This is serious, it is a long story. About 2 and half weeks ago there was a bad car accedent just up the highway from my home. Some drunken driver crashed his car at an intersection, killing his 13 year old daughter and 17 year old nephew. He survived, but committed suicide a week later in prison (for vehicular homicide). Now she ( the daughter) was a good friend of my 15 year old niece. And now just 5 days ago my nieces boyfriends sister (whom was also her good friend) was also killed when she crashed her car into a tree. She (my niece) was so upset she's been crying ever since and hasn't gone to school. AND NOW just 2 days ago a 12 year old boy she knew was killed when he accendently shot himself trying to unload a riffle. My niece is a total wreck now because "All her friends are dying!". I'm scared for her because about a month ago I had a dream that SHE died, and I don't know if it could be an omen or something.
2007-09-02 14:33:22 · 9 answers · asked by Riley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh my god that's horrible! Please give her a big hug from me and try to make sure she is save when you can. I don't know if she is "cursed" or not, but that would still be very scary for someone to go through.
2007-09-02 14:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry! Your poor niece please look in your local yellow pages under mental health clinic or family counseling she NEEDS to talk to a therapist, she has post traumatic stress syndrome, which means she keeps reliving all these deaths in her head and it will take a very long time for her to get back to normal if she does not go for counseling she will become worse, if her parents don't have medical insurance they go by a sliding fee scale on how much they can afford.
Whatever you do don't mention to her that you dreamed you had a dream of her and she died! I think she'd really lose it! I hope it is not a premonition you had and just a coincidence!
Best of luck!
2007-09-02 15:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmm... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a curse. These only exist if you think they exist and you allow them to control you. Your niece has a terrible set of circumstances that have had her close to several accidents. She needs to see a counsellor to talk about her emotions regarding all these misfortunes happening so close together. She should be able to get help at school. Good luck, she is fortunate to have such a caring relative. She is at an age where everything is changing in her life, and this just adds to the confusion and upset.
2007-09-02 14:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by always b natural 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Da-a-a-ang!
No, your niece is not cursed. It sounds like all her friends need to take their heads out of their fannies and actually start thinking about what they are doing.
It is common for a number of kids out of each "graduating class" to die before graduation... it is all about the odds and percentages. Frankly I'm surprised someone didn't die of an overdose.
The kids are exposed to are more ways to die than ever before... they are getting around more, have more distractions, and are not very well supervised.
All you can do is be there to comfort your niece and try to keep an eye on her in case she tries something foolish.
Her friends are only physically dead. We really do go on after death. There is no hell. We all go into God's Light. Our lessons here on earth were selected by ourselves in the time between lives.
2007-09-02 15:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that the people in your area are irresponsible parents!!! It's a theme in your town to behave as if parenthood is no big deal! It's not only how you treat your children, but how you example TO your children. Your neice is very likely in danger if her parents act anything like the status quo in that town! So far, it sounds like it. Why isn't she in therapy?!!
2007-09-02 14:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my Gosh that is just so horrible. do give her lots of hugs. I don't think she is cursed though. Just very deoressed. And keep your faith in God and he will take care of your neice. But you should keep and extra eye out on her.
2007-09-02 14:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by peaches 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think curses are real. But if she goes around thinking she's next, she might be so distracted that something could happen.
2007-09-02 14:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Occurrence like these would cause me a lot of trauma. If it happened to me I would consult a clergyman.
2007-09-02 14:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
curses dun exist. buts thats quite sad
2007-09-02 16:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by Krazym0nkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋