Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

Seriously though why do some people hate saying other people, happy? I could be in my house all day playing with my kids, watching a movie or playing a game on the pc, but then all of a sudden someone calls my husband and tells him I did this or I said that, I mean I haven't been out my house all day, so how the **** can they say I did or say something when I am in the house? I try not to hate people but some of my husbands family and friend make me wanna hate them to the 5th power. I tell him about it but he be like they my friends.Also the two friends he has, has comminent problems, they don't know how to stay with their wives and stop messing with other women. Should I be worried my husband might cheat on me also by the way his friends act? They don't see nothing wrong with it? Or should I just leave him and move on with my life with someone who family and friends will accept me? Since he has those type of friends and some family members does that mean he is like that too?

2007-09-02 14:52:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you know if your boyfriend is just going out with you because of the way you look, or if he likes you for more than that??

cause it kinda seems like my boyfriend is only going out with me because he thinks im hot.

2007-09-02 14:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Singles & Dating

Weve been going out 1/12 years now. Im just about to finish uni and might have to go away to work, although im not sure were to yet. Shes finishing uni in a couple of months and doesnt know ere shes gonna b either. I love her but in my mind all i can think about is experiencing new relationships with other girls and enjoying my young life and not just being with the one person. Im not sure if I should break up with her and move on. Im scared that if i leave her then ill lose a good thing. We never fight and have a happy relationship. I also really want to ravel when I finsh uni and shes not to interested. Wat should i do, break up with her and move on, or stay and keep going out with her? any help is awesome as Im prety confused lol.

cheers

2007-09-02 14:50:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

out of town and my husband told him where he was going and his brother ask who was going with him and he told him i was. if the brother didn't care to go then why does it matter who he was going with.

2007-09-02 14:49:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She explained to me she hates my husband and told me I had to choose between him or her! What the heck ... she's married and has had her fair share of hard times, and dicovered there is no perfect marriage. She said that she can't be in my life as long as I am married to him. What do you think?

2007-09-02 14:45:38 · 22 answers · asked by Shells 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it sounds cheesy and Its just hair color but I really like blonde girls with blue eyes. Any advice on what they like in a guy? No offense to brunettes, i think their hot too.

2007-09-02 14:43:18 · 23 answers · asked by colt 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a wonderful guy who I really like and he likes me too. We've been dating for almost a month now and we wanted to take things really slow so we could get to know each other better, but now we're starting to get pretty intimate. We went out on a date just recently and he told me that he's a virgin and asked if I was as well. I told him I wasn't and he seemed somewhat disappointed. We're still dating and still intimate as before, but will it ever go beyond dating because I'm not a virgin?

2007-09-02 14:36:42 · 15 answers · asked by LadyPrincess 1 in Singles & Dating

This is serious, it is a long story. About 2 and half weeks ago there was a bad car accedent just up the highway from my home. Some drunken driver crashed his car at an intersection, killing his 13 year old daughter and 17 year old nephew. He survived, but committed suicide a week later in prison (for vehicular homicide). Now she ( the daughter) was a good friend of my 15 year old niece. And now just 5 days ago my nieces boyfriends sister (whom was also her good friend) was also killed when she crashed her car into a tree. She (my niece) was so upset she's been crying ever since and hasn't gone to school. AND NOW just 2 days ago a 12 year old boy she knew was killed when he accendently shot himself trying to unload a riffle. My niece is a total wreck now because "All her friends are dying!". I'm scared for her because about a month ago I had a dream that SHE died, and I don't know if it could be an omen or something.

2007-09-02 14:33:22 · 9 answers · asked by Riley 3 in Family

Im a sophmore and im not into white guys. And this is the first time I have ever really really liked a black guy. and my whole family is raciest against them but i dunno why. its just a color. Anyway. How do I date him without any of my family knowing. My cousin and sister are seniors so im scared they might see me with him. I dont have a liscence yet just so you know. And also, tips on how to tell him i like him without actually telling him would be great to. =]

2007-09-02 14:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is 15 years old and i am 16 years old,weve been together 5 months. shes gorgeous and everything. well she cheated on me (sex with other guys) 6 times (she told me about it and apoligized) i took her back all 6 times,she cheated like this on all her ex's but i love this girl more then anything. everyone thinks shes a slut,i caught her makingout with my older brother 2 months ago (hes 18 years old).. what do i do?

2007-09-02 14:28:04 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 14:25:42 · 7 answers · asked by Page 4 in Marriage & Divorce

so does anyone want to be like instant messaging friends (that also includes e-mail if ud like)? my friends in my town annoy the snot out of me so i kinda want some nice internet ones. please dont e-mail or im if...

a. you swear or cuss repeatly
b. your a creepy old guy (i had one im me randomly and he was such a creep!!!)
c. your not juss iming and e-mailing juss for a gf cuz i WILL say NO
i don care how old u r. im actually really good im friends with a 28 year old from the uk! so dont be discouraged cuz of age or gender. if you want to im or e-mail....jenna_becca201294@yahoo. com

2007-09-02 14:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by [[.♪♫Hose.Day.Ninja♫♪.]] 2 in Friends

He thinks that ust because i wear them i will turn goth. i have nothing against goth people but that just isnt me. i love the style. How do i convince him to let me get get goth clothes and if he does i wont go geoth because that isnt me.

2007-09-02 14:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family

At our wedding 10 yrs ago I was pregnant with our daughter and my mother in law took over and planned the whole thing. Even my "gown" was a department store job that didn't fit right!! We were low on money and had a baby coming so we had to do what we could. Now we have money to do things differently. My question is this: Is it tacky if I got a regular wedding dress to wear and did it up the way I wanted to in the first place. Or is it too late seeing you can't relive your wedding day again? I need advise here!

2007-09-02 14:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Weddings

My mother in law is (very) recently widowed. A gentleman (that she is not close friends with) asked her out to a play and she accepted. She believes that because she offered to pay her own way, he will understand this is not a date. Is this true? Or do you think this is date? PLEASE, only serious answers. No need to be sexually graphic. Thank you

2007-09-02 14:22:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby and I are having a debate on this subject. I say that you might "love" the person that you are with, but you are not "in love" with them if you are cheating on them. He seems to think that you can be "in love" with someone and still cheat on them. What do you all think?

2007-09-02 14:22:38 · 14 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I both say I love you to one another a LOT, and our relationship is the best one I have ever been in, he says the same thing, but - not that he doesn't wanna move in with me, he just says it's soon... Am I being one of the pushy girls?

2007-09-02 14:20:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 14:20:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just wanting to know peoples personal opinions about husband & wife or baby mama with a promise ring..I just want to know if you have given him more than one child & the ring your wearing is just waiting on a date what's your value compared to a honest woman (a wife) that reeps all the benefits while your just possibly going to get child support order..MAYBE?

2007-09-02 14:20:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was sitting on the couch with my dad tonight talking about movies, books and soundtracks. My dad's the only one I talk to about this because no one I know is interested in it, and neither is he, but he can tune me out but still say "mhm" or "yeah" every once in a while so I feel like I'm talking to someone that's interested in the same things I am. Well, anyway, I have asked him before after we had watched a movie or something what is favorite part was and he always says "I don't have one". But today I asked him if he had a favorite movie: he said no. I asked if he had a favorite book: no. Favorite song: no. It got me thinking. It seems like all he does is work (he is in the automotive business), research colleges for me and my sister, and in general take care of me, my sister, and my mom. I thought about it and it seems like he doesn't do anything outside of this. He doesn't have a hobby. He talks about taking up sailing (something he used to do a few years ago), or finish

2007-09-02 14:19:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a dilemma: I've been single for the last year or so and I met the woman of my dreams. She lives on the other side of Canada, and she has a boyfriend (whom she's been with for 4 years). She flew to the city I live in to do some research and will be coming back again in 6 mo. I sent her an email stating I was attracted. She called back -- we talked for hours. I then sent an email asking what would be best for her, and best for her boyfriend. She replied, stating she told her boyfriend about having talked with me for hours and basically that her life was, well, messed up now because she keeps "settling." I emailed her again stating that her integrity and honesty were commendable, then something like "wouldn't it be nice if you could just come and live with me?" She is finishing a PhD and I don't know what the resolution for all parties concerned is. I haven't heard from her in 3 days. Any game theory experts or relationship savvy people with constructive comments on this?

2007-09-02 14:19:06 · 1 answers · asked by Aiden 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a dilemma: I've been single for the last year or so and I met the woman of my dreams. She lives on the other side of Canada, and she has a boyfriend (whom she's been with for 4 years). She flew to the city I live in to do some research and will be coming back again in 6 mo. I sent her an email stating I was attracted. She called back -- we talked for hours. I then sent an email asking what would be best for her, and best for her boyfriend. She replied, stating she told her boyfriend about having talked with me for hours and basically that her life was, well, messed up now because she keeps "settling." I emailed her again stating that her integrity and honesty were commendable, then something like "wouldn't it be nice if you could just come and live with me?" She is finishing a PhD and I don't know what the resolution for all parties concerned is. I haven't heard from her in 3 days. Any game theory experts or relationship savvy people with constructive comments on this?

2007-09-02 14:18:23 · 3 answers · asked by Aiden 4 in Singles & Dating

Today I went out with this guy and we took diffrent cars. Well when I walked up to the place, he was standing outside waiting for me. Do you think it was nice that he got to the date before me, and that he was waiting for me outside the place where we were meeting?

2007-09-02 14:18:00 · 1 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is 15 and she likes this guy that is 20. he is her dance teacher/ she works with him. she has made out with him alot. and she called me today saying she asked him were they stand and he said dating. she is so happy but has not even told her parents she likes him. i think the age difference is wrong. she asked him how many girls have you slept with he said 2 because he loved them. i am scared she will sleep with him. i dont want to lose her as friend. she knows i dislike this whole thing. i dont think she is planing on telling her parents. should i just go along with it or do something about it. please help me.

2007-09-02 14:16:48 · 3 answers · asked by neptune1a2a 2 in Friends

I'm just curious. Because most seem to hate taking that next step from dating to exclusive...? Is it just me or has anyone else experienced this problem?

And if you're a guy.. what does it take for you to want to commit to a relationship? And how soon would you ask a girl to be girlfriend after dating?

2007-09-02 14:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 14:07:12 · 33 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am talking to a guy who is awesome, but I have feelings to pull away when I get close! It's like relationship bipolar. One moment I am all cheesy...nxt-want to back away..... *frustrated* but with myself...

2007-09-02 14:04:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I saw sparkles

2007-09-02 14:04:02 · 28 answers · asked by ™King_ 知識_θάρρος_Vires 3 in Singles & Dating

Are there any things to seperate them?

2007-09-02 14:02:54 · 10 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you think online dating is the right way to meet someone? I've tried match.com, americansingles.com and many many sites in the last two years. I have not got the right person for me, although I have met many friends there. A friend ask me to try wealthymingle.com. I was wondering whether I should go on or give up the online dating.

2007-09-02 14:00:26 · 3 answers · asked by Mary A 1 in Singles & Dating