I have a dilemma: I've been single for the last year or so and I met the woman of my dreams. She lives on the other side of Canada, and she has a boyfriend (whom she's been with for 4 years). She flew to the city I live in to do some research and will be coming back again in 6 mo. I sent her an email stating I was attracted. She called back -- we talked for hours. I then sent an email asking what would be best for her, and best for her boyfriend. She replied, stating she told her boyfriend about having talked with me for hours and basically that her life was, well, messed up now because she keeps "settling." I emailed her again stating that her integrity and honesty were commendable, then something like "wouldn't it be nice if you could just come and live with me?" She is finishing a PhD and I don't know what the resolution for all parties concerned is. I haven't heard from her in 3 days. Any game theory experts or relationship savvy people with constructive comments on this?
2007-09-02 14:19:06 · 1 answers · asked by Aiden 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ignore her. She played with you enough. If you joined her she may take time "settling" with you also. For four years she could cnot decide what to do with a boy friend very near. You are far away . Don`t become an object of her research.
2007-09-02 16:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋