I did not know he set the speargun on the side of my raft, I was laying on my stomach facing forward and i took off down stream and he never said a word about his speargun being in a compromised position. I was never aware it was even there. I stop down stream and he comes up a little while later asking where his speargun was. I said I had no idea it had ever been there, he proceeded to scream at me the whole rest of the trip saying i was responsible for his speargun falling off the raft. I am upset because he failed to mention it at all.I do not believe it is my fault at all. he keeps saying i should be more aware of my surroundings what do you think?
2007-09-02 18:46:21 · 4 answers · asked by sweetpea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like it may be the start of an abusive relationship. Simply, because he was unable to communicate to you how he felt about losing the speargun, and instead chose to punish you for his error.
Kevin
2007-09-02 19:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by detroitlionsxl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is blaming the loss of his speargun on you. He should have told you it was there so you would be aware of the danger possible pointing at you!! You are the one that should be angry! Sorry, but he sounds like an a**hole!
2007-09-03 01:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a raving lunatic. Dump him next time HE is on the side of your raft and make sure you are in the rapids when you do!
He needs to grow up!
2007-09-03 01:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by just_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes the one that was that put it there and didnt tell ya. so its his fault.. but its easier to blame you then to own up to his mistake.. he feels bad so he makes you feel bad.. and thats a no no in my book..he could of put that there and you not know it and gotten hurt not knowing it was there and for that you could be pissed. but you be the better person then him and then he should feel bad about that. good luck
2007-09-03 02:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋