mad at me,cause she found at that I have been chatting with a guy friend more then I chat with her,see she use to be my best friend but it didn't work out,so we decided just to be friends,but she still treats me like I am her best friend even,though anyways when she found that out she started asking me weird,even personal questions about him,which I denided too answer which got her really up-set then she threatend me with I thought you were my best friend,why can't you tell me And I said,cause he trustes me with his secrets,and I never tell a friends secret(s) then she started asking me do you care about him more then me And I didn't really answer too that,which I think had her get the wrong idea,I think she was getting jealous,because of the way she was acting,but I don't know why,though (M.q.i.) why is she being like this? Was she really jealous,or something? She hasn't talked to me ever since,and it's been more then a week? They are over the net and I do kind of like my guy friend..
2007-09-02 18:51:03 · 12 answers · asked by Alexa45 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Has she been ignoring me,ever since this happend (between us)? I haven't seen her online,but it's been a while which has got me worried,and thinking...,I don't want too tell her that I kind of like him,my guy friend,cause I don't want her too say stuff...,experience...? What should I do?
Thanks,and sorry for all the questions...,but I just need some advice...
2007-09-02 18:57:27 · update #1
Thanks everybody for answering! By the way they don't know each other,(at all),as in my guy friend doesn't know my friend who's a girl...,but I still apperciate the advice!
2007-09-10 15:14:01 · update #2
Your friend is super jealous of you having a male friend. She wants you to just be her friend and know one elses. Your friend shouldn't be jealous and should be happy for you.
2007-09-10 09:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by ........... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two is company three's a crowd, decide who's more important and why, and then carry on with whatever
your doing. It's pretty apparent or at least it should be,
what has happened here, you know like perhaps the
guy friend is normally gonna ruel, it's only natural, nice
to be noble but this girl friend i'm sure would probably
do the same were the situation reversed, it's called
human nature . . .
Good luck . . .
2007-09-10 12:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she was just jealous because you were spending more time with him than you were with her. She may have been feeling left out because she didn't know about him. Perhaps she just wants to be included and get to know him, too. And as for the liking him part you just have to explain the situation to her, and if she can't accept it, than that's her problem to deal with especially if she might like him too. I would say if she continues to ignore you no matter what you do, than I don't think that she was really your friend to begin with.
2007-09-11 00:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by koneko_bombay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens between you and your guy friend should stay between the two of you. My mom always says that what happens between a couple should stay between them two. Your friend is clearly trying to play victim, but you haven't done anything wrong. Just stand your ground and don't tell her your guy's secrets. If she wants to know what they are, maybe she should ask him. Sometimes the people you think that are your "friend", really are not. They are looking out for their own personal interest and benefits. So look out for yourself. You wouldn't want the secrets that you have told your guy friend to be told.
2007-09-10 14:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by p3nh0- nh0xa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I might be able to help with that one...I went through the same thing...Only I was the friend....My friend ended up ruining her life over a guy...She lost everything including her friends and more ...Sometimes friends can be over possesive for more than one reason...It could be that she is after all insecure about her relationship with others....Or it could be that she senses you pulling away from her for someone who may not be all that they seem...She may know something about this person that you do not...Sometimes others can see more than we do because they are sitting on the other side...If this has happened before then it maybe that she has been having trust issues from a past relationship...By the way my friend opted not to listen to me and ended up cheating on her husband and lost her home, finances and children. as well as my trust and friendship of 5 years....
2007-09-11 00:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by bollinger74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same problem. You just need to explain to her that it's totally different with her and him and that she's still a really good friend. Also, if you have plans in the future with her it's more reassuring about your friendship.
2007-09-10 03:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by lilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same problem. You just need to explain to her that it's totally different with her and him and that she's still a really good friend. Also, if you have plans in the future with her it's more reassuring about your friendship.
2007-09-03 01:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by lessthan3ualways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are better off with out her friendship because if she was a real friend she would under stand that your male friend told you and only you. So good luck
2007-09-11 00:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by peggy s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i would check into if ur guy friend is really worth talking to or weather u should hang out with ur girl friend
2007-09-10 23:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jason U 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not really worth the fight...talk to her about your problem...does she mean to say that she can give up your friendship just for a guy which doesn't even really care for her...
2007-09-09 06:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋