Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

My husband just told me today that when his friend gets married he is going to attend the wedding along. He said the ticket price to fly is $1,100.00 and since I don't know his friend that well he just wants to go alone. The thing is I do know his friend, maybe not as good as him but he was my husbands roommate for a year that we dated. He was also in our wedding 3 years ago. I feel so hurt knowing that my husband does not want me to go with him. I feel like husbands should bring there wifes to wedding no matter how well they know the person getting married. Do you think my husband is justified for saying he is going alone?

2007-09-02 19:07:55 · 67 answers · asked by dohm84 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when you meet a new friend, and theres an awkard slience, what do you say?

2007-09-02 19:07:29 · 6 answers · asked by r2 2 in Friends

My guyfriend said that i was gay so i said takes one to know one then he said:

"nope i like vagina................and so do you."

what should i say back please answer LoL

2007-09-02 19:03:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

DH and I were talking about life after the military(he's deployed) and he brought up moving to AZ. I asked why we'd do that. He said he had a friend who we could live with down there. I told him I'm not going to live with somebody.

DH wants to get out and us go to FT college and live with whoever offers. I'm not going to raise a child while mooching off people. At least one of us has to work and we can do nightschool/weekend classes. And we need to get our own place.

He doesn't want a mortgage at all as he put it tonight. He wants to own a house but doesn't want a mortgage? I hope somebody rich really likes us when they die.

Before we got married we talked about family and he was ok with the fact I wanted a big family and live near my folks.

He's DECIDED we'll wait 5yrs for another kid and NOW we are living with people until we have saved up enough to straight out buy a house.

I told him he wasn't making any FINAL decisions and he got mad and hung up................

2007-09-02 19:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 18:53:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mad at me,cause she found at that I have been chatting with a guy friend more then I chat with her,see she use to be my best friend but it didn't work out,so we decided just to be friends,but she still treats me like I am her best friend even,though anyways when she found that out she started asking me weird,even personal questions about him,which I denided too answer which got her really up-set then she threatend me with I thought you were my best friend,why can't you tell me And I said,cause he trustes me with his secrets,and I never tell a friends secret(s) then she started asking me do you care about him more then me And I didn't really answer too that,which I think had her get the wrong idea,I think she was getting jealous,because of the way she was acting,but I don't know why,though (M.q.i.) why is she being like this? Was she really jealous,or something? She hasn't talked to me ever since,and it's been more then a week? They are over the net and I do kind of like my guy friend..

2007-09-02 18:51:03 · 12 answers · asked by Alexa45 3 in Friends

I'm not really pretty but I'm not ugly. I am 173cm tall thin, i have short blondish spiky hair. I have blue eyes and I mostly wear jeans and a jumper. I am shy, but once i get to know people I am quite loud and fun. I am smart, studying at uni. But i have never had a boyfriend. I have never even been asked out and i'm 22. Am i doing something wrong so that guys don't like me? Or am I just not attractive?

2007-09-02 18:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by lil 4 in Singles & Dating

I did not know he set the speargun on the side of my raft, I was laying on my stomach facing forward and i took off down stream and he never said a word about his speargun being in a compromised position. I was never aware it was even there. I stop down stream and he comes up a little while later asking where his speargun was. I said I had no idea it had ever been there, he proceeded to scream at me the whole rest of the trip saying i was responsible for his speargun falling off the raft. I am upset because he failed to mention it at all.I do not believe it is my fault at all. he keeps saying i should be more aware of my surroundings what do you think?

2007-09-02 18:46:21 · 4 answers · asked by sweetpea 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my idiot sister just told her guy friend that her my brother and me r alone she's and idiot who nose what could hapen he might bring some of his friends over and rob us or something.god is she and idiot.what should i do now?????????/how do i tell her that she has endangered me and my brother1!!!!!!

2007-09-02 18:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm wondering what the ladies think about a guy completely shaving the pubic area?.....

2007-09-02 18:45:31 · 18 answers · asked by moose_10312 1 in Singles & Dating

Alrighty!
What is it that attracts you most to your man/woman?
My man is that he is very open minded, and has the most distinct features in his face.

2007-09-02 18:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 18:43:04 · 6 answers · asked by spuddy3177 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-02 18:42:03 · 3 answers · asked by corazon947 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so i have been going out with this guy for about a week. i have seen him in person but we've never actually talked in person, only on the phone and on msn and stuff. i am seeing him on wednesday, just the two of us so we will be forced to talk to each other.
i am so scared it's going to be different to what i origionally thought but if i tell him this i am scared it will hurt him.
PLEASE HELP :(:(:(

2007-09-02 18:41:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His corporation which is under his mother's name nets millions/year. For years he had me on a weekly cash budget with no access to any accts or c/cs. He said he'd give me an amound in cash to end the marriage, in June. The last 2 months, I've used the speratic cash amounts to start a new business. We each leased a seperate home in August. That's when he stopped giving me the remaining of what he calls a settlement agreement.
He wanted a form signed by me previous attorney that he is no longer my attorney, before giving me any additional funds. I gave him that. Still no money.
He wanted me to sign WHAT HE CALLED A PIECE OF PAPER THAT outlined the verbal settlement, before giving me more money. At this point I have $0. When I met him to sign that paper in order to get a check, he had 40 pages of divorce papers, obviously prepared by a very shrude lawyer. He was holding the check in the other hand. I signed. Do the papers hold up in a court of law?

2007-09-02 18:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by bluegarden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and showed that perfectly normal guys can be past a certain age and a virgin?

2007-09-02 18:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband was married before for 7 years although for the last 3 years before they got divorced they weren't actually together. He was her third husband and she had kids by them, she never had any with my husband.
He was in the Army and will be entitled to a pension when he turns 60 and he is under the impression that she will be entitled to some of this. Is this right? Why should she? I'm his wife now so shouldn't I share it with him?
I could understand if they had kids together that they should be entitled to some but there is nothing that connects them now apart from the fact that she still uses his name which I find annoying too.
What if she were to remarry? Surely she wouldn't be entitled to any then.
My husband doesn't turn 60 for a long time but i just want to be sure of the facts before then!

2007-09-02 18:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by ChocLover 7 in Marriage & Divorce

guys what is the heaviest a girl could still be for you to still be intrested in them
lets say she had a wonderful personality and you felt very compatible with her like she might be the one

2007-09-02 18:34:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl and I were just fine. Well, we took a short break a month ago, but Thursday she acted like she truly loved me. Then I see she is talking to this guy on myspace, I ask her about it, and eventually (on Friday) she tells me that he is interested in her and vice versa. She brought up the fact that I hadn't dated many girls and she was nervous about us moving in together because of that. We were together for 2 freaking years and she truly acted like she loved me. Now we are exchanging email and she keeps telling me things like "I find him amusing because he is more outgoing", etc. She hasn't even met this guy and he is nothing like her. How can she just do this a day after being completely in love with me? I don;t know what to do because I'm so shy and it's hard for me to meet people. I feel very alone right now. I wasn't shy with her though, I could be myself with her for some reason and I think I'll never find anyone like that again.

2007-09-02 18:34:41 · 6 answers · asked by Mint Car 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 18:30:13 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you and a girl friend were at a concert, and a guy started dancing with her and you wanted to get away - how would you go about doing it? Would you try to avoid the guy completely, or would you let him know you don't approve and move away?

2007-09-02 18:30:09 · 16 answers · asked by Searching 4 Answers 2 in Singles & Dating

now he's with my high school best Friend, and it makes me feel strange, I know its a long time ago, and I don't have anything to do with ether of them -I moved to Tassy ,but I still feel strange about it,what can I do to make it go away???

2007-09-02 18:29:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now, I'm not going to lie or nothing, but I hate my girlfriend. She has this repulsive mole on her face, I get disgusted when I see her. And her voice makes me want to rip my hair off when I hear it. She may be a cheerleader, but I am over her and her pretentiousness.

There is this absolute knockout new girl who moved to our school, and I think I have a damn good chance with her. But I can't let my current girlfriend think of me as a jerk.

I want to find a way to get her to cheat on me, or at least to make it look like it, so I can dump her with a valid reason while not giving a damn about it. The problem is, I don't know how.

I am opening my arms to the Yahoo! Answers community to ask this: how can I make it look like my girlfriend is cheating on me? I want out of the relationship, and I have well done my part. I gave her no anniversary presents, and I gave her a mint during a dance when I told her her breath smelled like a dying fish. Don't I deserve to get out of this mess?

2007-09-02 18:29:01 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 18:28:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my husband's daughter is rude and demanding with my husband she is thirteen yrs old and blames me for notspending time with him I don't think is about time with him is the fact that he's now married to me and doesn't get the money that he used to spend on only her I am pregnant and we just can't provide the life style she wasb used to. yesterday she said she was going to kill herself and that she hates him . my husband cried on my shoulder and was all sad all day.today she is been all nice like nothing happen and he is ok with that he talks to her too. I am in the middle I am upset at her for hurting my husband how cani put on a happpy face at her after what she done

2007-09-02 18:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by Ortega'swife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 18:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by assy 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and i dont know if she likes me,im always saying i love you to her and shes like i love you to but i dont think she means it,she thinks im a cute kid and stuff but she said not to ask her out,does she mean it?,beacause before we used to be like on the phone 24/7 and now we rarley talk but when we do we say lets hang out and we havnt yet

2007-09-02 18:24:18 · 8 answers · asked by guy m 1 in Singles & Dating

temme something that i can do to him to make him happy

2007-09-02 18:22:21 · 5 answers · asked by ps 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and ex-gf of 4 yrs. made a solid 1 yr lng freindship b4 any sex. We were in complete love for 3 yrs, planned a future, i cheated once and broke her heart, she forgave me, but after another good year of love things went downhill, she broke up w/ me for another w/o having sex. She throws my mistake at me and i make her feel guilty about what she has done. 30 days later her and the new one dont talk and me and her have a great freindship, everyday talking, but she has slept w/ her ex, and broke it off w/ him. she claims she enjoys her freedom and wont be back w/ me anytime soon but she loves and misses me. then i lie to her and say im gettin back w/ my ex who she hates and she is very jealous, and upset at the my ex, plus now she calls me everyday, I know and she knows we were meant to be but should i ride this out to make her come back, because now its obvious she feels jealousy, i dont understand this, does it sound like well be back together regardless of what happens?

2007-09-02 18:19:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you get a guy in 5 days

2007-09-02 18:18:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships