I'll be providing a meal option card with my invites, and was going to send only the healthy options to the bigger people. This way they do something healthy for themselves at my wedding, and the rest of us don't have to watch them suck down pork loins.
2007-09-02 17:25:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why don't you just provide a slop tray for the fatties? Give 'em all a napkin and have 'em belly up to everyone else's leftovers.
2007-09-02 18:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
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2016-05-19 23:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! How rude of you! It's not up to you to make them eat healthy if they don't want to you CAN'T force them! There not your children and shouldn't be treated as such. When they arrive I'm sure they'll be very surprised to see that everyone has the "pork loin" while they have the salad! Also it will bring attention to the fact that YOU think their fat and are ashamed of the! It would really embarrass them in front of the other guests and I'm sure they would end up resenting you and wouldn't have a good time, wouldn't you want everyone to enjoy themselves at you wedding and not make a SCENE! You could always send both options and let them pick at least you gave them the option. And if you are really that worried then DON'T invite them! And seek help for your distaste for fat people!
2007-09-02 17:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Casey 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ha ha ha...sorry, that was hiliarous! Obviously you're kidding right? Just send the same meal option cards to everyone. If they want to suck down pork loins, let them. You want people to be happy at your wedding not chewing off their arms because you only let them eat salad!
2007-09-02 17:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Another baby boy! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone or no one!
It's a wedding not a Weight Watchers meeting.
To save face and the fat chance of hurting feeling's, maybe you and your hubby can pick healthy meal plans for all and without anyone even noticing. It can be done, and I think it would be more a long the Diabetic meal planner. ;-)
Just my 2 cents as I'm an over weight person and my son was married 2 years back, they done it this way.
Congratulations on your up coming marriage.
2007-09-02 17:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're boarderline bridezilla! lol you need to watch that show SOB (socially Offensive Behavior) The restaurant was trying to presuade bigger people to eat the healthier food items and wouldn't serve them. How would you feel (Im thin too, ps) if you order a salad (assuming you're small) and the waiter told you that you had to have a pork chop before you turn into bones and die! That's horrible and offensive b/c those ppl are going to get to your wedding and look around and say "why does she have pork loins and I have a salad!" You're stupid and I wouldn't come to your wedding if you did that!
2007-09-02 17:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by LOVE BEING A MOMMY 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How are they going to feel when they see someone else with another option that wasn't offered to them? Personally I feel you are being completely rude. Yes, eating healthy is important, but that is THEIR choice what they eat. Personally, if you don't like "fat" people, then why are you inviting them? I guarantee you if they knew how you really felt about them, they wouldn't come to your wedding anyway. What do you do? Pretend like you like them to their face so you can get a gift out of them or what?
2007-09-02 18:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Thats actually pretty rude...if you want them at your wedding, it should be because you like who they are, regardless of their size...so by dictating what they can and can't eat at your wedding, you're being a jerk. Plus, how will they feel when they see most of your guests eating pork loins and they're eating tofu? Pretty pissed at you i'd venture to say.
2007-09-03 08:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by its about time 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not your place to be the diet police. If you find fat people so diagreeable and painful to look at, then I suggest you do them the favor of not inviting any of them to your wedding. I assume you would find their choice of money or a gift equally distasteful, so I don't think you should be accepting any of those either.
Weight problems are at least partially genetically influenced. Intolerance and acting like you are superior are far worse faults then being overweight, because you have chosen that for yourself.
2007-09-02 17:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i have a friend who is naturally very thin so it is hard to gain weight. she is very cute and petite and muscular. she is 25 and has already been hospitalized for high cholesterol & kidney stones. these are both a result of her diet. just because someone is thin (nicole richie, mary-kate olson, etc) it doesn't mean they are healthy. perhaps they have a naturally higher metabolism and eat a ton of crap. you should care about the health of all of your guests, not just the ones who are visibly unhealthy.
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2007-09-03 02:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you might offend your friends if you do it that way...your intention might be good but they might not take it nicely...you are obviously hinting that they are fat and you would be grossed out watching them suck down pork loins...i think you should send all your guests the same menu cards and let them choose what they want...it is their bodies and what they do to them is their choice...
2007-09-02 17:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋