Im not, but a lot of people i know are very upset it their bf looks up porn when he's h0rny.
Is this a bad thing?
2007-09-02 16:19:44 · 45 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know i get so tired of people telling us our men liking porn is a bad thing. Listen we all have fantacy's and thats all porn is for men good healthy fantacy's let him be. The only time you need to worry is if he never comes to you for love making and only goes to porn other then that let him enjoy himself or better yet watch it with him lol
2007-09-02 16:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Normal? Who are you to say this is normal behaviour? Maybe it's normal if you live on planet of the apes. Why is it so many of you people think they know what normal behaviour is? What- because you grew up with it, you see it all the time? I guess when you're constantly exposed to trash, you start thinking it's okay, Well, I'm here to tell you it's not!!
Start thinking for yourselves and stop thinking all this trashy indecency is OKAY. Society has brainwashed you into believing that all this immorality is OKAY. Think for yourselves for a change. I'll say it again, It's NOT normal.
I personally think it's a some type of a filler for a void that your boyfriend is feeling. Wouldn't he rather be with you engaging in the "real" thing? I wouldn't tolerate it and no boyfriend of mine would be wasting his time watching that trash.
I have to say that any guy who resorts to that has too much time on his hands and if he doesn't want to be with you, dear, he should be reading a good book, engaging in something a bit more productive. Yuk, I wouldn't want a loser like that in my life. Life is too short and there's too many wonderful things to be doing vs spending time watching porn.
2007-09-02 16:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I am not a fan of porn myself, and if my girlfriend did then I would be a little upset, but I would understand I guess... I mean as long as it's not an addiction.
2007-09-02 16:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well You should except that this is something he enjoys watching. Secondly. I suggest you talk to him about how it makes you feel and explain your anger also Try and funnel where your anger is coming from is it BC the p0rn is "pre-teens" or simply because he enjoys watching other women naked involving sexual things or Are you just umcomfortable with Pornography ? Try to pinpoint it first then discuss it with him Maybe he will stop watching Or lessen the time he spends. If you just get angry and not say anything He may just ignore it and say "hormones" most men's favorite line. The best thing to do Is discuss this with him, Maybe Pull him away from the tv with ur own "playtime" maybe you are giving him less "playtime" since you had the baby?? Think about these things. Hope I helped.
2016-04-03 00:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not upset, then thats between you and your bf and really isn't anybody elses business. And if they are upset over their bf's looking at porn, then thats their business...to each their own, right?
2007-09-02 16:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by De 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. I look at it as well. Heck, I bought most of the Porn magazines we have. a piece of paper can't compete with the real thing, but it can spice things up and give u ideas.
2007-09-02 16:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by lirpa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends how often - if you cant go a week without - ummm what do you do when the porn isnt around -and im not home - - i like a man who can excersize some self control -
2007-09-02 16:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by imissmahboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal, I guess my opinion is bias because i live with three college boys who love boobies, and I have bought porn for my boyfriend. If your boyfriend is looking at porn it does not necessarily mean he is not attracted to you it is just a natural thing for guys to do and its nothing to get mad over if it is done in moderation.
2007-09-02 16:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by Misty L 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
most guys and a lot of girls like porn , my wife will watch it if it has a plot and is filmed on location , BUT, all girls want to be the one that turns there guy on !!!
2007-09-02 16:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Larry S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better to fantasize about the porn girl than sleep with the ho at the office
2007-09-02 16:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by woodenturkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋