Okay So I'm going out with this guy and like we REALLY like eachother. The only thing is, I haven't known him too long and it feels weird (cuhz i'm not a slut like some people) I've known him since february [[ its september now ]] and it doesnt feel like a long time cuhz i dont see him that much. He asked me out I'd say on May 5th I think and uh...I said yes...no duh. I just can't say I love him though. He's the nicest guy in the world and treats me like a princess but I juss don't feel the click. I dont want you to answer like "OH DUMP HIM" cuhz thats what everyone says and if you really think thats the true answer can you tell me why...please help im desperate
2007-09-02 23:18:35 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
[[ We dont live that close to eachother so thats why i dunt see him muc and i have a lot of schoolwork that i need to catch up on]]
2007-09-02 23:25:28 · update #1
i dont think you should dump him. i believe thats not enough time for someone to fall in love with someone. it takes alot of time for you to give your heart to him. if you dont want to dump that mean that you at least like him and you are attracted to him in someways. just give it some more time. good luck
p.S dont listen to what people say fallow your heart and what you feel
2007-09-02 23:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by ss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest cutie I would leave him. I think the only reason why you havent left already is because you arent a s l u t and that you are loyal to whomever you decide to go out with! I applaud you for this! You are a rare breed among women now adays. I am a soldier in iraq right now and I would give anything for a woman like you cutie! Anyways, until you find someone else who will make you have that "in love" feeling and will be there for you more frequently, you feel lonely like this guy you are seeing presently is the best you can do. Dont feel this way cutie! Get out and dont put your life on hold because he cant be there for you like you need him to be. I am glad to hear that there are still women out there that are loyal and loving...All I have ever found was heartache and sorrow when it comes to women...I guess I am just a little lonely and sad as well...Remember to smile! Life is sweet and so are you!
2007-09-09 01:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on school for now. Graduate and get a job. Then go look for him. Men aren't that important. Get your life together first. You stated you don't feel a click. So keep it a friendship level. What's so hard? Stop over thinking the little things.
2007-09-03 06:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Response to your email to me. Since you are not accepting emails I have to go through this route. You question in Religion and Spirituality. With your response to me...people like you are angry and bitter when we Christians don't agree with what you believe. I don't care if you don't believe they way that I do, it is truly your choice. I am not angry with you nor am I going to get angry with you for not believing the way that I do. Your belief or lack thereof does not affect my present or future it only affects yours. I do however feel bad for you. And know this you can email me something but I will not read it because I realize that the reason people like you refuse email because your goal is to give out insults and to make sure you don't get responses to your insults in return. But you should not ask questions if you don't really want other people's opinions....your behavior is really childish.
2007-09-03 10:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seems like a problem.I think you should both work hard to get to know each other.Even if you see him once in a while during the date ask him questions about everything in his life!Besides even if you get to know him better without sparks and chemistry nothing works!
2007-09-03 06:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥©ute$tr@nger♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not put a twinkle in your eyes cause you to jump for joy and real love does and you both want to be around each other this is like buddies going out and if he talks you into something it wouldn't be right caus ethee is no love there take a break and bet you won't miss him either.
2007-09-08 23:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to get to know each other more.... try to hang out more often than only decide if u wanna date this guy for real...
erm... if he rushes u than just tell him nicely tt u r not quite ready coz u feel u dun know him long enuff and u feel u shld get to know him better b4 jumpin into a r'ship...if he really likes u he ll wait for u...
but than again dun drag too long if u feel tt he isnt the right 1 for u.. let him know so neither of u wld get hurt...
GooD LuCk gaL!! ;)
2007-09-03 06:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel "the click" then you should consider moving on. otherwise, you could just be leading him on and making him think you're falling in love, when you're really not. he will develop really strong feelings for you, and if you wait too long to end it, it will hurt him very badly. that would just be cruel. don't lead the poor guy on if you aren't sure about him.
2007-09-03 06:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by KellyKapowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't jump into to anything, don't rush yourself, if there is something there then you will ultimately see, you don't want to end up in the predicament that I am in! For real!!!!
2007-09-08 23:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Boo Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it depends on you..and him. if you guess he has a great chance on you, don't dump him just yet, let him impress you more. and that's if he still is willing to.
2007-09-03 06:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by rainboww.lovee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋