more it will work!!! Good luck!!! I am sure you are a beautiful person in every way – just show the World and Love will find you!!!
2007-08-30 23:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us are good enough. We just get out there and see what happens and work to improve.
I don't know why you freak out and what exactly you do and what you want to do differently... Are you even in the USA like I am? At 25, believe it or not, you've got plenty of time. I know what you mean though.
I am basically the same way as you, except that instead of freaking out, I just don't know how to find the right person for me.
2007-08-30 23:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 25 & have the same problem. i have the feeling that one day i'll meet the right guy for me
2007-08-30 23:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a good night of wild xxx to calm your nerves.
2007-08-30 23:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rrrrr dont worry u will found someone just keep smileing...
2007-08-30 23:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋