HELP! There's A Girl And I Don't Know What To Do!!! PLEASE READ!!!?

Question

I am 14 and I started school a few days ago and theres only about 45 kids in my grade, small school...anyway, there's a girl that I kinda had my eye on because she seemed fun (i met her at open house, just a few words exchanged)...well the other day I started talking to her in a class and we played around with her eraser, when she threw it at me it would fall and I would ask the person who sat closest to it to get it back for me, then i gave it to her/threw it at her...so after that, she and her quiet friend asked someone whom I knew from a while ago(a girl)to ask me if i want to sit with them and have lunch cuz they wanna get to know me...So i say yes of course (this is all in one week, the lunch thing happened today) then i gowith 6 girls to sit. During lunch the girl I kinda like playsaround with me and stuff, i didn't bring a lunch so she gaveme half of her pb&j sandwhich..then after school she and her friend write a heart on my neck and she writes property of (hername)

So, can you help me? Is she using me or something? she emailed me bcuz I emailed her and her friend to get their instant mesenger name and in her email she talked all lovey...heres some of it
Miss you, Pudding.
<3

I don't have messenger.
sawry
D:
I Love you
and By the wayy,
(hername) owes you.
So I give you this coupon.

REDEEM ONE FREE HUG TUESDAY

so thats it and apparently (acording to her myspace she loves her bf)
The bf doesn't go to out school...and what should i do ABOUT THE FREE HUG THING??!
O and I'm kinda the shy type...not really but I think she notices it bcuz at lunch she said "welcome to an insight into girls lives"...so could she be fooling with me/making fun of me and seeing what a shy kid will do??? I mean crap I know that girls arent any meaner than guys but i need help

Answer 1

She is just a big flirt. I don't think she is messing with you though. It sounds like she likes you. If you are worried about it, you could ask her about her boyfriend and see what she says. Maybe they broke up and she hasn't changed her myspace yet. You'll know if she is lying to you and you can decide after that if you want to keep hanging out with her or not.

Answer 2

It's all about marketing yourself. It doesn't matter if they're just having fun with you as long as they're having fun and you're a good sport about it. That's what they're looking for. It doesn't even matter if this PARTICULAR girl wants you. If you can give them a wink and a smile and be a good sport, you've advertised yourself in the best way possible and found an escape hatch out of shyness. You can learn enough about enough people that you won't lack for friends. Go for it! And print out that coupon. But use it to good advantage---present it to her in front of others and give her a good one! Oh, to be 14 again and know what I do now.

Answer 3

yo dude....so this is how it be

4get tryin 2 find out if she playin around wit u or not en.......

BE SURE...........this is how (even a shy person can do this)

1. go to her en push a conversation, then jus wen u bout 2 live
tell her u wanna get to know her a lot beta so u is wonderin
if u guys can spend mo time together(alone)

2. don b too playful, but then ofcourse b funny, bt also don b 2
serious, then after 2-3 days, jus lean over en kiss her(if u hev'nt already) trust me it works, well it worked 4 me(always)

3. if u allowed to kiss her, spend mo time wit her(private),
en u still not sure, then th problems wit u

Answer 4

One thing I'll tell you for sure is that she likes you but her true intent may not show immediately. You have to be wise, keep your guard (while still being a close friend) and in a little time from now you just might find the solution to your problem.

Answer 5

this may just be what is a called an "infatuation." some people misconstrue it to be love. those little spontaneous quirks, like the heart on your neck, may only turn out to be just that. i'm not saying that she does not like you, but she may not be ready for a relationship and may be nervous but likes to be with you and does not want to lose you...for now. it's kind of annoying, and if you think her little games are going to be a waste of your time, then don't hang out with her so much.
as a matter of fact, ask her if she sees your relationship going anywhere.
(sorry if this seems incomplete...i need to get to sleep)

Answer 6

It depends..if she is like the hottest girl in the grade or school then she is probably trying to see what a guy like you would do. So my point is that she is trying her skills on how to seduce someone to see if she succeeds. That is not always bad. You can play if you like her that much. Make it your game.
But if she is a normal girl i think that she really likes you.
Try to be cool, you are the man in the relationship.

Answer 7

why does the girl seem mentally disturbed or playing some dare or a joke on you , she and her girl friends planned?

just keep distance or atleast dont ignore her just not the heart on the neck part avoid it you are a new kid at school you dont want your first impressions there as a "sissy"!

good luck

Answer 8

Sounds like shes just flirting to me. I wouldn't think anything of it. Especially with her having a boyfriend and her saying that she loves him very much.

Answer 9

I think she's making fun of you so you'd better avoid her starting today before school gets harder and harder for you...

Answer 10

I DONT THINK YOU UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF LOVE AT THE AGE OF 14