I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now off and on. Things seemed like they are going great. I do like this girl a lot but now its becoming more of a pain to get a hold of her. It seems like she only gets in contact with me when I'm the last thing on her list. and lately she has been blowing me off too. so I'm not really sure wtf is going on. I guess I'm getting to a point where I'm about to say screw it and look somewhere else. I guess I'm asking should I stick it out with her or just say screw it?
2007-09-02 16:54:37 · 19 answers · asked by kmitchell1006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come on dude, you just like her, means you can like someone else, who is better looking or better personality. get over of her, move on, screw it!!!!!!
2007-09-02 17:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't into having a relationship with you.
If she were she would have kept you somewhere at the top.
Don't stick it out - screw it!
This girl is dangling you along and you're so far on the bottom of the list, she can't see you! Not a good thing! Break it off and find someone else.
2007-09-03 00:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Madeline B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really liked you back then you would be one of the first things on her list and not the last. I say SCREW it and look for someone else. If she doesn't give you the time then why keep trying. Someone else out there could be waiting for you. Go out and explore.
2007-09-03 00:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Aliana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl that doesn't even TRY to talk to you or be with you, doesn't want to be with you. If you want her, your best bet is to break it off with her and don't even talk to her for 2-3 days. That may make her jealous, and she'll call you up again. Don't sound too eager, just kinda push her away if you can, and then she'll be even more into you once again.
But, most likely, she is too spineless to break it off with you, and is purposely being a ***** so that you will break it off with her. Girls do that all the time because they are so emotional, and don't want to hurt people's feelings.
Sorry bud, you're almost in a lose-lose situation. If I were you, I'd go searching for other girls right now.
2007-09-03 00:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by EuRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of let me just say dating is a game a lot like chess. Women or girls say they want a good guy ,but they don't want a push over! Leave some mystery and stop sniffing after her. Don't play the I like you sooo much card without knowing where you stand and you won't get easily played as easily. Good luck!!!
2007-09-03 00:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by irons of fire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to agree with a lot of people, in hopes that a large volume of answers will convince you we're right.
Ask her directly what's going on, if she still wants to date you, etc... Chances are she knows more about how she's feeling than we do.
2007-09-03 00:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be direct! Ask her if she would like to continue dating you? If she says yes and you want it to be exclusive as her if she is interested in that. If not, move on!
If she is treating you this way now it is because she is making you chase her, or she isn't interested or she may just be scared of being hurt.
A woman want honesty and no games.
Good luck!
2007-09-02 23:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well before you move on.. tell her how you feel about the way she has been treating you. if she tells you honestly that you're not important to her & you guys are just friends then just move on. if she tells you that she wants something more & has valid reasons for treating you that way then give her a chance. there's a point where you might have to learn to respect her priorities at times.
2007-09-03 00:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be str8 up with her - call her up or txt her and tell her that you wanna know where you stand and if shez gonna keep blowing you off then you are walking out of this relationship.
2007-09-02 23:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess basically you can say you've answered your own question. you can actually acknowledge her behavior where others justify it. obviously she doesn't take you as seriously as you take her. not to say that you make her priority but everyone wants someone wants to know that someone wants them. in her case she'd rather let you look forward to her affection and cancel plans that tell you she's not interested in being more than friends. drop her. if it seems too hard, call me ill make everything ok....
2007-09-03 00:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Chocolate_Tai_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋