2007-09-02 21:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe deeply so
for example i was single for like a year looking for love everywhere. but when i stopped looking and got back to my life i found a boyfriend and then another guy liked me too.
im pretty sure people arent attractive to people who try too hard cause confidence and those who go with the flow are sexy
2007-09-02 22:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely... Love is like fate. It will find you. Dont go looking for it because then you will just end up in trouble.
Believe me... that is what I did. I was so desperate to have someone in my life to love that I attracted the "WRONG GUYS" I think everyone knows them. The guy that pretends to be nice and likes your friend and at the end of the day you are not permitted to see your friends or go anywhere without him haunting you.
Well, after my attempt to find Mr Right... I gave up looking... and sure enough... Love found me!!! and he swept my feet out from under me and now we are happy together and having a baby... WODERFUL...
So, my answer to your question... You definately wont find love if you look for it... well, not the right kind of love!
That's my opinion.
2007-09-03 05:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love someone is to embrace the "good, bad and the ugly" about them. In order to achieve this you must truly know them, .. this will take time. With this understanding, you can clearly see that "Love" cannot be found. "Love" is an acquired emotion/attribute and must be reached thru a deep understanding on ones self and what is best suited for you, exalting what is needed in order to achieve true happiness within. Where you can find "love" when looking....is within yourself. Here is the beginning and end of all love. Thru you all else either fails or succeeds. Keep in mind "love" is parallel to a highway called "the test of time." I believe truly it will actually be a "test" of much. Wits, faith, loyalty, judgement, a test of courage and triumph. Love will bring you to your knees at the drop of a dime or criple a self esteem forever. It is very critical to our existance that it is not found easily and therefore respected and embraced when discovered.
2007-09-03 05:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup i believe in it.
Because it is from well known experience that if you run behind anything in life..be it money or love..you end up moving that thing further away from you
If things have to happen...let it happen naturally..let things take their own course in time.
Sure it demands you to be patient in life but trust me when the right time comes and you meet the right person in life..then you will find yourself telling yourself that the wait was all worth it.
You need to divert your mind from the thing you are running after..then only you can succeed.
If you are running too hard behind something chances are that you might even screw it up when you finally get it..it happens sometimes..
So my advice to you would be to let things take their own course ad be a lil more patient
2007-09-03 05:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anon_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Corsica,
How the hell you find something if you ain"t looking for it?????
KNOW what your looking for and keep looking. Work at it and you will find it! DON"T accept less. Make yourself available for it and I guarantee it will come to you like magic.
Well, that's the way I see it..
See ya at the wedding, Inodat
Anon_girl sounds like a track and field star with all her running analogies. This is NOT rocket science here kids, if you REALLY want something in life, go get IT!!!!!!
2007-09-03 05:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by inodat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a psychic just walk up to me in Las Vegas one night and told me to stop looking for love and let it find me. I guess in my case it's apparently true.
2007-09-03 05:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, becaue you end up settling for anyone instead of taking you time.
2007-09-03 05:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I believe it can be found in many forms & fashions.
2007-09-03 05:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...God said seek and you will find....dont wait for mr or miss right to come. go and search. if u dont do it today, what you will find are left overs...
2007-09-03 05:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by blade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes coz i didnt have to search to find mine
2007-09-03 05:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by Letsgofishing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋