Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

I didn't think she was going to find out but she did. She is willing to give me another chance though. Should I let her give me another chance?

2007-09-03 09:35:16 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and am wondering if u could get married at that age legally in America.

2007-09-03 09:34:24 · 17 answers · asked by john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but had no idea it would seriously upset, how do Imake it up to this guy , eg if Id known we were serious.I would have called ...........this guy seriously rocks my whole world .Iwant to live with him again ,how do you make up to a guy?

2007-09-03 09:31:55 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-03 09:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i was bestfriends with this girl for 5 years then in the 9th grade she was talking bad about one of my good friends who she was also best friends with her then my bf tought that i was the the one that told my other good friend that she was talking bad about her wich wasnt true we were cool with each other for a little while after that but then my bf cousin called me and told me that my bf and along with one of my other friends were talking bad about me calling me a 2face, kiss up, and they said i was really boguz. my bf cousin told me that they said that casue they though i had taken my other friends side wich was not true and that my bf felt like i was ignoring her so what i first though about was il talk to her more but then i started to get mad & i stoped talking to her & now i have a new best friend and alot of bad things have happend since me and my ex bf dont talk any more but the thing is that i really do miss her id like to call her and talk things over w/her shouls i

2007-09-03 09:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we are having a hard time creating a guest list that won't hurt feelings. we want to have a small wedding but our family's are quite big, how do I get out of asking every family member to the wedding? Are there any nice ways to do it?

2007-09-03 09:29:04 · 14 answers · asked by Krysta 1 in Weddings

well liek read my frist story thing well anywasy we were ltaking about it and like then she gave me trey;s # and i caleld it and hsi sis asnwered and htey have caller id and she said she will get trey to call me whn he gets home! ehmagawd help me do i kill myself or something?

2007-09-03 09:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by nastia 2 in Family

my husband died very suddenly - he was fine in the morning, dead when I came home from a brain haemorrage it seems. Bit heavy for this forum I guess, but just thought somebody might know how you're supposed to get through it. 'Early days' not an acceptable answer, nor is 'it will get better in time'!

2007-09-03 09:28:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i sent this guy a mesage on myspace asking him to get together sometime, he replied that same day with "yeah, lets get together sometime" a couple days later i sent him another message asking him when, he replied with "well,i have to work thrus, fri, and sat, and I have softball tonight but I will be out after call me if you want"and left his number.so i called him left a message and two days later he replied with a myspace message apologizing for missing my call and said we would plan something for later in the week.am I being played?

2007-09-03 09:21:35 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

well, i have this friend, hes a boy. and we've been bestfriends ever since 3rd grade. he's a little on the girlish side. his voice is sort of girlish, but he lives in a house with ALL girls. he weras hollister, abercrombie, and american eagle. and everyone always talks to ME about how they think hes gay. i know for a fact that he's not but all the time, they make fun of him and i cant take it anymore. hes my bestfriend, and it hurts hear people talk about him like that. i always deny it, but they alwaysss repeat it to me. he's had girlfriends before, but people have nothing better to do than talk about how he sounds like a girl.

how do i make them stop?

2007-09-03 09:19:59 · 14 answers · asked by kimbaaa! 2 in Friends

it seems like everywhere i go, i hear people talking about divorce, or spliting up, or moving on, or moving out, and lawsuits, and restraining orders, and even murder!!!!! what has happened in the world??? will someone please explain this to me?

2007-09-03 09:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by natyep :] 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Im male, 18 and really skinny. It makes me feel really self conscious :(

2007-09-03 09:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by Answerer 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i went to my parents room to use they're computer, and (me being curious) i looked at the history and there's porn sites!! I also sort of caught my dad looking at porn once, luckily he doesn't know that i caught him...but i'm pretty sure my mom knows about it...but it's making me want to gag and......uhh....it's sooo gross!!! how should i cope with it?

2007-09-03 09:15:28 · 13 answers · asked by The Dreamer 5 in Family

I do not want to judge my friend and her marriage. What I do want is another person’s opinion to see if my view is off base.

My friend (a female) is married to a guy she adored since childhood. He is younger than he and she had a child to a previous relationship before dating and finally marrying him. He had to finish college when first married, but also took part time jobs to equal her income, and made more than she. To make up for not working full time and because she hates to cook, he does all the cooking, cleaning, running errands, yard work and childcare. They now have a child together also.

Often he is approached by women and at work was inappropriately approached to which he opened addressed the matter. She gets mad at him when women are interested in him, yet he never goes out without her, but she likes to have a ladies night out at least once a month where as she dresses to attract men.

She complains that he is not romantic enough, even though he designs jewelry for her, creates romantic trips and treats her life a diamond in the rough.

On vacations and when she is with her other friends, she rebels and acts like he is a loser. He gets quiet and is full of turmoil during these times.

It would break my heart to ever see them part, but I cannot figure out how she can be so thick. If they do break up, she will sleep all the time (like she often does now) and ignore her children and cry he was so rotten. Short of waiting for this to happen, is there a way to get her to understand that she needs to put some effort into her marriage?

2007-09-03 09:15:11 · 21 answers · asked by Traveler 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this guy for 4 years, he said he always wanted to ask me out. we went away for the weekend together. the thing is i wanna know if it just means sex to him.

the thing is i know that he is romantic, just he wasn't particularly with me. not in words anyway. in actions, he bought me a little present, he's trying to get me to do things with his friends more, he lent me his jacket, cuddled up with me. but most of what he says now is like 'you shagged me out. i need to recover! thanks for a great weekend babe' i was just hoping that he'd give just a tiny bit more, like 'i'm so excited' or 'your sweet' or something. i guess the fact that he's texted me a bit after counts for something, but... it sounds funny, we had a good time, i'm not sure why i'm thinking on it so much. i'm not trying to marry the guy, just would like to be more than friends who have sex.

2007-09-03 09:14:57 · 18 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I get to meet decent men without going to clubs/pubs or online? Is it true that it is easier for an 80 yr old to meet men than a 40 yr old?

2007-09-03 09:14:29 · 19 answers · asked by Shady Cat 1 in Singles & Dating

besides the free drinks and casual flirting, (he is a bartender)what are the other signals he would show that he likes you more than a 'bar fly'?

2007-09-03 09:14:14 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 5 foot 5 inches and 14. i'm still growing, but i'm not completely flat chested. i have thick red hair that i straighten, and a lil bit of acne, but u'd never notice. i hav clear green eyes. do u think i'm pretty?

2007-09-03 09:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by red_head423 2 in Singles & Dating

Somehow it seems that the christian idea of boundaries governs everything. Once married there are 'rules' to stifle natural urges and to dictate behavior in a given situation. Overlooking the fact that life expectancy has dramatically changed in the last 75 years, the modern world seems to take such rule bound scrutiny less and less well. Why can't relationships be based on how much people genuinely like each other and not on fascist demonstrations of love? Not necessarily 'open' marriages, but more forgiving ones that allow for natural impulses seems more human, doesn't it?

2007-09-03 09:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-03 09:05:18 · 13 answers · asked by Dirtypool 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I still love him and I've never felt that way about anyone else. Is that normal or am I going insane?

2007-09-03 09:01:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its 4 months now, we have realised that we are attracted to each other. we are very close each ones family, dont know how to overcome this feeling we have for each other. any ideas?

2007-09-03 09:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

honest to god opinion what wrong with me anthing I could change?
im 15 cant even seem to get a date?


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2007-09-03 08:58:08 · 33 answers · asked by Tyler 2 in Singles & Dating

My grandma (moms side)
Treated my mom bad when she was growing up.
I live in TX she live in Nevada.
I see her like 1 week each year
I saw her a month ago.
When we got there the first day she was sooo nice,
The 2nd day i had to take my meds for add
And i said 1 minute cuz i needed to get dressed...
She got really mad came in threw me on the floor and pulled me into the kitchen by the good of my jacket.

That day myom & her got in a huge fight!
Cuz my gma yelled at my little sister for opening a popsicle a ay that wasn't my grandmas way.
So my mom came in and yelled at her & they got in a big fight.

So we went to a hotel to try & get away from her
But if course she came with us!
I had to take a shower but i was trying to find my towel.
So my gma got mad threw me against the wall
Pulled me by the neck all the way to the shower she ushed me in with all my clothes on. Turned on the water. Took out the lightblb so i took my shower in the dark.
When i got out she threw

2007-09-03 08:57:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I agreed to make a list of where I spent money but he is going overboard on it. I have to go down to the penny - including when I buy a bottle of soda when I fill the car up with gas. On the other hand, he takes at least $500 (normally more) from each of his paychecks - paid every two weeks- and I can not ask him where any money goes. He pays none of the bills and does not buy groceries. If I ask him to pick up milk, he wants me to give him the money for it. He got mad when I told him I could not pay all the bills, buy food, get the kids what they need for school, pay taxes & insurance on $500 every two weeks. Now he wants a receipt for everything I get. Plus I have started a temp job and he wants me to pay as much of the bills as I can out of my pay then come to him for every thing else I need. He makes more than double what I make but he thinks I should pay everything and let him have more to save. He even hides thousands by giving it to his mom for safekeeping. Help!

2007-09-03 08:52:19 · 20 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-03 08:51:20 · 12 answers · asked by no name 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Also what does it mean when a guy says a girl has a "really cute sneeze"?

Thanks everybody you rock!

2007-09-03 08:51:13 · 31 answers · asked by full_of_questions 3 in Singles & Dating

i am a chick older late 20's early 30's for ever no other females like me. my husbands mom talks crap about me makes me cry, my sisters are rotten to me and only call me when they need something they treat me like crap and other girls like friends are just mean to me. the invite me to go places and they echnore me. they get together and talk abotu me why me you know why me. my husbands aunt lives alone shes gay and we go to visit her and she is so nasty to me. everyone is so mean to me but men are so nice to me i dont get it i dont. chicks think they can say what ever they want to me. some try to sleep with me and i tell them no and they dont bother me again. men are great.. even my mothe in law why why why

2007-09-03 08:44:30 · 32 answers · asked by christina b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't understand....it's like he just doesn't want to get along. He's nice long enough for us to have sex then right back to being mean. What is going on??? He tells me he loves me at least 10 times a day..but then why try to argue over stupid things? I feel trapped and so unhapy...what do i do?

2007-09-03 08:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-03 08:39:53 · 10 answers · asked by The Artful Dodger 2 in Other - Family & Relationships