My girl and I were just fine. Well, we took a short break a month ago, but Thursday she acted like she truly loved me. Then I see she is talking to this guy on myspace, I ask her about it, and eventually (on Friday) she tells me that he is interested in her and vice versa. She brought up the fact that I hadn't dated many girls and she was nervous about us moving in together because of that. We were together for 2 freaking years and she truly acted like she loved me. Now we are exchanging email and she keeps telling me things like "I find him amusing because he is more outgoing", etc. She hasn't even met this guy and he is nothing like her. How can she just do this a day after being completely in love with me? I don;t know what to do because I'm so shy and it's hard for me to meet people. I feel very alone right now. I wasn't shy with her though, I could be myself with her for some reason and I think I'll never find anyone like that again.
2007-09-02 18:34:41 · 6 answers · asked by Mint Car 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should rephrase; we have broken up, and she wants to meet this guy because she feels that it is too good of an opportunity to pass up. I honestly thought she was THE ONE. I keep telling her how I feel and she say's that yes we had alot in common and I was close to perfect, but with this guy (who she doesn't even know) she feels the chemistry is amazing.
2007-09-02 18:42:52 · update #1
I am sorry man the facts are she is not in-love with you anymore.
It sounds like to me she is hanging onto you incase things don't work out with this other guy. Get a straight answer out of her if she really wants to be with you.
If she does not give you a straight answer get some confidence and move on.
You deserve better after being with her for 2 years.
2007-09-02 18:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me like she knows she has you 'hooked' and is not worried about you going anywhere until SHE gets ready to make a real commitment, one way or the other. Of course you will find someone else! Stop e-mailing her so much ,don't call her, take a short trip (or better yet, if possible, a week or so), don't let her know you're going, this all will be hard if you really care for her(not letting her know). But, if she really cares for you she will realize what she will be missing and ask for a second chance; if she doesn't care...you will be better off finding out now than after you would have moved in together. You sound like a very nice, sweet, and caring person, please don't give up on true love you will find the right girl. Best of Luck!!
2007-09-03 01:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! First off If she doesn't like you for who you are then that's her problem. Second people always think that they will never feel a certain way or find another person again, but the truth is you feel that now but in time you will feel the same way for an even better person. I know people say this a lot but give it time and in time you will move on and you will look back on this with a smile and say I don't know why this was even a problem.
2007-09-03 01:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kay E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on your big boy underoos and stop being so self defeating. she said she finds him amusing, not sexually attractive. talk to her and ask her what it is that she's looking for from you and from him. it could be that she just likes him as a friend and truly does love you as she says she does.
bite the bullet and tell her how you feel! never keep your emotions inside. always be honest and upfront about what you feel!!
2007-09-03 01:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by StangGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, that must be hard to take. But if you arent oficially together, there isnt much you can do unless you gonna tell her how you feel.
2007-09-03 01:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will! and maybe even better! you jusy have to be more confident! girls like that!
2007-09-03 01:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by blondebaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋