2007-09-02 14:07:12 · 33 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry-back into your life(typo honest)
2007-09-02 14:08:23 · update #1
One thing and one thing only.....
This is just a word of caution, try to remember the reasons why you didn't end up with them in the first place. We tend to romantacize when people have been gone for awhile.
2007-09-02 14:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think the past ought to stay in the past.Depending on how long ago everyone changes anyways.You're probably a different person to back then & vice-versa.
Also if you're with someone then it;s not really fair on them.You'd still be with them if not for this.I think it's a case of nostalgic rose-coloured spectacles.
I'm speaking from personal experience btw.The girl i was with all through uni came back to my hometown after 6 years.I'm already with an adorable lady almost 2 years now & had no intention of going back.However my g/f said why not go for a drink for old times sake.Within 1 hour i had realized the person in front of me wasn't the girl i'd spent 4years with at uni.She had changed as i had too.We've both grown up & moved on & i'm with someone else.I've absolutley no intention of leaving her for my ex.
Leave the past as the past & a happy memory.
2007-09-02 14:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you involved with someone else? Are they? Even if you are both free, most times whatever broke you initially is even more irritating the second time around... on the other hand, some things are meant to be, and if we let it slip by the first time and are lucky enough to get a second chance, it could be fireworks!
2007-09-10 12:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ann K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whats going on in your life at the time of your love turning up. If your currently in a relationship, you must decide on who you cherish the most. Speaking for myself, I'd deal with it. Go with the flow.
2007-09-07 20:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by tepania4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if they're married or you are . If that's the case there is nothing to do. If neither are married you would hope to become a couple again. Your first true love stays in your heart forever.
2007-09-09 08:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by SandyO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is typical mine showed a interest after 17 years.they always pop up somewhere along the line.you have a choice you either go back with them cause all the feelings come back.or you say im not going backwards been there done it not doing it again
2007-09-02 19:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously mean that the person of which you speak is not only your first love but your ONLY love,then go for it. Unless of course the person is already committed to another.Then back off.
2007-09-02 14:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Charles H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends whether you are already in a relationship (or at least in a good relationship.) If not, go for it. Your "typo" (or shall we say Freudian slip) already speaks volumes.
2007-09-10 13:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you said what you meant the first time. What do you want to do about it? Are either of you married? If so, run like hell. If not, why not explore it a little and see what happens?
2007-09-10 06:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by javadic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him / her know immediately that he / she is your first & only love! All the best! Go for it! Don't be scared or shy!
Better to have loved & lost than never to have loved at all!
2007-09-02 18:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Faith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋