2007-09-02 18:30:13 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As your new wife, I say it's only OK if you're there to see me.
2007-09-02 18:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jelyol 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If I would have seen this yesterday, I would have said go and take your wife. I have come to realize if you want to go to a strip club and your wife or fiance is against it. I think you should stay away. Women who choose to take their clothes off for money are basically just hustlers. When you get married, you enter into a contract. Since you and your wife share assets, she should be able to decide if she thinks the twenty dollars for a table dance is a worthy investment. It really saddens me that men can think a woman who willingly sells herself is sexy. I thought it was the challenge guys...Where is the challenge if she says yes to cash?
2007-09-03 13:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Crysslynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to go to a strip club and waste your hard
earned money on a stripper.when you can try something different in the bedroom and get your new wife to strip for you
real slow.do you know how much a turn on that could be and then you can strip for her real slow.and the neat thing abou,t this is it didn,t cost either one of you a dime.nor did it cause you any money problems in your new marriage to boot.and
that can also keep the spark in your marriage by trying new things in the bedroom
2007-09-02 18:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of people like to say going to strip clubs isn't cheating. But if you have an urgent need to see strippers, seriously, if you are not willing to forego strip clubs, that's a problem.
Of course many men will give the caveman excuse but it's true. If you can't let it go, it's too important to you. And if you're in love, it shouldn't be.
2007-09-02 18:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I should think that going to a strip club may spice up married life. Why not ask your wife and invite her to come along?
2007-09-02 18:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anji 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes it definitely means no more strip clubs. You have a wife...there is no need to lust after others.
2007-09-02 20:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhhhhhhhhh Duhhhhhhhh
I know times have changed, but I do believe that strip clubs are still not in the vows??
Would you want your spouse to go to one without you??
You have a built in stripper called your spouse, enjoy your spouse and grow together, not apart.
2007-09-02 18:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would hope this interest in strip clubs was something you shared with her before you married her! If she is uncomfortable with it than no, you don't go. Simple.
2007-09-02 18:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is something that you're going to have to discuss with your spouse. I take it you're a guy--
Most women don't want their men going to strip clubs because they don't want other women touching their men (which is understandable). I wouldn't want my husband to go, but if he were invited to a bachelor party at a strip club I wouldn't have a big problem with it since the groom would be the one getting all the attention, and not him.
It really depends on what she thinks.
2007-09-02 18:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kavasa 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Exactly! Play strip tease with your wife. Otherwise, why bother getting married? If I was your wife, !!!!!!!!!!, if you dared to even think to go to a strip club.
2007-09-02 18:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Without sounding judgmental, how could it be good for your marriage? I know guys like to think that it's harmless, but the truth is that it isolates you from your wife, which is always disastrous in a marriage. If you love your wife, make her your only source of that kinda stuff and you'll both be happy. In fact, telling her that your giving them up will mean a lot to her.
2007-09-02 18:37:49 · answer #11 · answered by betternher 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋