Now, I'm not going to lie or nothing, but I hate my girlfriend. She has this repulsive mole on her face, I get disgusted when I see her. And her voice makes me want to rip my hair off when I hear it. She may be a cheerleader, but I am over her and her pretentiousness.
There is this absolute knockout new girl who moved to our school, and I think I have a damn good chance with her. But I can't let my current girlfriend think of me as a jerk.
I want to find a way to get her to cheat on me, or at least to make it look like it, so I can dump her with a valid reason while not giving a damn about it. The problem is, I don't know how.
I am opening my arms to the Yahoo! Answers community to ask this: how can I make it look like my girlfriend is cheating on me? I want out of the relationship, and I have well done my part. I gave her no anniversary presents, and I gave her a mint during a dance when I told her her breath smelled like a dying fish. Don't I deserve to get out of this mess?
2007-09-02 18:29:01 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her you are through. plus, she doesn't deserve you.
2007-09-02 18:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by bo bunnis 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No you don't deserve to get out of this mess because you are too cowardly to tell her the truth that you are interested in someone else. However, your current girlfriend does deserve to get out of this mess and hook-up with someone else that thinks her breath is fresh. I don't know your lady but she probably has good moral character unlike you and won't cheat on you so you are probably not going to have it your way. Just tell her you aren't in love with her and move on. You are so worried about not being seen as a jerk by her, well too bad because in a few weeks from now when it's all over all the nasty things you did to her will come flooding back into her mind and she is going to think you are a jerk no matter what. Man up, and tell her the truth that there is no future between you two. Don't keep yourself miserable or her in the dark any longer.
2007-09-02 18:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mavis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, seems like all you care about is looks but hey that is a really important thing in a relathionship atleast at the starting.
You can't make your girlfriend cheat on you, it won't work that way this isn't a good plan. You got to find another way to do this te'll her it wasin't working out and then if she asks why then says something like "You're always at cheerleading practise" or something like that. You will find a better reason to break up with her. I still dont think its a good idea.. dont cha think its kinda harsh what your trying to do?
Good Luck
2007-09-02 18:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, normally i would agree with everyone else and say to just flat out tell her, but since you obviously don't want to do that, I'll answer your real question. How can you make it at least look like she cheated, so you can break up with her? Do you have a best friend? If so, then get him to hang around with her some, and to pretend like he likes her. Then tell her that you don't feel like you can trust her around your best friends, and that she's hurt you by getting so close to your best friend. Then, if she starts to like your best friend, have him tell her that he can't do this to his best friend, even if you did break up with her, and then he can leave her too. I don't think that's the right thing to do, but it is a way you can break it off. Good luck. I know what it's like to be around girls like that (actually there was a guy that was like that at my school.) I'm a girl, and my BFF and I were trying so hard to avoid him, but he kept following us. Then he asked us if we were Avdentists. I said yes, she said no, he gave me a dirty look, then he never followed us again. So maybe you can just tell her something about you that you know she'll hate. That could work to. Just remember, BE NICE!
2007-09-02 18:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by JesusFreak777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now how would you like it if the shoe was on the other foot you are just not right. if she is so disgusting they why did you date her to Begin with you are just a mean person and to think you have a chance with the new girl i hope it all blows up in your face you know the say doing on to others as you would like to have done to you well Carma is a bad thing to mess with. you should just grow up and tell her you don't want to be with her anymore. men like you make me sick and give all the good men a bad name
2007-09-02 18:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? your shallow, stupid and a fool. you don't deserve her. i couldn't even read all that you wrote, the first few lines totally disgusted me. in the end, you're gonna be '*** out' as they say. and the gf, with the mole, is gonna have a damn good laugh. try being a M-A-N. look it up in the dictionary. coz, u obviously don't know what one is or how to be one. i can't believe you were allowed to post such an asinine question.
2007-09-02 18:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by raishe alghool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... either you stand up & break it off with your girlfriend the honest way or else be the coward & cheat on her.
If you choose the latter, then good luck... because then you will become the jerk that you don't want her to think you are
Break it up with your girlfriend & then you are free to pursue your new love.
2007-09-02 18:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good reason already. You don't even like her. Tell her it is over and get it over with. Don't play games. They will just bite you in the butt. Treat her how you would want to be treated if the roles were reversed. Just do it. Don't mistreat people. Just tell her it is over without the mean behavior.
2007-09-02 18:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to let your GF go is to break up with her. If she disgusts you that much and you find her horrendously fastidious let her down easy by telling her that you both aren't on the same page.
Be considerate with her. Nobody likes to be dumped;.
2007-09-02 18:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by cruisechloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone to shove a mint up your rear end. Grow some balls and tell her like a man!!! Are you going to be chicken all of your life, or do you actually want anyone's respect?
2007-09-02 18:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you had to head away and there become no way you would be waiting to ascertain her for an prolonged time, because of the fact it may harm her greater not being waiting to ascertain you than in case you brke up together with her. additionally, if she began being propose, controlling, disrespectful, or if she began gaining a superb variety of weight and did not workout, oh and if she reported i become the main severe element in her existence, in view that's what Jesus is infant! Whoo!
2016-11-14 01:27:12 · answer #11 · answered by weberg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋