Im a sophmore and im not into white guys. And this is the first time I have ever really really liked a black guy. and my whole family is raciest against them but i dunno why. its just a color. Anyway. How do I date him without any of my family knowing. My cousin and sister are seniors so im scared they might see me with him. I dont have a liscence yet just so you know. And also, tips on how to tell him i like him without actually telling him would be great to. =]
2007-09-02 14:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Blood is thicker then water.
2007-09-02 14:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally, a girl who isn't afraid to try something diferent. I'm black and I got rejected by this girl only after realizing that she didn't date black guys for some stupid reason. I was so mad, and since that day, I get so pissed from people because they are of a different race. But a question, if your parents and the rest of your family is racist, then how can they function in the real world if they are prejudiced against Black guys, we have done NOTHING wrong. Besides, the white people are the ones who made us slaves in the first place. Shouldn't we have some hate as well? We have moved on, why haven't they(your family I mean)? Tell them to get over it, its 2007, damn it! Whats the hold up?
2007-09-02 14:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well ,I'm actually very pleased to see that you are not racist as well, aqs most often those things can be consistant throughout the family, my advice to you is to be honest about it with your family, if it comes up, and as soon as they say anything negative don't talk to them about it and disconnect them from that part of your life
2007-09-02 14:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well you should just tell ur family that ur not rqacist and u like this black guy and you dont care what they say everyone is like that in my family too except for my mom. Well anyways just be yourself and follow ur heart dont listen to your parents. if u really like this guy go for it no one cares ya know there not running ur relationship u areoh and just walk up and hang with him mroe and uhhh get ur flirt on
2007-09-02 14:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kylie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to hide him from your family forever. My cousin tried to do that and my family disowned her.
2007-09-02 14:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM
AND WHEN YOU SEE HIM YOU SEE A FUTURE IN HIM AND
2007-09-02 14:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥wh♥tஐAre♥U♥Lஐஐking?ஐALEXANDRAஐஐ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude....cmon.....you let your family decide for you?
its YOUR life!
2007-09-02 14:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋