I'm not really pretty but I'm not ugly. I am 173cm tall thin, i have short blondish spiky hair. I have blue eyes and I mostly wear jeans and a jumper. I am shy, but once i get to know people I am quite loud and fun. I am smart, studying at uni. But i have never had a boyfriend. I have never even been asked out and i'm 22. Am i doing something wrong so that guys don't like me? Or am I just not attractive?
2007-09-02 18:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by lil 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask your friends if there is something new and fun u could do with your style. -or- treat yourself to the saloon and get a new look find a place that will talk to u and fit a style to your personality. a new look could give u more self esteem. i new this girl once (many years ago) who had these horrible eyebrows. no one ever said a thing about the eyebrows but teased her about how "ugly" she was. one day she got the brows taken care of and wow what a difference then pretty soon there was a new hair style and color, next was clothes. it was like with every little thing she did she held her head up a little higher and she smiled and was a new person inside and out. she was beautiful, smart, spunky, and sexy and a good descent person who became a lawyer and is now a judge. she married a gorgeous guy and when i saw them at the last class reunion she was glowing with happiness. so i had to ask the question everyone was wanting to know. HOW
she told me she went in a department store one day looking for a dress and the lady at the clinique makeup counter offered to do her makeup and the rest as they is history.
when u say u are not really pretty u already blew it for yourself. so look in the mirror when u get up in the morning and smile at yourself. it sounds corny but the rest of your day will be nicer. instead of saying you are not really pretty, say, u got it and your going to learn how to bring it out so everyone else can see it. when u look better you will feel better. like i said treat yourself. if what u got going on right now isn't working for u then fix it. then walk up to the first guy that peaks your interest and ask him out. do not get discouraged if he says no. just smile and say thanks and try again with another. and when u do get to no someone don't be to loud
good luck i am sure u are beautiful and soon u will know it to.
2007-09-02 19:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kim N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should always put little effort 2 your appearance if your looking 2 attract someone. the first thing someone sees when they look at you is your outward appearance. bate them with your looks and outward attitude hook'um with your mind and heart. but in doing this make sure you don't forget who you are .( there is so much more 2 people than just looks ) like i said a little effort maybe get dressed up 2 or three time a week . you will feel better about yourself while also being noticed by the men sabby
2007-09-02 19:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.J Snow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just not looking for guys in the right places. Or maybe even giving them the opportunity to like you back/ ask you out. You sound like a catch and if you put yourself out there a little more, wear a little makeup/ smile and flirt with the next cute guy that catches your eye.. watch the tables turn.
2007-09-02 19:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwe. Men love confident women. I'm sure you're pretty, you just have to feel pretty. You'll find someone when you're not looking. Get out and meet people, maybe go to a club and dance and meet guys. Good luck.
2007-09-02 18:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Missy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm maybe it's because of the spiky hair, and the clothes. try wearing more feminine clothes and don't spike your hair let it grow long
2007-09-02 18:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by lukas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like confident women as much as women like confident men. If you are confident in yourself people can pick up on that.
2007-09-02 18:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself b4 anyone else can love you be happy and confident and you will be in a relationship soon
2007-09-02 21:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally like girls with hair beneath the shoulder better, still some girls are hot with it short.. but i find girls with longer hair, hotter
2007-09-02 18:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Drew H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they havnt really noticed you because you are shy =)?
2007-09-02 18:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanna go out sometime? lol...
2007-09-02 19:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by stinky_pitts_101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋